Steve's thread about trying super expensive beef also raised this question. If you met your dream stripper, would you offer her 1k, 2k, 3k, just to have her? Or would you rather have 10 other girls that everyone can afford? I think I would go for the dream girl at least once.
I think about my ATF, who has kind of disappeared for a while: I'd probably go $600 tops for a night with her. Maybe $650. Definitely not $700.
I'm pretty good at finding diamonds in the rough, so I'd probably rather take my chances with the 10 other girls. Plus, part of the reason why I love this hobby: While the outside world somehow frowns upon variety in sexuality, I welcome it, so I wouldn't mind getting 10 girls rather than just one.
OK I'm cheap, but as I get older quantity goes over quality. The girls both privately and professionally that were low cost repeats are a better memory than the super hot high dollar one hit wonders. Even steaks on the backyard grill have a better taste than the $100 steakhouse ones.
If I made six figures a year, I'd probably consider it -- just once -- just to see what it's like, but the big problem for me is that as soon as one fantasy fades, another appears.
I like quality, but I would never pay $3000. I might offer $1000 for a stripper that I really had to have, but I've found that no pussy is worth more than $400.
The best sex I get is always with a civilian so I wouldn't pay anything extra over a regular hooker no matter who she was. I generally like one girl at a time so I'd take one quality girl over 10 others.
@londonguy -- When was this? Brandi Love is getting a bit long in the tooth. She's still an attractive woman, but if I'm paying a premium it would be for some youth (under 30, preferably under 25)
@zipman. She was offered to me this week. I agree with you to an extent, I don't mind paying premium if the lady is famous and particularly good, but not $3,500. She's one of my fav pornstars and I have jerked off to many of her performances. How about Juila Ann? She's avail for $3,000, or Amy Reid for $2,200 ?
In my experience, the law of diminishing returns definitely applies to paying up for perceived quality. Indeed, my most expensive OTC adventures ended with lackluster performances in the sack. Now I probably overpay a bit in many places in order to score strong talent, but $500 is my limit and she'd better irresistible. Paying anything more is just a waste in my book.
Timely topic. A few weeks ago I had a night with my absolute dream stripper. It was incredible. I've been meaning to post the story but haven't had time yet. Bottom line is choose quality. My night with her was unbelievable. Cost me about $600 total but I would've paid much much more if I had to. Details to follow.
She wouldn't be a dream girl if I had to pay money. Forget that. Now if you rule out dream girls and just count hot girls you would fuck for money, I think I would still pass. I can find decent looking girls for no charge.
For me, when it comes to someone like Brandi Love (I had to look her up), it's not a question of whether or not I'd pay $3,500 for an hour with her....it's more like, "would I cross the street if she was on the other side waving a $100 bill and shouting 'come here and I'll pay you to fuck me !!" ??
For me, the biggest problem with paying big bucks for a hot chick is, when it's all done, and you're driving home, will you be kicking yourself for spending a bunch of money for an hour or two of pleasure? Was it really worth it? Yeah, maybe with a very rare girl it's worth it, but IMO it isn't worth the risk.
My dream stripper can only be found in Vegas and I already found her. Paid VIP and was the happiest man for that night. She was the one who approached me, stayed with me for at least one hour before buying the idea of going to the VIP.
I know exactly how you feel alabegonz, I think it was my first or second trip to Vegas when I had an OTC with the hottest babe in Rhino. Went to her room following afternoon, cost me $500 for what she said would be an hour, she gave me a lot longer time at no extra cost. One of my best sessions ever.
When it comes to dancers; I often prefer 6s and 7s b/c IME I often get better mileage/QoS.
So my first thought w.r.t. the OP was I def would rather have 10 girls for $X than 1 girl for $X.
But as I read thru the thread; I kinda changed my mind.
Assuming that the experience would be great; instead of a more style than substance thing; and she would deliver; I think I’d go for the one dream girl.
I came to this deep philosophical conclusion :) thinking back when I’ve been in a SC and I’ve seen a girl that kinda made everything come to a complete stop where one could not even hear the music anymore and I knew I had to have her b/c I rarely seen a girl like that.
Im too conservative I guess. I get some fine pussy from 9-10's for $300 an hour when I start them down my GFE route. I have never paid them more than $300 per hour and I'm well satisfied with the quality I get.
