negotiate before?
I've always been one to just take what I get in VIP, and even with that haven't been to a VIP in probably 2 years (and not many club visits at all in that time). But I'm dating this woman who is currently out of town, who TOLD me to go to a club and engage in a specific "extra" activity in VIP -- which is actually beyond what I've ever had in VIP. Basically, she's wanting the ego stroke that she does this activity better than a girl half her age (and I have a feeling that I won't have to lie to make her happy). Plus she knows that it will fluster me to ask for the activity.
So, as a newbie in just this one area of clubbing, do most dancers negotiate money AND activities on the floor? I don't want to shell out the $$$ for VIP and then she says, "Oh, I don't do THAT".
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last commentI’m not an extras/VIP guy – but time and again it is always stated on here about the need to have a clear mutual understanding of what is expected on for how much – AHEAD OF TIME
Anything were the price is not a set price should be negotiated or agreed upon beforehand, no? - e.g. car purchase; etc).
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If you don't talk about what you can do or what to expect, you will more than likely be dissapointed most of the time unless you aren't expecting much or you're meeting up with someone you already know what to expect.
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Here is a thread from a couple of days ago:
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Actually, PC, you give the perfect example of why I was asking. When you go to a dealership, after you've said "I want to buy this car" and they've sat you down in the little office, they start trying to sell you extras. Granted, you're not totally committed to buying the car, but you're more than halfway there.
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If you plan on getting anything other than dances and conversation in the vip room you definately, always negotiate what you want AND a price. Unless you want too risk being disappointed
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Yes, if I'm going to a VIP for sex, we set the activities and price before even paying for the VIP itself (here in Louisville, the VIP price itself is generally non-negotiable). None of the "we'll discuss it once we get back there" crap.
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I negotiate afterward and I always bring enough for the dances
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Next.
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Shit
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Have you looked on the internet for an escort?
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LeeH, are you sure this woman you're dating really wants you to get this extra? Maybe she's testing you. The right to say when she comes back may be, "Baby, I love you so much I couldn't have sex with anyone else."
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Jack has a good point. That's a VERY odd thing for a significant other to ask! However always negotiate prior to going VIP, what you want and the price. Also FS is a LOT harder to come by ITC than a HJ or BJ so good luck getting it on a first attempt over a weekend!
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ilbbaicnl, no, because that's not what she wanted.
jackslash, yes, there are other details/circumstances which I will not divulge here that make me 100% sure that she is sincere about it. Yes, your thought did cross my mind before those details came to light. Good catch, just not applicable this time.
mrrock, trying to remember when I said anything about FS.
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"I've always been one to just take what I get in VIP"
Then you have paid more than you should have.
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@"Then you have paid more than you should have."
How do you know that?
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@â€How do you know that?â€
because he is an idiot savant except for the savant part
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@gmd: How do you know that?
Because alucard was there every time, jacking off in the corner.
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Negotiation beforehand is a must, especially in a town like Detroit.
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