If you find out a dancer only lives about 3 miles away, do you try to hook up or

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• shadowcat

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  10 years ago

  I live 37 miles from my favorite club. A couple of weeks ago I was talking with a new favorite and found out that she lives close to me. She is the only one that I have ever met that lived that close. The thought has occurred to me that this could be handy for OTC but it could also be a curse. What if she starts wanting favors because I am close by. I need to think about it some more.
• Dougster

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  10 years ago

  If she's your type the go for it!
• londonguy

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  10 years ago

  I would be wary, if things go wrong you could regret it if she is close by. Depends on your instinct I suppose, it is a grey area.
• SlickSpic

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  10 years ago

  Go for it. Just cause you both live near one another doesn't mean that you need to meet up at each others' home. Find a notel close by.
• lopaw

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  10 years ago

  If given a choice between a "6" locally or a "9" further away, I'm going long distance. Settling for the 6 thats closer is just being lazy.
• ATACdawg

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  10 years ago

  Slick, was that a motel or a "notel" motel? ;)
• gatorfan

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  10 years ago

  Have you considered stalking her? 3 miles is an easy stalk out
• Club_Goer_Seattle

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  10 years ago

  Shark, your key comment is, ". . .. if you're not interested in them for dances, would you try to hook up anyway?" For me, if I'm not even willing to give a dancer a trial in the club, I certainly wouldn't want to see her OTC, no matter how close she lives to me.
  
  However, I have had better success with getting dancers OTC the closer they live to me. That's especially if they live closer to me than the club they work at. But, I do have my "comfort limits" (distance) with that. I rejected even getting dances at my local club once because a dancer I was talking to lives in the adjoining condo complex to mine. She could walk to my house in five minutes. She was fairly hot and within my "type" range, but the thought to getting friendly with a dancer that close (geographically), dissuaded me from even starting an ITC relationship with her.
• SlickSpic

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  10 years ago

  The Notel Motel
• sclvr5005

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  10 years ago

  @Club_Goer-
  I guess I don't get what your fear is. If I had a fairly hot stripper living in the apt complex next to me I wouldn't hesitate to hook up if she was willing. What's your concern? That she knows where you live? That if it goes south that she'll pull a Fatal Attraction on you?
• steve229

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  10 years ago

  Okay, which is it - an apartment complex or a condo complex?
• pensionking

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  10 years ago

  If you are single -- clearly, go for it.
  If you are married and mongering in secret -- no way. Don't shit (or fuck around) where you eat.
• jackslash

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  10 years ago

  My ATF used to live only a few miles from me. It was convenient for her to come to my house for OTC. I would sometimes go to her house and pick her up to out somewhere or to take her to her club. I only fucked her a couple times at her house, because I was concerned that her boyfriend might come home unexpectedly. I'm too old to be jumping out of bedroom windows.
• SlickSpic

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  10 years ago

  C'mon Jack, we're never too old to be jumping out of bedroom windows.
• shadowcat

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  10 years ago

  I can still handle a 1st floor window but 2nd or 3rd floor windows are definitely a no no. :)
• SlickSpic

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  10 years ago

  Haha. That goes for us all. I ain't Lee Majors.
• JohnSmith69

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  10 years ago

  No tits, and not worthy of a dance. Why would you bother?
• sharkhunter

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  10 years ago

  I guess the question became hypothetical after I decided I did not want dances. However she's not the first dancer that may live near me that I've run into. I usually don't bother to ask where dancers are from but if they ask me and then volunteer the information, I find out.
• Clubber

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  10 years ago

  As one that doesn't OTC, it really doesn't matter where they live. I've only known the locations of 2 or 3.