If I like her, then I'll try to pay what she wants, what seems fair, and what I can afford. But it isn't ever going to end up like the kind of trade off people are suggesting.
I mean if she looks good to me and we try to interact and it isn't working, then I'm not going to try to give her money to fix the problem. If we can't get along, then we can't get along, and so I'm not going to be giving her any money.
I would never try to buy the affections or approval of any of them. The money is just as it will be customary in that environment.
I remember one awesome young Vietnamese girl, 22yo and with fashion model looks. I had done two of their other women, and I'd gotten them to accept the friend price, $100 on top of the $60 for the hour house fee.
But when I decided to do this one and I showed up, she was on her period. So we did something I usually don't do, HJ till completion. But I made it as two way as possible of an experience. She really liked it.
Then I marked it all down on my calendar and decided when I would return. So I did, and once we got in the room she said, "I can make love today. I'll only charge you what the others charged." She could have held out for more, as she had the looks. Except that I don't really interpret it that way, and seems she did not either. It was great. Seeing how naturally she responds and all I said, "You aren't used to this." She really was something, as I would see stuff other people were writing about her in future years.
I don't really see it as a trade off between costs and looks. If I respect the girl and she respects me, we will be able to make something happen. But if that respect is not there, going to higher amounts of money will not fix the problem, it would make it worse. So I won't go there.
Having said this, I also am taken with Jesrite50's many postings about how he passes money out quite freely, just as an act of good will. I am assimilating this and plan to also be doing that.
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I think about my ATF, who has kind of disappeared for a while: I'd probably go $600 tops for a night with her. Maybe $650. Definitely not $700.
I'm pretty good at finding diamonds in the rough, so I'd probably rather take my chances with the 10 other girls. Plus, part of the reason why I love this hobby: While the outside world somehow frowns upon variety in sexuality, I welcome it, so I wouldn't mind getting 10 girls rather than just one.
Exactly, Slick. $4,000 is what, one month's apartment rent, right? So really no big deal.
For me, the biggest problem with paying big bucks for a hot chick is, when it's all done, and you're driving home, will you be kicking yourself for spending a bunch of money for an hour or two of pleasure? Was it really worth it? Yeah, maybe with a very rare girl it's worth it, but IMO it isn't worth the risk.
So my first thought w.r.t. the OP was I def would rather have 10 girls for $X than 1 girl for $X.
But as I read thru the thread; I kinda changed my mind.
Assuming that the experience would be great; instead of a more style than substance thing; and she would deliver; I think I’d go for the one dream girl.
I came to this deep philosophical conclusion :) thinking back when I’ve been in a SC and I’ve seen a girl that kinda made everything come to a complete stop where one could not even hear the music anymore and I knew I had to have her b/c I rarely seen a girl like that.
I never have seen "that" girl, not even my ATF.
You know me and use the word "stud"? Keep away from the drugs! :)
I mean if she looks good to me and we try to interact and it isn't working, then I'm not going to try to give her money to fix the problem. If we can't get along, then we can't get along, and so I'm not going to be giving her any money.
I would never try to buy the affections or approval of any of them. The money is just as it will be customary in that environment.
I remember one awesome young Vietnamese girl, 22yo and with fashion model looks. I had done two of their other women, and I'd gotten them to accept the friend price, $100 on top of the $60 for the hour house fee.
But when I decided to do this one and I showed up, she was on her period. So we did something I usually don't do, HJ till completion. But I made it as two way as possible of an experience. She really liked it.
Then I marked it all down on my calendar and decided when I would return. So I did, and once we got in the room she said, "I can make love today. I'll only charge you what the others charged." She could have held out for more, as she had the looks. Except that I don't really interpret it that way, and seems she did not either. It was great. Seeing how naturally she responds and all I said, "You aren't used to this." She really was something, as I would see stuff other people were writing about her in future years.
I don't really see it as a trade off between costs and looks. If I respect the girl and she respects me, we will be able to make something happen. But if that respect is not there, going to higher amounts of money will not fix the problem, it would make it worse. So I won't go there.
Having said this, I also am taken with Jesrite50's many postings about how he passes money out quite freely, just as an act of good will. I am assimilating this and plan to also be doing that.
SJG