Holding Hands

25 comments

• GoVikings

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  11 years ago

  Nah, can't say I'm with you on this one Fox. If our hands are clasped, then that means they aren't on her ass.
• DandyDan

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  11 years ago

  There's one old favorite I would do that with. It was one of her favorite manuevers. It doesn't happen with every dancer, though.
• shadowcat

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  11 years ago

  I gotta agree with GoVikings. Sound like a way to keep your hands occupied so that they don't go where she doesn't want them.
• grand1511

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  11 years ago

  On a recent visit my CF let me undress her down to her panties before the dance started. She didn't say a word to encourage me, just through body language and it was so intimate. Set a great tone for want always are awesome dances.
• rockstar666

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  11 years ago

  I like when she puts her tongue in my ear.
• sclvr5005

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  11 years ago

  Clasping hands implies a false intimacy that I don't like.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  "Clasping hands implies a false intimacy that I don't like"
  
  I disagree.
• GoVikings

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  11 years ago

  I couldn't agree more with what sclvr5005 said. Alucard, I'm really curious as to why you disagree
• rockstar666

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  11 years ago

  I love holding hands! It's intimate for me, even if the girl doesn't give a rat's ass. I'm paying for a GFE as far as that goes, and hand holding is an easy one for the dancer.
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  The odds of getting Alucrack to back up his statements are greater than hitting the lottery.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  My reasoning is similar to rockstar666's explanation. I like physical contact with woman & dancers. Holding hands is way to have that contact. I find it somewhat intimate, although NOT as intimate as DFK. "Touchy-Feely" dancers are very likely to get a lot of business from me.
  
  If some guys want to look at the "dance" experience as TOTALLY cold & totally lifeless, fine. Let them. I like to hold hands sometimes when having a "dance" experience.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  I like to let my hands roam as others have stated.
  
  But I also def like the GFE thing probably above anything else.
  
  For me the most affectionate things are kissing and touching/caressing – thus the lips/mouth and hands are kind of sensual to me.
  
• BagBoyJames

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  11 years ago

  I like it when my Dick helmet is deep inside her eye socket
• SlickSpic

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  11 years ago

  Holding hands is all gum drops & lollipops in grade school but when I'm in the strip club I want her holding my cock.
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  ^^^ Did you quit holding hands with women after grade school?
• GoVikings

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  11 years ago

  Alucard...fair enough. I understand exactly where you and rockstar are coming from. It's part of the GFE experience for you guys.
  
  I LOVE GFE myself, but holding hands with a stripper, for me, is taking it too far. The reason why I feel that way is because holding hands screams "were in love" or "we really care about each other". To me, holding hands is strictly for ppl you're dating/ really care about. I can have a fun GFE with a stripper without holding hands.
  
  And Alucard, you gotta learn how to pick up on/ recognize humor man (slick)
• Alucard

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  11 years ago

  " To me, holding hands is strictly for ppl you're dating/ really care about. I can have a fun GFE with a stripper without holding hands."
  
  Well you have your way of enjoying an experience with a dancer, myself and some others have our way.
• Papi_Chulo

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  11 years ago

  Perhaps some may be misunderstanding the “holding hands” thing – or maybe I am.
  
  Per the way the OP expressed it – I understood it *not* as in holding hands while you are sitting next to each other as if you were in H.S. and going steady – I understood it as part of the sexual experience like when a girl is riding you will fucking you (while you’re laying on your back) and she is holding on to your hands while fucking you.
  
  So if a dancer is grinding on me and she is holding onto my hands; I kinda like that – not all the time or through the whole damn song – but as an occasional in the heat of the moment thing.
  
• tumblingdice

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  11 years ago

  Holding hands with strippers!Yeah okay!The only time I did that was so she didn't scratch my eyes out.
• juiicebox69

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  11 years ago

  They can hold my hand whne I ram there assez !
• Clackport

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  11 years ago

  I agree with GoVikings, I dislike when strippers hold my hands. It makes it seems like we're in a relationship or more, I'm not trying to be your boyfriend, I'm trying to be a good customer to you and maybe a fuck buddy if you let me.
• lopaw

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  11 years ago

  I don't like it either.
  I don't mind her holding my hand as we walk to the LD area (I used to really hate that too, but now I tolerate it) but the fingers intertwined during the dance is a bit much.
• IronFox22

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  11 years ago

  All right, I'll come back in here, as I started this. I mean, yeah, that as she's grinding on you put your hands together. It would lean toward a GFE-type experience. Some people like it. Some don't.
  
  As an alternative, if they are facing away from you and leaning down a bit, you can gold her hands by the wrists; this way, you can control the grind speed. Most girls prolly don't like this, but I've gotten to do it once or twice.
• ilbbaicnl

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  11 years ago

  I hate that shit. A lot of strippers don't seem to want to face up to the fact that what we want is the healthy high of sexual arousal. Not any phony emotional connection. I have yet to manage just a simple, real, uncomplicated friendship with a stripper. So romance is obviously way out of the question, even if I was looking for that.
• Ermita_Nights

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  11 years ago

  I like to let my hands roam, and one of the places I like to roam is onto her hands. Different people like different things.