I got a dance the other night from a french babe who was easily a 10, however she was lifeless during the LD, and lazy on stage. Have you guys noticed this as well?
Not from my experience. Some of the best dances I ever got were from a smoking hot blonde spinner who was disappointed if your hands didn't roam a lot during the dance.
The worst VIP trip I ever had was from the most beautiful girl that I had ever taken. I guess she was so popular because of her looks that she didn't have to work at pleasing her clients. I never even bought a $10 dance from her after that.
You can't pigeon hole a group because of a few bad apples. I've had great times with 10's & bad times with 10's. The same with 5's. It all depends on the lady. My CF is a lazy stage dancer but she gives mind-altering blow jobs.
I don't know. I haven't had enough lappers from 9's and 10's to be able to conclude that the really hot strippers give poor lap dances.
That said, I recently got a 10 minute session from a girl who was a 9 and she was so disappointing. She seemed like one of those dancers who wanted to do the bare minimum and that's it.
It's a shame too because she would have gotten my cash regularly if it weren't for her poor performance
The worst dance I ever had came from a solid 9.8. It was the only time my radar ever failed me. It was really pretty weird because she often walked naked in the club and was very friendly. I think that she sold more dances once than any other girl in the club.
On the other hand, I got several of the best dances from a 9.9 in the same club. Go figure.
I would agree with slick. I had an awesome dance from a German girl that was at least a 9.5. One of the best ever. I have had some really shifty ones from ugly ones also
Ugly girls get lay too.
Its ALL about attitude.
If a girl isn't in the mood, is bored, or a dog shit business sense the lapdance ain't worth the time.
WHY expect a great LD from a girl who is lay or distant on stage ?
I can barely even remember the last time I saw a girl who I thought was a 10 or close to it. They always seemed to want a lot more money for lap dances than other dancers so I usually didn't bother. I never thought there was anything special about their dances. Oh, just remembered a girl who I thought was a 10. She became one of my favorites and I did really enjoy her dances. She didn't charge me any more than the regular prices. The way she looked at me on stage when I tipped her, I kept getting the feeling the entire club was watching her strip tease in front of me.
Most think the hottest dancers don't give very good dances, but my ATF was easily the hottest dancer in a club of hot women, and she gave me great dances. In general it was a non-extras club but she gave the best dances I ever had in the club.
But reading some comments on boards about her, not everyone agreed with me. So, what can I say?
Some hotties are so full of themselves and act like they are going you a favor by just talking to you. There are plenty of them around. Every once in a while a 9 or 10 gives a solid performance but it seems to be a rare thing.
In general, I think they do, but one of my old faves was easily a 9 and she was an excellent lap dancer. It's too bad she worked in a no-extras club, because I think she would have done well at one.
When dancers are more popular than others, then they are in the driver's seat. They expect bigger tips than any of us are willing to pay. Or, they decide they can skip types of contact they find unpleasant, and still meet their income goals.
In my case, I think I'm going to stick with Black dancers as favs. They have to be more limited about tip expectations, no matter how hot they are, because so many custies are fixated on whiteness. Course that may change as people with old thinking die off.
In my experience the hotter the dancer the worse the dance but it is just a generalization. In the past due to inexperience I let beauty override the fact they weren't great conversationalists or showed a ton of interest.
I happen to agree with “illbb†on both his points.
IME - I often get more mileage from the less attractive or less popular dancers – but this is just in general; not a certain occurrence.
And w.r.t. black dancers – IME they will often give you your money’s worth and then some; most are certainly not shy about grinding and letting you touch.
Ya pays yer money, ya takes yer chances.
Sometimes they can surprise you and give a helluva good dance, but mostly they just want to take your money for allowing you to look & talk to them.
The more I think about it the more I agree that hotties are generally lazier. Perhaps they think dudes are paying for their time, and looks and not their skills. That being said, I may just have to conduct more research! Lol!
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That said, I recently got a 10 minute session from a girl who was a 9 and she was so disappointing. She seemed like one of those dancers who wanted to do the bare minimum and that's it.
It's a shame too because she would have gotten my cash regularly if it weren't for her poor performance
On the other hand, I got several of the best dances from a 9.9 in the same club. Go figure.
Its ALL about attitude.
If a girl isn't in the mood, is bored, or a dog shit business sense the lapdance ain't worth the time.
WHY expect a great LD from a girl who is lay or distant on stage ?
But reading some comments on boards about her, not everyone agreed with me. So, what can I say?
However the best fucks I have ever had with strippers and escorts are with the best looking girls.
In my case, I think I'm going to stick with Black dancers as favs. They have to be more limited about tip expectations, no matter how hot they are, because so many custies are fixated on whiteness. Course that may change as people with old thinking die off.
IME - I often get more mileage from the less attractive or less popular dancers – but this is just in general; not a certain occurrence.
And w.r.t. black dancers – IME they will often give you your money’s worth and then some; most are certainly not shy about grinding and letting you touch.
Sometimes they can surprise you and give a helluva good dance, but mostly they just want to take your money for allowing you to look & talk to them.
Fair to say I've had all four.
Protip: The better the club, generally speaking, the more likely the hot girls will be good dancers.