VIP or run?

I would definitely run. In fact it's happened to me twice and I ran.. quick! I don't know maybe i'm paranoid, but I feel like I don't want that reputation of being a dirty man with coworkers etc. It's kinda like a fantasy world I walk into when I walk into a sc and I want to keep that way. I don't want the two worlds to mix!

Turn around

VIP

I definitely would stay and watch, not sure if I'd try to take them to VIP.

Stay, watch, think carefully, then decide. If she worked for my company,I'd probably have to let judgement prevail. If just a younger acquaintance... I might take the chance. Life is short!

VIP my bros. and an offer o' $$ for a BBBJ!!

I have no S/O, employer, or reason to hide, so I would stay and if I got positive feed from her that a good time would be had in VIP and the price was right, I'd tap that.

Depends on how I know her. Co-worker, absolutely not. Waitress, bartender, bank teller who I don't otherwise know socially, yes.

Definitely not a co-worker.

Why would you worry about being a dirty old man. They are a dirty slut for being there

True CrazyJoe, but I am fairly successful in my career/company. She I would presume probably isn't (otherwise she wouldn't be on that stage for dollars lol). So, I guess what I'm saying is that I have a lot more to lose in a sense than she does.

The dancer perspective on this seems to be that it is improper of the customer to seek entertainment from a dancer known to them in real life. I personally wouldn't seek entertainment from a co-worker or someone I engage with in my social or family circles knowingly. I have been entertained by a lady, or two, who are distantly associated with people I know. I don't interfere with their outside world in any manner and I don't think they know me from our acquaintances in common.

Never happened to me. Presumably the dancer is keeping it a secret, so she can't bust me at work or anything. It's a complicated situation. I would not want the dancer worrying that I would reveal her secret. But I would not want to loose access to the club. I would leave or stay, depending on which way I though I could most quickly get the chance to assure her I would not blab.

A dancer once told me her husband's co-workers were telling him about a stripper they'd seen who looked incredibly similar to his wife. He managed to convince them it wasn't her. He was in sales and I'm guessing very good at it.

How about a co-workers wife? Interestingly, I knew she worked in the club BEFORE he some other co-workers and myself to see her.

Well honestly I know those within my social relationships (friends, co-workers, aquantiences etc) opinions matter more than the professional (teachers, bosses...bus driver [?]...that's really all I can think of at the moment) because your social network can spread more dirt and maybe even cause you to be a social paraiah for a while or ever. Or at least a laughing stock for a good deal of time. Thankfully I have no family but if I did....oh boy.

Now if it were professional network and she is the dancer, now we both have our secrets. She exposes her body like a fail whore for cash and I'm too perverted where I need to pay to see some titties. True we do the same at night clubs...but there's a huge difference in amount spent between the two. But she can't tell the world in fear of bad rep which could potentially put her standing in the professional work in critical danger.

With the friend or other persons you exchange pleasantries in usually social conversation, it can vary with the odds and ends aquantiences, but usually friends and higher it can cause awkwardness and strained feelings between each other and bring the complexities. So I'm dipping at first site. Probably will be done with strip clubs for a month just to be safe

Had a smokin' hot blonde we hired when we opened a small call center many years ago. Late teens, unbelievable tits, great bod. About 2-3 months after she started, she was caught doctoring her time card and was fired (not by me, I rarely interacted with her or that department). Fast forward about one year later: a new dancer comes onstage at Spearmint Rhino: it's her! Not only did I practically trip over the chairs on my way to the stage to see her up close and personal, I was her first VIP. Worth it.

CP

VIP with extras

Hell yeah – why not? – we are both adults and are there for what the SC has to offer ($$$ for her; T&A for me).

The only thing I would not do if it was a relative like a cousin or something – could you imagine LOL.

All else is fare in love and war.

Considering that two of my coworkers used to be strippers prior to working for my employer, if I saw them dancing, I would definitely run, especially the older of the two, since age hasn't treated her well. Hell, I'd run from all my coworkers, as I can't imagine most of them being strippers. In fact, the younger of the two ex-strippers is the only one I could imagine seeing in such a scenario.

DD,

Just recently, at my local watering hole, I ran into ex-fave from back in the late 90's. She used to dance in Key West and I'd see her every trip down over a few years. She was about 30 when I met her, and a workout freak.

Now, she must weigh twice what she did and certainly has seen the inside of a lot more eateries than gyms, in recent times. 'Twas sad to see. :(

I hired an escort once and found out we had worked together where I work. I though she looked familiar but then she was naked this time and I was distracted. Did not bother her and it did not bother me. That is why they call it a business.