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AliLandryFan

Minnesota

I have been in the hobby a long time. Too long.

In my strip clubbing experience, there are two divergent paths you can take.

There is the kinds of clubs where you are going to see very hot women dance on stage, maybe drink beers if available, and maybe partake in some light lap dance action if available.

Places like Mons Venus in Tampa. As one of the best of its kind. But your main goal going in, is to just observe the hottest women around, get naked or close to it, drink some beers with a buddy, and maybe slightly more fun if lap dancing is availble, typically in the open.

I can enjoy these clubs for that purpose, but I really have no use for them anymore. I have seen 10,000 naked hot women in my day.

Then there is the other goal. You want to come out of the club having had a sexual release. By any of any number of means. Aka, you want 'extra's. That is what you are there for. Mere window shopping is not really the goal. This is where i live.

And for the purpose of this email, i focus on goal 2. How to have a great hobby career.

So let me proffer my best tips on how to make this happen.

1) do your research on here for which clubs are good for that. My top faves are: Temptations in KC, YborStrip in Tampa, BabyDolls in Dallas, Treasures and Michaels in Houston. You dont come out of these places not happy.

2) Make sure you shower and brush your teeth going in. Dancers dont want to get close to you otherwise, they are human too.

3) Dayshift is much better than Nightshift for this. By FAR. If its night, try monday or tuesday. Friday and Saturday ngiht are not the night for action. There is too many customers. Simple supply and demand dictates that they dont have to do as much with more customers around.

4) Sit down with each dancer and you can just ask them what they do. In my experience, if youre polite and gentlemenly and respectful, they will tell you their "menu" so they dont waste their time or yours. You can usually just figure out ahead of time what is going to happen. I usually say "do you play?" which they know, impliues more than lapdances, and will then walk away if they dont.

5) You can also usually tip a waitress 10 bucks and SHE will know which dancers are the naughty ones. She can tell you which ones to target and often , for that 10 bucks, she will go talk to the dancer, and tell her for you what you want and do all teh arranging for you. I have had lots of good experience with this.

6) Wear the proper clothing. I would recommend Gymshorts and TShirt. Easier to access. Or maybe some kind of sweat pants. Dancers prefer these in general over jeans. "Jeans chafe" they often will say.

7) Be polite, gentlemenly, GENTLE, and courteous. Dancers appreciate this alot. They will remember it too. Treat them like any women you care about. They can sense this and it will go far.

8) The more you get "regular" too, the more confortable they get, and the more action happens in subsequent visits too.

9) treat them good. tip a little over what your menu quote was.

10) Generally you want to go to places with private rooms of some kind. ITs hard to get action when there are onlookers. stick to afternoons and/or somewhat private booths .

these are all my tricks and i have nothing but success wherever i go... Happy hunting!