As many of us know, flowers are almost always appreciated by the ladies. I can vouch that flowers have either gotten me out of the doghouse or into the panties. Now, this is limited to civie gals. I have never given a stripper flowers.
Has anyone on the board ever given strippers flowers? If so, in what context? Positive or negative experiences, please share.
@Slick - Twice, but not in the club. Both times I took my then CFs out to dinner for their birthdays I brought them cards & flowers.
I would never bring flowers into the club. I do enough humiliating PL stuff as it is, lol
@Shadow - she sent flowers to your house? Maybe she thought you had passed away?
I bought an ATF flowers on her birthday.
Never given any woman flowers, including my wife of almost 25 years.
@Skibum-What about the flower of the Cannabis plant?
I have given flowers to favorite strippers and my AFT on birthdays and Valentine's Day or when they were feeling down. Always outside the club. The strippers liked the flowers a lot.
@Hotstuff-You speak the truth-Money,Money,Money,Money...Money.
Flowers, no. Flower yes. It was to my ATF and not in the club. It was the day she came into the club, asked me to wait for her. She came out a bit later and told me she had just quit and needed to talk to me. We arranged a restaurant as a place to meet. I could tell she was upset and on the way there, I got a single rose for her. When I handed it to her in the parking lot, she broke down crying. Took a lot longer than I would have expected for her to regain control before we went inside.
I should've bought you flowers And held your hand Should've gave you all my dollars When I had the chance Taken you to the VIP 'Cause all you wanted to do was dance Now my baby's dancing But she's dancing with another PL
I did bring flowers to my atf a couple of times. I would leave them with the door girl on my way in. She was good friends with my atf. I would tell my atf there was something st the front door for her. She liked getting them but told me the same thing as hot stuff said. I did the money roses and made ones into a chain of hearts for bracelets or a necklace. That was more appreciated.
My atf told me most dancers dont like getting flowers because they automatically think "stocker"
@joe - I think she meant "stalker" not "stocker" - unless she was talking about Bag Boy James, lol
@Steve-Quick. Ahahahaha.
@ steve I like your style
I did once. One of my old favorite clubs used to allow a guy selling flowers to come in and sell flowers, and I got one for my favorite dancer. She liked it.
Bull,
You state, "Unless you know otherwise... which would mean you trust her... which probably means you should just kill yourself now and save the pain." That may be the case in many experiences, but certainly not all. I would bet there are many here that have or had an ATF that would never fit your idea of an ATF. Trust would be a requirement for a dancer to be my ATF.
Nuh uh. Never have given a stripper anything other than some money and the occasional head cold. Have given the wife flowers to get out of the doghouse, like Slick mentioned. And have given my mom flowers on Mother's day. But that's about it.
When my ATF was still living with her boyfriend, I gave her a dozen roses several times, and she displayed them prominently in her living room. I know this because I saw them in her house. Maybe she was trying to make her boyfriend jealous.
I knew my ATF's bf. When she was with me in the club and he came in, he would go dance for him, then return to me. After sometime, she told me she was moving in with him. I still saw him in the club. Never spoke a word with him, but acknowledged each other with a nod.
She came to me when they broke up. See post above.
There is a guy that walks through the Columbus clubs with flowers and you can pay him $5 to buy a rose for a dancer. I have seen him at Kahoots and Columbus Gold - not sure if he visits other clubs on his weekend rounds or what.
Flower seller are quite common in S. Florida establishments, but have yet to see one in a SC.
I used to deliver flowers when i was in my late teens. It was always fun delivering to the local clubs as I usually got tipped with a peep show or a lap dance. i was a lot younger and cuter back then.
Yes, once in a while I would give my ATF flowers. Individual ones, because she liked to wear them in her hair. Her reactions always seemed genuine.
I’ve read the topic of flowers and/or gifts being discussed on SW – seems most dancers side along the lines of what “Hotstuff69†mentioned in that simple gifts are ok but they rather have the $$$ instead (I would imagine expensive gifts are another thing).
I think most dancers do a much better job than PLs of keeping it as business in the club – IMO – most dancers probably feel uncomfortable w/ PLs giving them gifts as this may make the PL clingy and maybe thinking there is more to this than just business and cash.
I would think flowers from some PLs may be sincerely appreciated by some dancers – but I think most of the dancers don’t put much stock in that and some would rather not have to deal with that type of PL interaction.
You wanna show a dancer you like her – do like Jerry Maguire and show her the $$$.
Yes. I have given flowers to two strippers. My ATF and my original ATF and they were greatly appreciated. But I'll go you one further.
My original ATF sent ME flowers at my home via FedEx. I was at work when they arrived and my daughter told me that I had a package as soon as I got home. Talked about being shocked and I didn't know how to explain this to my daughter. so I lied and told her that my union had sent them in remembrance of my mothers passing two months earlier.
A couple of days later I told her the truth. She was impressed that a stripper had sent me flowers.