What would you have done?
Last night I was at a club talking to a dancer whom had came and sat at my table after a dance. This was my first time talking to her although I had seen her some months ago at another club. We were just carrying on a general conversation when she stated that she was hungry and that she could go for some hotwings to eat. I replied "Well you couldn't send by someone to go get anything?" She said no because there are no fastfood places near by(This club is off of a county Hwy about 10miles from the nearest town.) I then asked well what time are yall closing? she said "usually around 3:00a.m. but I don't know about tonight since it is a good crowd in here." (It was currently about 12:30 at the time). I felt bad that she was hungry and couldn't get anything to eat, I would have to drive 10 or 12miles just to get some real food for her to eat and then I would be wasting my gas money coming and going to help her out. She didn't ask me for any help but I just don't like to see anyone go hungruy whether they are a stranger or not. I didn't have much money left on me and I was kind of hungry myself. If I had of offered to get something for her I don't know whether she would have given me some money to pay for the food or not. Moreover, I would have looked like a fool to some of the customers and management driving out of my way to help a stripper I don't even know. So what would you guys have did or said? I wanted to help her but, I didn't know if it was worth going out of my way, especially if I didn't know if she was going to pay me back for getting her something.
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Maybe I am just synical, but I think just about any time a dancer asks you for something you should be hesitant. They are trying to make a living at you expence, no matter how much you like a stripper I would not go to far out of the way for them unless you thought you honostly had a chance for a relationship outside the club that you wanted to persue. They make way to much money for you to feel guilty for them and their work situation.
That is bad. But, it is a lot worse than a scammed dinner. Future experiences with other strippers are NOT as pleasing. And, some nice dancers are going to pay the price as well. I don't get too upset for long with stripper scams because they are really cheap (in my case) and don't have terror of law on their side. The court system makes regular crooks look like angels.
Offer a solution to a woman?! Supposedly women don't want solutions they just want a friendly ear. ;)
If you wanted to be super nice, then you could have lobbed a question answer at her such as "If you're paying, then I'm driving." Her reaction could be very telling.