Cock blocking ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I tend to be a bit of an impatient guy.
When I go to a SC; I just want to get what I went there for (and what I'm paying for). I can understand sometimes not getting what I want b/c I do not find dancers to my liking. for example - so I understand and accept that.
I also enjoy getting lots of dances from many different dancers – so I'm a weird PL in that I actually prefer the “wanna' dance†shit rather than spending lots of time talking about things I am not interested in (plus – I don't go to the SC for conversation – personally).
So I often get frustrated when a dancer I am not interested either sits beside me for extended periods of time or tries to hold a conversation when I am not interested. This especially frustrates me when there is a dancer that I'm interested in is busy or in the DR; and finally when I see my chance at her; I find myself being cocked blocked by the dancer I'm not interested in.
Ok – so I'm kinda rambling here – but have you found yourself frustrated at not getting the dancer you want b/c you are being cocked blocked by a dancer you have no interest in? Do you have a preplanned go to move to get rid of the unwanted dancer asap?
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If you see a dancer you like when another dancer is sitting with you, who won't take the hint, do what I do and ask the hot dancer you are interested in for some dances. I did have one dancer who I asked mention that another dancer was with me, and I flat out told her, "I am not interested in the dancer sitting me, she just hasn't taken the hint."
If I'm interested in a dancer, I'll go sit down by the dancer and start talking with her.
Subraman should be along any minute now to tell you wimps to "man up"
I wound up taking her to VIP ans at least she didn't disappoint.
On a positive note, I've had dancers who could tell I wasn't into them go get the dancer I was interested in.
So it works both ways.
Just think of the dancer sitting with you as your side-kick (or rather side-chick).
We guys visit clubs to hang out with dozens of beautiful women. Play it that way. That is your right.
These are some of the ways my side-chicks have been useful:
1. Ask her to go get that hot new dancer for you - especially if the hottie just headed back to dressing room. (Tip your side-chick)
2. If your side-chick is social and nosey - ask her for scoops - which dancer goes how far and what's on the overall menu
3. When your hottie shows up - buy a dance for the hottie - from this side chick. Trust me - the hottie will be all over ya rest of the evening.
4. If you are short on money that evening and the side-chick wants a dance - just tell her - too many women to meet, too little money.
5. If you have money but not interested in the side-chick - and she wants a dance - ask her what can she do for you. (I'm sure each one of us has fantasies that not every dancer will do !) Be prepared for some nice surprises from the side-chick.
Side-chicks are generally useful. If this gal is foregoing income to simply sit with you - you must be charismatic too. At least think that way.
Of course - side-chick or not - if the dancer has poor hygiene, or way way drunk or a large whale that somehow sneaked into the club (fugly) - flag club management.
No,no,no,just kidding.The only true cockblocker I find are your avatar pics.