Boys only schools consequences
Hello guys can anybody share an insight into how boys only private schools affect sexuality of a man? In my opinion some guys grow up tragically confused lol.They do a lot of things to prove their 'real' man,can be very inadequate even repulsed around big boobs,decidedly prefer girls with boyish figure,always need to endlessly hug their male mate when they're tipsy,the list goes on...:)))
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I do notice that my well-to-do friends are quick to play "homo" and try to touch each others dicks when they are drinking, and I noticed that my friends from the Innercity won't go there.
the other thing I notice is that the higher up the socio economic (to a point, I couldn't tell you about upper upper class) you go the so does level permissible sexuality (there are a lot of swingers in the middle class)
That was such a SIMP questions. @alexrain was right about something. come'on man yourr from SoCal gotta represent better than that.
Should have PM her if it was a real question.
I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay or bisexual. But it's best if everyone can follow their natural preference, gay, straight, whatever as long as they respect others.
since you were asking a question not related to the topic I took a jab...
can someone translate that into English please :)
At least in this film, they didn't lead the cloistered lfe, devoid of all female companionship you expected.
Nowadays, not really such a big deal. Lot less all boy schools and things like the internet and cell phones mean they aren't really isolated from the opposite sex.
I know most (if not all) of the private prep-schools in the east are all now coed.
Places like Choate, Exeter, and Andover. Schools where the Kennedys and Roosevelts were educated.
Women-only schools tend to allow women to let down their guard a little more and focus. I've heard stories of women at women-only schools coming to school in rollers and pajama bottoms, no longer having to be concerned about dolling themselves to impress boys or dealing with male egos, being able to focus better on their schooling and achieve more. Women tend to be more supportive of each other and, together, they get a lot accomplished.
Guys, meanwhile, often feel the need to be consistently more macho when around nothing but other guys as they all try to be the alpha male, making them a little more boneheaded as meathead antics start coming before schooling. They probably also engage in a lot more macho guy bonding type stuff, which is often sexual humor, butt slapping, blah blah blah. Having women around forces guys to be a little more refined and behaved.
I also suppose that yes, those who are more socially sheltered and don't get to spend a lot of time with women outside of school, end up having their effeminate traits almost magnified, in part to avoid the wrath of the alpha male types but in part because they're around nothing but other boys, in a boys-only school. We have a very large one near us, distinctive because they made their students wear blazers in a lot of circumstances (on the bus to games, at events where a slightly nicer dress was appropriate, etc.), and you could tell that it produced both a lot of meathead jocks and a lot of diminutive wallflowers.
As for whether or not it makes guys more homoerotic, or prefer more boyish women ... I dunno, and I don't know enough guys from those kinds of schools to say for sure. So maybe there's something to what you said. But yeah, there definitely seem to be differences between going to a co-ed school or a single-gender institution.
@AnonymousJim- very well said.....you bring up some very astute points.
The one other thing I have to say is every all boys school is either one of those East Coast prep things for the super rich, or else it's ran by the Catholic Church, and we know how much they love their boys there.
They do tend to be institutions for the more well-to-do, upper-middle-class and higher, so there's a good chance these guys will be customers at some point.
We also have a couple hoity-toity prep schools in the area, too. The one that is simply a haven for blue-bloods is co-ed. The other is a military academy that I believe is boys-only but tends to cater to a very specific audience that either really want their kids to eventually head to West Point or feels they really need some discipline.