very attractive guy going or whats appropriate wardrobe
Djscudmaster
New York
First off this isn't about Me although it happened to me in PA back in August 2003 only a few times and before 2003 in some NY clubs BUT LATELY NOT and I know two single friends that "might" fall into this but I haven't gotten them to go to the clubs and if I did it be not a solo anymore. I once wrote something similar but it never came out right and if there is any female input id appreciate it but I like males points of view too.
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The topic should have been split separate but I joined them together for this thread YALL can separate it if yall like
In this Dog eat Dog world or world of competition bragging rights or envy jealousy or even women's or religious rights or societal norms let ponder this
VERY ATTRACTIVE drop dead gorgeous or very cute single or seemingly single male or a too good to be true male(ladies know) DRESSED TO IMPRESS OR to show his Muscularity walks in to a dating mixer or party or to a club to party dance drink whatever or just check out the dj/music party and from the women who are looking to party or are single mostly all who are bunched together 75% or more constantly stare at him if not directly simultaneously bit off and on. He knows he's popular
Now if he without knowing how much money he has on him or access to walks into a Strip Club because he knows someone Male who works there or just because Curiousity or he frequents Clubs and as he is walking in from the front entrance or walking around the club to check it out or find a spot to sit stand or go to the bar etc...He notices either no one is looking at Him or paying him any mind maybe just the patrons or they(The females) are staring simultaneously like at the clubs or parties even whispering about Him. He "either". is being ignored or is having one girl after another approach him for a lap dance or some even start to bicker over who saw him first or will approach.
Here's The Points Shall he be ignored at strip clubs whilst at dance clubs or dating parties he is not. Shall a group of decent looking males whom a female can't decide who is better looking or a group of males that just bought a bottle of something or a male who bought a bottle get more attention shall less attractive males get more attention then him. Now shall He decline any or many a female from lapdances for whatever reasons or he just wants to relax enjoy the scenery or tip girls on stage or this is his first time at this club or he is talking to Male he knows who works there. Shall he be ignored next time he goes to the same club if its within the same month or say month month and a half.
SHALL Males be gawking Him or given disgusting looks if he appears more muscular then thou or is appearing popular amongst the strippers. Shall he be told to tone down his wardrobe or cover up either then and there or for next time if he appears to show more skin then usual or his muscular shape is showing.
I just want HONEST ANSWERS I know I'm gonna get flack for posting this but I'm interested in answers
BTW if your female would you approach him ignore him take him with a grain of salt tell Him he's attractive then...or what?.....Dare to respond
This is the discussion piece
The topic should have been split separate but I joined them together for this thread YALL can separate it if yall like
In this Dog eat Dog world or world of competition bragging rights or envy jealousy or even women's or religious rights or societal norms let ponder this
VERY ATTRACTIVE drop dead gorgeous or very cute single or seemingly single male or a too good to be true male(ladies know) DRESSED TO IMPRESS OR to show his Muscularity walks in to a dating mixer or party or to a club to party dance drink whatever or just check out the dj/music party and from the women who are looking to party or are single mostly all who are bunched together 75% or more constantly stare at him if not directly simultaneously bit off and on. He knows he's popular
Now if he without knowing how much money he has on him or access to walks into a Strip Club because he knows someone Male who works there or just because Curiousity or he frequents Clubs and as he is walking in from the front entrance or walking around the club to check it out or find a spot to sit stand or go to the bar etc...He notices either no one is looking at Him or paying him any mind maybe just the patrons or they(The females) are staring simultaneously like at the clubs or parties even whispering about Him. He "either". is being ignored or is having one girl after another approach him for a lap dance or some even start to bicker over who saw him first or will approach.
Here's The Points Shall he be ignored at strip clubs whilst at dance clubs or dating parties he is not. Shall a group of decent looking males whom a female can't decide who is better looking or a group of males that just bought a bottle of something or a male who bought a bottle get more attention shall less attractive males get more attention then him. Now shall He decline any or many a female from lapdances for whatever reasons or he just wants to relax enjoy the scenery or tip girls on stage or this is his first time at this club or he is talking to Male he knows who works there. Shall he be ignored next time he goes to the same club if its within the same month or say month month and a half.
SHALL Males be gawking Him or given disgusting looks if he appears more muscular then thou or is appearing popular amongst the strippers. Shall he be told to tone down his wardrobe or cover up either then and there or for next time if he appears to show more skin then usual or his muscular shape is showing.
I just want HONEST ANSWERS I know I'm gonna get flack for posting this but I'm interested in answers
BTW if your female would you approach him ignore him take him with a grain of salt tell Him he's attractive then...or what?.....Dare to respond
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So DJscud-dude... Write something shorter. Or put aliens in it. That would be amusing
What's the short version of what the OP is asking?
It's like when a dumb person tries to add extra words when talking to try to seem smarter.
But you wrote a fucking abortion of a post, and in this case, and in the eyes of THEM(whether male or female) having read such nonsense, Has to believe YOU may be in this case or in the case of other cases a bit of a tard.
Ya here that, lopaw? Go get 'em, girl!!!
Yet he list Payer11 as one of his #1 favorite TUSCLers to meet in person. Yes, Payer11, of $60 crack whore fame. Don't get why a guy who scores all these 9s and 10s without paying would want to hang with Payer11...
Nobody cares what you look like. 75% of the dancers don't, they just want your money and assume that you're a d-bag since you're there in the first place, wearing a muscle-T or under armor or whateverthefuck you were implying. The other customers aren't gossiping about you, they're too busy doing strip club things.
As a female, I would give him the standard 3-song conversation to see if he's worthwhile/going to spend money on me and then move on to greener pastures if not SINCE I'M AT WORK AND IT'S NOT A SINGLE'S MIXER.
Jackslash - after I looked up that word I laughed so hard. Nice sarcasm. Im using that in conversatoon
Duomaxwell - so what about the other 25%?
You can wear some baggy clothes and not shave at all but if you don't stink or look filthy but spend some money, the dancers will flock over to you. Debating the whole issue seems pointless to me. If It's a small club where there aren't many dancers and they have regulars to tend to, you can sit alone for a while.