New to the discussion board, so forgive me if this topic has already been explored.
Have you ever done anything that resulted in you getting a free dance? I used to be active in alt.sex.strip-clubs, and there was a guy in there who gave me some good advice. Give her a massage during the lap dance. Massage whatever you can. Don't be overtly sexual. You'll be surprised what a simple backrub gets you.
I figured I'd give it a try. I have now received a free dance (or its equivalent) in two different clubs. One in Erie, PA and one in Pittsburgh, PA. The girls liked the backrub so much, they didn't want to stop. And hell, I wasn't gonna.
I suspect the girl has to be having a good night or be extremely tired for this to work. Has anybody else had this kind of success with this approach or any other?
Understand, I wasn't TRYING to get her to give me a free dance, it's just sort of interesting that it happened in two different clubs.

