I like "What's on the menu". If she replies "a good time", I then ask "What is a good time. Your idea might be different than mine". If she won't spell it out then, I pass.
If it's a place where extras are pretty common, then be direct. If not, be more discreet BUT make sure you specifically establish what you're going to get.
It depends on the club. The sure-fire extra cub that I go to just requires a direct question. I wear stretch boxers and pants so that my hard-on shows; it's amazing how that gets attention.
Don't listen to what the girls say whether they fuck or not. Read the tuscl reviews. Plenty of Detroit strippers have told me they don't do that but after a drink they are up for whatever if the price is right
Go to a high contact club known for extras. Watch for Dancers getting tipped a lot at the stage. Get some dances and tip generously. If she's rubbing your junk during the dance, extras in some form are probably available. If not, find one that will.
I'm not a big extra's guy - I do it from time to time but I generally prefer just groping.
When I do want them I'm a fan of being direct in clubs where its common. If its a club where its not, I get a dance and see what happens. I'll push the limits of what a normal dance is and judge her response. Usually if more is available she'll make it known. If the idea creeps her out she'll usually make that known too. I'm sure I've missed out on a few who were just tame in the lap dance room and I know I've offended a few who were liberal there but had hard and fast limits. I've found in a lot of clubs a miss on that first swing quickly gets the word around for what you're looking for. Her friends who aren't game will know and avoid you, leaving you to focus on the others who aren't friendly with the first one - which seems to usually be because the non-extras girls don't like the extras girls.
I prefer to open that conversation with a noncomittal "I wish we could do more," espcially if her hands have been busy or she's let me dine a bit. It isn't something she can complain about to the other dancers, the bouncers, or more importantly to the police. If she's comfortable with the conversation, she'll follow up. If not, it's just a couple of dances.
Saw a new dancer this week and virtually her first words to me were that she is "too nice" and doesn't suck or fuck. I warmed to her anyway and discovered in the VIP that she had been accurate but, to my surprise, she did everything else!
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If she shows it to me it disqualifies her as a COP
I then show her my Dick to disqualifiy myself as a COP to her
Then she plays with my dick and I finger her pussy to see if it would be nice to fuck
Then i just ask " you wana fuck ?"
The answer is always yes
Boom that is hiw it is dun andythang else is a lie from Tue devil and you know it
JuiceCrew4Life
I fuckin take what I want and that makes a women's pussy wet...its called being a real man
[As long as you KNOW that the dancer ISN'T an undercover cop! LOL]
Hence the disqualifers
I've got money, do you have a gag reflex?
When I do want them I'm a fan of being direct in clubs where its common. If its a club where its not, I get a dance and see what happens. I'll push the limits of what a normal dance is and judge her response. Usually if more is available she'll make it known. If the idea creeps her out she'll usually make that known too. I'm sure I've missed out on a few who were just tame in the lap dance room and I know I've offended a few who were liberal there but had hard and fast limits. I've found in a lot of clubs a miss on that first swing quickly gets the word around for what you're looking for. Her friends who aren't game will know and avoid you, leaving you to focus on the others who aren't friendly with the first one - which seems to usually be because the non-extras girls don't like the extras girls.
If she does ain't gonna matter how you ask. If she doesn't ain't like some line that you think is witty is going to talk her into it.