Help! I Feel Intimidated By Strippers!
I know that I like to talk like I'm a(n internet) tough guy around here and how people should "be a real mean" and "be in control", but, lately, I've done something I've rarely ever done before. Compared my talk with my actions. From it, I've come to conclusion that I feel intimidated by strippers. Consider the following -For ten years I didn't have the cojones to "just ask" strippers if I could pay them for sex. I had to write The System, which is all about me projecting a false image of who I am. Wearing the suit. Being sly. Try to act like I was the Gordon Gekko I tried but failed to be. Rereading it is even a bit funny that I was so insecure, even around hookers, that I thought I had to pretend to be all that just to pay them for sex. Then I thought it was such an accomplishment the rather few times (35%) it actually happened, that I thought it was a real triumph when it was, of course, nothing.
Then there was the time I stayed at home for months on end on those nights when both my favorites were working. You see I was sacred that if one saw me talking to the other she would get mad, and that was not a situation I could deal with it.
So, yeah, I'm a total pussy. Is there anything I can do to feel less intimidated around strippers or am I condemned to always be a total pussy?
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Don't think there is much you can do about it, RickyBoy, just have to accept what you are.
Maybe someday you'll be something other than a 10,000 (probably double if factoring aliases) post count troll. Seriously dude. There are some guys who share because they do, and then there is you. ;)
It is simple really. Because they have: (1) nothing real to share, so they are limited to making shit up; (2) nothing better to do, since they are homebound on a limited income ; and (3) nowhere else to go, because no other site will have them.
Glad I could help. ;)
LOL.
I would NEVER ask them to accept money for sex. I know people do this. I guess the dancers who do this, accept this kind of approach. But other dancers do not like it.
If you met her in the supermarket checkout line, would you approach her that way? Of course not. I would just approach them like you want a civilian date. If she wants to turn it into P4P, then that is her business.
If you don't like this, like because you are married and want some implied assurance that this is strictly professional, then go to the very highest mileage places where all they do is FS - ITC, or some of these lingerie modeling / adult entertainment places, where it works that way. ie brothels.
The strength of strip clubs is that people who had to grow up as nerds, finally get to use their superior social skills and get to be treated like kings.
SJG