SCORES in NY 20 years ago allowed to have sex inside?

If you please put your thoughts down in a much more coherent manner, I may better be able to assist you.

She says there was no contact between dancer and client. Is that true?

If you think that, why are you with her.

She's definitely a slut. She gave all the guys $5 blow jobs.

You got ripped off Jack. I paid $2.5o.

I'm asking.
I want to know if she was a slut or just a victim without doing anything heavier but Just dancing topless. It is acceptable under the circunstances…But touching and been touched is diferent.

lol

micjunior- what type of services do you look for when you go to a club? Light contact? Heavy contact? BJ? FS?

Take a GUESS.

But 20 years ago it was not allowed, wasn't?

Why not answer the question, micjunior?

sometimes it's hard to put into words what we are trying to say, but from what I can gather, if she says she doesn't turn tricks, then perhaps she doesn't?

I'm love with her but don't wanna get a relation with a former slut!
Now she is very nice, a mother of a nice boy, serious woman, but I don't feel confortable imaging her doing this to live! Imagining her naked for other men for money…Dancing sexually…It sucks my friends!

micjunior - You're looking for love in the wrong places.

Dancers never lie! That was the only exception to Dr. Gregory House's rule. ;-)

Hey idiot! You don't love her if you're going to judge her from 20 years ago.

Idiot? Why such agressive word?
How about if you found out that your wife was a prostitute or a big slut on the past?

Mic, my best guess is that you are not good enough for her, and she hasn't found someone better due to self-esteem problems. Course I'm guessing based on very little info, so it's not worth much.

Suppose you and her moved to a far away place where you knew no one. Would you still be so worried that she might be lying about this? If you wouldn't, there's good chance the smart thing for you to do is to stop hanging with all or most of your current friends. With some patience, you could find a new set of friends, who had a bit more capacity for empathy towards women.

What are you, 18? And she's 40? What is your big deal with the "past?"

Again with this topic? You didn't get enough feedback the last two or three times you asked similar questions? You're *stil* stressing over shit she *might* have done twenty god damned mother fucking years ago?

Or are you a 12 year old troll who has nothing better to do than engage in moral hand wringing to people who don't care.

I repeat what I said in your last thread. You're not ready. Move on.

this same question has been asked multiple times? Someone is desperate for love I see. I thought money was a cure all disease for that.

Just what I thought. Dicklessjunior your a pathetic hypocrit. GTFO.

I've lost interest in OP. As gmd said you've posted same ?? before but seem compelled to repeat it.

"I'm love with her but don't wanna get a relation with a former slut!"

You have nothing to worry about. If your relationship skills are on par with your writing skills then the only relationship you'll have is with your hand.

Lmao well said joker44

Micjunior, I'm going to interpret this as a serious question, despite the fact that you've asked it before...

Short answer, if your SO ever having been slutty bothers you you need to dump her. It appears that you can't accept the idea that she was once a dancer. IF you can't accept that she might have been a slut you should stop wasting her time and your own time. Remember, many non-dancers have slutty periods in their lives. If she was a high school cheerleader how do you know she wasn't getting gang banged by the football team? if you're that down on sluts you need to try to find a virgin. Good luck on that.

Alternatively, you can ask yourself whether she would cheat on you now. If you like her and the answer is "no, I don't think she would cheat on me" it shouldn't matter to you what she did before. Hell, if my SO filmed porno scenes where she drank cum from 100 dudes after being DPed and facialed I wouldn't care. I like her and trust her not to cheat (and I don't cheat -- I I like to look at the pretty girls and get lappers but don't do more -- I just come here to here 'bout the crazy antics of you pervos).

Your hang up on her past is not a good indicator for future relationships with any women. Get over it. Deal with what she is now, not what she might have been in her past. Jealousy is a horrible hang-up which may be a reflection of your own insecurity and to dump blame on another is unfair and potentially harmful.
Do you want to be judged on your past actions (the worst; not the best)? Do you trust her, now? If you feel that you are in love now? Does she have feelings for you? Love can't thrive on distrust and jealousy.. Writing your concerns on this site is like asking the fox to guard the henhouse. Obviously we're all men who have had great success in our relationships.

gawker is right on.

This shit again??

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Here, I've got an idea. Send me her picture and her phone number. I'll check her out and let you know.

No charge.

gmd, you're a truly generous man.

One does one's best.

Zipman and gawker, tks for your answers.
I was ok with that but it seems that is like a rollercoaster, goes up and down the feelings of moving on or going back.
Matter of time, I think stop thinking about it.
Guys you don't need to answer anymore. Tks a million for the positive feedback.

Your posting this cheap here again ?

This crap here again...dam spell check needs more training

I'm going in my time machine now.

Dude it sounds like this was all in the past for her, if you can't get over it, it may be time to move on.