Last week a dancer asked me how I liked her new hair color. She has died it blue. I thought that it looked like shit but remembering my married days, I told her it looked great. I don't think that there is anything to gain by telling them the truth. Just tell them what they want to hear.
Shadowcat, I don't know about you man, but ladies like it when I keep it real. And I usually have no filter so it doesn't matter for me. I remember I told a girl (in a semi-nice way) that her hair is fucked up and she thanked me because she would get a lot of people lying to her even though she felt otherwise. Told a girl very bluntly that her necklace is ugly. She spited me at first; thirty minutes later, she asked my opinion on a new necklace and more. Telling ya man, ladies love honest opinions.
I'm honest with my ATF since we're friends, but the other dancers I'm polite even if I'm groaning inside. I suppose hair can be changed, but if a dancer has a stupid boob job and asks if I like them, I'll say yes.
@rockstar, I agree. If it's something that can't be changed there's probably a lot of downside to being honest. Boob job, bad haircut, bad dye job, or if it's her gunt making her look fat and not the dress. It's not like she can go into the dressing room and fix it in 5 minutes.
But if it's a dumb necklace (like in estafador's example), ugly dress, then being honest at least shows one isn't a total kiss-ass PL.
The only thing she is fishing for is your wallet by resurrecting a dead conversation. 90% of initial conversations are BRUTAL, but a good sales person does not take no for an answer. On the flip, you do sometimes find that 10%.
Blue hair looks good on a Smurf.
I would have asked her age. If she inquired why I would have told her that 22 years ago I went on a bender and fucked a parrot. I was afraid she might be my offspring.
I prefer bubble gum pink to blue, but blue can work.
"Personally I like it, but most customers might be too uptight for it" should be in your custy phrasebook. Probably custy-crap cause you don't actually like it. So what.
Dancers quickly learn not to ask me such questions, if they don't want to know the answer, because I tell it like it is. The questions I get asked most often are
"Do you like my new hairstyle?" or other hair changes
"How do you like this dress?"
"How do I compare to whatever dancer?" or "What makes you want dances from this other dancer?"
In each case I'll let her know. Often when asking about other dancers, the dancer uses what I tell her and she gets better. The few times a dancer has gotten ticked off because I told her why I like the other dancer, it hasn't been any loss, because the dances haven't been that good.
I got a lap dance from a young dancer with blue hair. I made a comment about her hair. It looked interesting. Reminded me of an alien girl. I didn't tell her that. I think I just told her she had a sci fi look to her. The only reason I could think of for blue hair is that she wants to be different.
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I like the traditional...black, brown and blonde hair colors
But if it's a dumb necklace (like in estafador's example), ugly dress, then being honest at least shows one isn't a total kiss-ass PL.
Plus; if there is a way she can look better; why not make her aware of it.
I would have asked her age. If she inquired why I would have told her that 22 years ago I went on a bender and fucked a parrot. I was afraid she might be my offspring.
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"Personally I like it, but most customers might be too uptight for it" should be in your custy phrasebook. Probably custy-crap cause you don't actually like it. So what.
Do we need to add CC to the glossary?
"Do you like my new hairstyle?" or other hair changes
"How do you like this dress?"
"How do I compare to whatever dancer?" or "What makes you want dances from this other dancer?"
In each case I'll let her know. Often when asking about other dancers, the dancer uses what I tell her and she gets better. The few times a dancer has gotten ticked off because I told her why I like the other dancer, it hasn't been any loss, because the dances haven't been that good.