Making a stripper feel good

9/17/2013 4:55:45 PM

Obviously strippers try to make us feel good during lapdances. I don't know about the rest of you, but I also try to make sure the strippers are having a good time during the lapdance. I have had strippers tell me things like "it's our job to make the customers horny, but shit you're making me horny". "you might be not believe this, but I think I had more fun than you did". Obviously some of this has to be stripper shit, because I've heard this from enough dancers to realize I must be doing something right.

What works for me is first of all my boner being hard as a rock. I don't care what they tell you, I believe they enjoy grinding and feeling on hard boners. At the very least it lets them know they are doing their job. Also I don't immediately start grabbing and feeling up on the girl when the dance starts, I think some strippers appreciate that. This leads to them guiding my hands all over their body. Also I give them a lot of eye contact during the dance. If the dance is going well I will slowly kiss their back, neck, legs, breasts etc. I heard from a few dancers that my kissing gave them goosebumps. A few of them have cum without me even putting my hands on their pussy.

I believe if the dancer is also having a good time, then the dance will always be better.

Do you guys care if the dancer is having a good time?

What are some things that work for you in order to make a dancer feel good?

Thoughts?

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Papi_Chulo

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11 years ago

First off - I believe the FIV test can often be a good objective test of dancer â€œhornynessâ€ â€“ not what they necessarily say. As we all know, most of these girls are masters of deception and experts at telling us what we want to hear or what they think we want to hear â€“ not saying some donâ€™t get off and/or excited; but â€¦ I guess if the PL is a young well put together dude it may happen more often; but I would still have my doubts.

For me; making the dancer feel comfortable by the way I talk to her or interact w/ her often yields good results in â€œmaking her feel goodâ€.

BigTuna1

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11 years ago

I agree bro...i club this way myself

jester214

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11 years ago

I'm polite and try to be engaging and entertaining to a degree but bottom line I'm there for my own enjoyment and relaxation. I think I'm a pretty easy customer and I hope I don't make their job unpleasant but it really doesn't go any further than that.

I talk to the masseuse because I want to not because I think they want to make conversation.

motorhead

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11 years ago

"FIV Test"

When her pussy is as slippery as some pink
Tuna packed in oil.

prettyinpink1974

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11 years ago

My man is taking me to The Katch Friday night! I'm so excited!!! This will b my first time at a strip club, and he's giving me enough money to get a couple of lap dances!!! I can't wait!!!!!!!

Ermita_Nights

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11 years ago

I like it when she gets excited. I suspect most of the time they are just pretending, but if it's convincing enough I don't care. Least convincing is those fake moans that many of them do. I find that annoying.

lopaw

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11 years ago

Yes I do care if she is enjoying herself. I have found that the happier I make her, the happier she makes me. Can't go wrong with that.

Alucard

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11 years ago

^^^ Engagement!

bxbomber51

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11 years ago

I thoroughly enjoy getting dancers off as they give me a LD or whatever. I will grab their asses and put my index fingers right next to their assholes and wiggle them like I would if i was fingering their g spots. They always go wild for it and it tends to lead to a fantastic grind with lots of them adkjusting my rock hard cock to get it in the best position for them to get off. when my pants are wet before I finish myself, that generally tells me they werent lying about being turned on.

Prill1023

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11 years ago

There are some dancers that do not want eye contact or engagement. They just want to get paid. Those dancers do not respond to the sensual approach. I agree that the only real test is the wetness test.

Dougster

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11 years ago

I don't reckon I 'd be able to tell real from fake and I live by the motto when in doubt just assume the stripper is lying. Thus, it doesn't factor into my thinking at all.

BigTuna1

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11 years ago

Mo'head.....LOL

SlickSpic

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11 years ago

Katt Williams said it best. "You gotta make a woman feel comfortable."

shadowcat

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11 years ago

I think that ever man gets a sense of satisfaction if he is able to satisfy a woman sexually. This is even more of an accomplishment if the woman is thought to only be in it for the money. It's an ego booster.

Clackport

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11 years ago

^^^I agree 100% Shadow

Estafador

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11 years ago

Can they force thier nipples to get hard? Because I've seen a few have that

shadowcat

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11 years ago

Most club keep the temperature low to cool the dancers. A side effect of this is hard nipples.

ilbbaicnl

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11 years ago

If you're convinced that dancers routinely get genuinely aroused from giving you a lap dance, that probably means you've never seen "When Harry Met Sally".

jackslash

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11 years ago

I love to give dancers an orgasm. But they usually spit it out.

motorhead

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11 years ago

Jack for the win. LMFAO

Clackport

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11 years ago

^^^I would agree with that motor. LOL

rockstar666

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11 years ago

I think my ATF became my ATF because I massage the back of her neck while she's grinding. She really loves that. Sometimes when she's in the mood, she'll straddle one of my legs and grind on it until she cums. I love when she does that! Bottom line is I agree that a customer can make it less of a job for the dancer if he's engaging and gives something back.

Clubber

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11 years ago

Ditto the cat!

I recall a time in Key West when I could wring out my pants after a session. I thought she had pissed on me, but by the smell, I knew exactly what it was. :)

duomaxwell

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11 years ago

There's a fine line between being creeped out and being aroused.

DandyDan

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11 years ago

I don't know why you wouldn't want her to feel good, as that would seem to be the natural inclination. That's why I love DATY.

SlickSpic

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11 years ago

Sounds like a song by the Persuaders.

3LeggedMan

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11 years ago

I love to rub my dancer's back and massage her shoulders. Some girls are positively purring at this point. Then some DATY and/or hand stimulation of the clitty and my faves are feeling fine, which leads to quality treatment of my favored areas.

3LeggedMan

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11 years ago

One of my recent club faves interrupted our half hour VIP session to run to the restroom, claiming she needed to wipe off a good deal of natural lubrication. Don't know why... My shorts wouldn't mind and I'd go to sleep smelling the wet spot. Anyhow, I checked. Very wet. Sadly, she's gone now from my fave club. Gotta work on the other hotties there now.

ilbbaicnl

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11 years ago

@Duo totally don't get that.

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