elrod

"Can I rub your balls?"

If you're looking for massage, a great place to go is craigslist.org, look in the services-> erotic section. A lot of "escorts" post there but I've seen a good deal of advertising for massage from individuals and businesses. It may depend on your specific geography though......

Gotta be 2-way, both in attitude, eyes, hands and trust. I agree with FONDL, would rather have an intimate moment with reduced contact than a mechanical rough-housing. Anyone had an LD where there was a lot of contact by the dancer but she wouldn't look you in the eyes or you could see her staring off into space uninterested?

I wouldn't drive anywhere, the clubs in Toronto are great and shouldn't be passed up including the Brass Rail/Upper Rail combo and others.

I like a mixture of both but recently the dances that I didn't like usually involved a lot of time spent with their back to me, easier for a dancer to stay un-engaged and to stare off in space that way.