A Good Question. A Good Answer?

“… Have you been with a lot of other dancers? …”

In all fairness – that is a relative question :)

Pat, I'd like to buy a vowel - is there an "e"?

What's the definition of "a lot". To you 100 might mean no but to some one else it might be a lot. But you gave her the right answer if the goal was to get what you wanted.

It should have been the right answer. Fewer girls equals lower STD risk right?

But who knows how strippers think. Maybe she would reason that if that many others deemed you safe so should she. Or if you had something and you had passed it along word would have gotten around about you. (With their traffic, though, it would, of course be impossible to know who they something from - assuming they had nothing themselves to begin with.)

So the answer is "maybe but who knows for sure".

Was that the right answer for her? Obviously our opinion's not going to get you blown.

Was that the right answer for her? Obviously our opinion's not going to get you blown.

But really – why bother asking the question – as if people in strip clubs are always honest :)

I would have slapped the bitch up, like we was on Jerry springer, and told her it is none of her business

The correct answer is that I've been with the best dancers.

The answer is, if a P4P girl has decided against doing BB (BJ or FS), accept it or move on. It is (at least potentially) a health risk. It's like offering someone a cigarette, and then badgering them to smoke one if they say no.

To Shadowcat point "no" was the right answer. The correct answer was "yes" compared to any strip club goer. I don't get as many bbbj as everyone else because I don't force the issue and take what I can get. I still get more bbbj then I should because if she will do me bare back how many other strangers and drug addicted boyfriends has she blown bare back?

Stupid question on her part. All it takes is one girl to give you, and subsequently her, an STD. How many you've been with, while a statement on odds, still doesn't guarantee anything.

Nonetheless, to get what it's implied you want, "No" is the correct answer. Because that will make her feel like it's safer. You don't want to sound like it's your first time, because then she's going to think, "Why is he setting the terms?" (Goodness knows we all know it's not.) But you don't want her to think you've banged every dancer in Detroit.

She sounds fun. You might have to PM me more info as I'll be in that area in another couple weeks.

You gave her the answer that she needed to hear.

This question falls in the same category as "Are you clean?" and "You know I don't normally do this, right?" The answer is meaningless because most guys will just tell her what she wants to hear, but it's enough to provide her with emotional justification for what she's about to do.

I have a solemnly earnest expression that I use when these questions come up. It works for snake oil sales too. ;)