"If you don't like the dance, you don't have to pay for it".

Very true....

Yea, I've had that happen before and like you, I just pay for it. I don't need the drama that might come from telling her that it sucked.

I try to avoid that hustle. They are still gonna charge u anyways or ask for something.

I need to work on my game apparently. I've never heard that!

Had the offer many times but I rarely accept. We both know I will pay regardless of how good it is, so this strikes me as a bad sign. It suggests desperation. I want a dancer to promise me significant contact and sexual satisfaction because that's what I'm looking for. I don't mind paying for it. so long as I get her body.

Send it back!

I heard it before more than once. I didn't bite. She hadn't sold me on her dances and should I suddenly believe she is not going to complain to a bouncer or other dancers if she dances and I say it wasn't that great? I doubted that. That meant I would pay regardless. Not buying it. She should have just offered two for twenty and talked about what little rules she has if any. An offer just as good as any other lap dance for less money, I might buy if I'm interested in buying.

Heard it a few times, always passed. I can't imagine them actually not accepting the money.

*accepting = demanding

The “free dance” shit is a hustle – and I don’t like being hustled.

Don't Know papi, I've had free shit at a cLub on multiple occasions. But I'm younger than most. I don't fish for it, but it happens.

I have had a dancer tell me "money back guarantee" before. But I've never taken them up on it. I'm pretty adventurous and I love fucking with people, so I might try to get out of paying if a dancer tells me it's free if I don't like it. Just to see how shit plays out. I know how to talk to bouncers and dancers and I'm not afraid of never going back to a club. This town (Detroit) is full of them. I'll let you guys knows if it happens and what drama ensues. Lol

I've heard that a couple of times, I ended up paying for the dances because they were pretty good. In general I just think it's another hustle by dancers.

I've only heard in the context of an initial rejection. They'll ask if I want a dance and I say no and sometimes, they'll say I don't have to pay for it if I don't like it. I've not only never taken them up on it, I also think it's just SS, because if, for some reason, you did take them up on it, they'd probably give out some undemanded extras, which, of course, you're going to pay for.

Like Dandy Dan said, just some good ole SS. Just like the fake ass escorts on Backpage-100% me in the pics or it's free. Really? You're gonna fuck me for free? Did you not realize that you used a Playboy Playmate as your picture? Dumb ass dumb asses.

I’ve walked out of dances just prior to starting or as soon as they started w/o paying; but if I sit thru the whole dance then I pay no matter how shitty it was.

I've never heard this before.

Papi- what caused you to walk out at the beginning of a lap dance or right before one started?

@GoV,

Usually some kind of disagreement I had w/ the dancer; e.g.

+ about to start dance and dancer tells me she wants LD $$$ up front in a SC where prepay is not required – papi don’t play that

+ when about to start dance; dancer tells me that although LDs at the club are ‘x’; she charges ‘x+’ or if I “want to touch” then it’s ‘x+” per LD – again papi don’t play that :)

Or some other non-norm shit the dancer may try to pull (other than my dick :)); will cause me to get up and not pay for a dance I don’t want.

BTW – my above statements apply to when I am about to start a dance or a few seconds into the dance/song (e.g. less than 30 secs into a dance). If I let a dance go for at least 1/4 of a song; then I stick out and pay for the dance even if it was shitty and perhaps not what I may have agreed to or was implied w/ the dancer.

I have heard it only three times, and so far each time the dancer lived up to her boasting. However, I can only think of one maybe two dancers who have told me they will give me the best dance ever, who were not mediocre at best.