I was telling a dancer (that I get dances from OTC) about an escort I had had multiple "dates" with. Escort came across as very GFE and generally self-respecting. She allowed me to eat her pussy. No bad surprise, impeccable hygiene. She seemed to have a orgasm, but I, naturally, was dubious. But the dancer says "no she probably really had one." Me: "But I'm old, fat and ugly, how is she gonna cum?" Dancer: "She closed her eyes and thought about someone else, or she may be the type that just responds to the sensation with no context." (Or something like that not an exact quote probably.)
Now, this is a dancer who is not even willing/comfortable to dance all nude with me, let alone let me eat her pussy. So, why would she say this? She is far from dumb, I can't think it would not occur to her that this escort (her competition for my $$$) is more attractive to me if she can have a real orgasm with me.
Tangent: Gay male friends have told me that there are gay guys who are very turned on by the idea of blowing straight guys. Suppose there was a team of a gay guy and a hot female dancer who did not want any contact with your schlong. The guy blows you while you have the typical two-way but no extras contact with the chick. Any appeal? I would not be comfortable with it, but maybe that's just homophobia on my part. Seems like you could focus your thoughts on the beautiful women you were seeing and caressing, and ignore the source of the accompanying penial stimulation.
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last commentThe last part of your pos escapes me, but back to your ordinal scenario. My ATF seldom experiences orgasm with me, but on two occasions I've watched her fuck young "hot" guys and on both occasions she was multi-orgasmic and she tells me when she's with a guy for choice she almost always cums. One time there was a porn movie on after I'd ejaculated and she was really into it, told me to come eat her and she came and came. Another time we both had dropped some Ecstacy and during vaginal intercourse she flooded the bed and me with nipples hardened, toes curled up and clearly had an orgasm. Last week at the club in VIP she told me she hadn't gotten laid in weeks and was really horny and once again during BBFS she clearly had an orgasm.
I'm 67 and she's 27. She is one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen and I'm slightly overweight and as she very kindly tells me, maybe if I had danced more when I was younger, I might have better rhythm . We've fucked at least once a week for four years and there are feelings between us, but clearly, I'm not the young hot guy, she's used to. She never lies about orgasms and says, don't worry about it. I'm paying her to please me. I've explained that when she gets off, I feel pleased and like I've done a good job, too.
There's another dancer I've seen OTC several times and she always fakes orgasms and I know it, but I still enjoy it. This dancer also gives the full GFE which my ATF doesn't.
So, the bottom line for me is that honesty wins out. When she does get off I'm ecstatic, when she doesn't, she still works extra hard to get me where I want to be. I'll skip the weird threesome you posited.
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WTF does the fact that you find a real orgasm by the escort more attractive that if the escort is faking have to do with the dancer's answer?
IMO, I would say that the escort is probably a sex addict who can get off on anything/anyone. Which is exactly what the dancer is implying when she said 'she may be the type that just responds to the sensation with no context.' Furthermore, 'she closed her eyes and thought about someone else' should also be a default answer. Many if not all dancers 'get into character' to go on stage etc. Many perfect sens that an escort would 'get into character' and/or fantasize about someone else to hell sell the performance. Whether real or fake is more attractive to you is irrelevant.
Tangent: F*** no! There is a one penis rule around here.
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Many perfect sens = makes perfect sense
(shit my spelling is almost and band as that bullshit tangent question)
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Dude, what if drugs do you smoke before you ask all these whacky questions or do you just have a brain defect?
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OP's favorite movie: Shawshank Redemption
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@mjx but the other penis is not involved in the action.
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@MH I made no mention of butt-rape, that's all you bro. Just make sure they're CLEAN bikers.
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The Sisters weren't homosexual either. Not talking butt rape. They tried to force Andy to suck dick in one scene.
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Moto! Moto! Moto!
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Maybe if I had rewound that scene 97 times I'd remember it too.
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@ilbbaichl: allow me to elaborate...
1 guy & 1 girl in the room = ok
1 guy & 2+ girls in the room = ok
2 or more guys & any # of girls in the room = no good, one penis rule violated
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more importantly, the 'tangent' part of the thread is totally irrelevant to why your didn't like what seems to be a blatantly obvious answer by dancer girl in the main query.
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I'm so confused. I always thought that nails dug into my back was a good sign.
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It's a matter of me liking her answer, she may be right. I'm wondering why she said something against her own financial interest.
The tangent is related in that both are about the possibility of enjoying (oral) stimulation that you do like from a source that you don't like.
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Er, not a matter, I mean.
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From start to finish this whole is confusing. Is this about the daty session or about your homophobia?
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Staf version:
See Ilbb.
See Ilbb eat pussy.
See three-way.
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I would just say this, you should be happy that women accept your money to let you do what you want to them, don't look too much into it, you are just another dick another dollar mark to them. And as for the gay stuff at the end, hey man, that's all on you, I agree with mjx01 on the tangent.
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Well King if we're gonna do that, we may as well shut down the discussion section of this website.
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@ibbaicnl: but the dancer would be unaware of your preference real vs. fake orgasm (at least the way I read your description). So she couldn't know that it's against here interest to explain how she thought the escort was achieving a 'real' orgasm. And since the dancer doesn't do P4P: she realizes she's beat, she doesn't see it as direct competition (different services), or she simply doesn't realize the escort is a direct competitor.
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Who prefers fake orgasms?
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valid point. But I still contend that since the dancer isn't trying to sell P4P, it a stretch to expect her to connect the question with a threat to her sales.
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While I would never purposely pressure a woman to do P4P if she had qualms, we talk about pros and cons of non-extras dancers (generally better looking) vs. escorts.
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