End of monogamy
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
At no other time in history has fine pussy been more easily accessible than now. It is getting easier by the day to preview the goods and arrange encounters.
So in this new high tech world of available pussy, is monogamy still a possibility?
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Yes Sir it is. It is a matter of personal belief, personal choice, and personal honor in not betraying the person you are married to, or engaged to, or in a SERIOUS committed relationship. It doesn't matter how available the woman is. Or how the technology enhances that availability. You as an individual make the decision to commit to a monogamous relationship or NOT to commit to one.
I used to pass judgement just like you (on fidelity and many other issues) until I gained more experience on the realities of life.
Now, I don't judge so much.
Anyone who automatically associates any of those is ignorant of the meanings of the words.
The point Sir is that this is something I believe in deeply, based on my observations of the world and life for many decades. I express it here because it appears that many members don't seem to believe in or honor a commitment to another person that they are in a serious committed relationship with. They appear to just want to run around & fuck whoever they please, whenever they please. It is simply MY opinion. I have NO way to impose my opinion on anyone, and it is NOT my place to impose it on anyone. I simply hope to get people who do commit infidelity or have no intention of being in a monogamous relationship to perhaps reconsider their actions and think about the emotional impact on the betrayed person.
I believe that monogamy is possible. and it is a personal choice & decision.
@OP: On the one hand, some of the "costs" of monogamy will decrease over time. Risk of STDs or unwanted pregnancies will decrease. Right now there are abortions but that is mostly the woman's decision. If man cheats and knocks up a woman and she goes through with it and demands child support! I'm thinking of something on the male end that they could take that would render their all sperm infertile for the period they were having sex. I'm Merck is working on it right now. :-)
OTOH, there will always be costs of polygamy and it's not clear to me which side is the worse off. Males could lose if their woman gets impregnated by another man he unwittingly raises it. Women risk their man deciding that not only do they like that woman just for a fling but actually want to leave their partner for her. Actually men risk that too, but I think men are programmed to want more partners, so I guess the cost/benefits will continue to favor monogamy due, mostly, to the "falling in love" risk.
Lots of dudes will testify to being faithful but if they had a smoking hot 23 y/o babydoll as an option, most would cave eventually.
"and might have lead to marriage"
How much did you spend in this hooker total that it was considered serious?
"and might have lead to marriage"
Ah, yes, if she only got off the streets and your weekend passes from the asylum were permanent... A shame...
Alucard states the obvious = 'it's his opinion' in order to give himself another opportunity to shift focus to himself and be critical and argumentative.
Alucard, just state your opinion and then shut up.
Monagamy is a choice
It isn't a large percentage of men that go to strip clubs in the first place, an even smaller percentage indulge in extras, so if your argument is based on the availability of P4P monogamy is just as viable as it ever was.
You need to read up on your history. Pussy was far more available at all times in US history up until WWI. We're just now starting to return to normal after a hundred year slump.
Maybe it was also meant to prevent VD.
In point of fact, you are also wrong about me personally. I can be, and am, faithful (in the actual definition of the word, not the definition improperly conflated with the concept of marriage; see above links) in my monogamous marriage. I can, and do, enjoy a polyamorous lifestyle without being unfaithful to my wife.
I realize that might be hard for someone like you to fully believe, lying as far outside your experience as it does, but it is true nonetheless.
To your point however, I *do* often disagree with you, but that's because you're often wrong, jumping to conclusions and making unwarranted assumptions, especially about people you've never met, and not because of any dislike I might harbour towards you.
Fortunately, it doesn't look like there will be any need for that any time soon.
He says while necroposting.