Stripper Locker Room Drama
Have you guys ever been caught in the middle of locker room drama between two strippers? Do any of you care what goes on in the locker room?
At one of my favorite clubs I've had multiple strippers tell me stuff about my ATF that makes her sound like a mean cruel bitch. I heard she told one girl that she looked like a crack head to her face, I heard she told one girl to get off her stage and spit in her face. I have heard she pulls this stuff and knows she can get away with it because she's good looking, makes the most money out of any dancer at that club, and has worked there a long time (5 years) so she has good connections with the manager, bouncer etc. Maybe these girls are jealous of my ATF and are just making up stuff. But come to think about it, my ATF has gotten into a few altercations with other dancers, and she got beat up by another dancer before.
All this stuff I'm hearing about her is so unlike I've personally known about her (known her for a little over 2 years). I've always known her to very nice and sweet. I know a lot of you probably wouldn't care if you were in this situation, but I don't want to be associated with someone that spits in someone else's face. Plus to top it off two of the girls that she allegedly was mean and disrespectful to are black (I'm black, my ATF is white). I might have to give her the silent treatment for awhile.
Damn why am I getting caught up in the stupid stripper locker room drama?
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last commentStripper drama should be taken in one ear and out the other. Just nod your head and say yes.
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Strippers can be mean and bitchy? Who knew?
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Every club has it. The behind the scenes drama never ends. Anytime you get a bunch of women in close quarters, the catfight ultimately ensues. Steer clear and just get what you want from your ATF. The dressing room drama plays out everyday in every club.
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Once I saw a Ukrainian girl chase another girl out of the locker room with an ice skate. Why was there only one ice skate? Why did she have it in the first place? These questions will remain unanswered.
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One time when I was working in Texas my ATF sent me pictures from the dressing room. One is my avatar. She said it was a slow night and one of the dancers had brought vegetables from her garden and they took turns with a huge zucchini. I didn't get pictures of that but the ones I did get made me want to be home.
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-so true shadow and Stenton
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Love is blind. Are you in love? Are you suffering from "vanilla fever" and can't see her real personality.
(I've made that mistake more than once myself.) Are you objective enough to ignore all of it unless and until it effects your relationship.
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Stripper drama is only strange when it's not happening in a strip club.
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Female NASCAR.
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You will find out what she's like when you decide you want another ATF and she's not ready to let go of your money.
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Smack A Bitch
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She's nice to you because it's her job. Very few of us would act the same in front of a client as we would in our less guarded times. I say you shouldn't let it bother you. If she looks good and makes you happy, then she's doing what you pay her for.
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I had an ATF a lot like this too. And she seemed sweet to me but it all turned out to be true!..LOL! She was a bitch that couldn't get along with other girls. But honestly I would only be concerned about what she might be saying negative about you in the locker room.
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yes i have been caught up in it.
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Yes I'm aware that stripper locker room drama happens all the time. Excuse me for being a white knight for a quick second, but strippers are people too, and I can't associate with a stripper who treats other strippers like shit, spits in someone's face, disrespects black girls etc.
tlkDo- you did give me an idea though. I need to find out what she's saying about me behind my back. Detective ranukam starting his new case!
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Sometimes interpretation is needed. I must have had 10 dancers tell me that my ATF said I'm a real nice guy. I later figured out that that means I'm an easy mark.
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"Excuse me for being a white knight for a quick second, but strippers are people too"
They DON'T like White Knights here. Many of the members who post here in the forum don't see dancers as people ranukam. Just read all of there posts. It isn't hard to see.
I don't pay any attention to Locker Room theatrics
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Girls in general act different around around other girls than they do with guys
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Juice is right
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Another reason to keep things impersonal. Obviously much easier for a guy like me who doesn't frequent the same clubs that much.
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When I first started clubbing I was really fascinated about what I thought might happen in the dressing room. I have only been to a couple of clubs where the bathroom was actually in the DR, and I had to share it with the dancers. After hearing (and seeing) some ghetto drama stuff in there that I wish I hadn't, my obsession was over pretty quickly.
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A lot of times, YOU GUYS are the reason why there's drama in the dressing room. How? When some of you tell dancer things like "oh, they are all jealous of you" or "all the other dancers are fugly bitches" doesn't help. The best is not mention other dancers to us. We really don't care who sucks your dicks better or who's OCD with condoms.
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Thanks Ranukam. Some dudes in here sure forget about the fact we are people too.
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"Some dudes in here sure forget about the fact we are people too."
Interesting, I think most dancers tend to forget that more than anyone.
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The best way not to be dissapointed by a dancer or what she's like is not to expect too much from her in the 1st place - if you do (expect a lot from her w.r.t. the type of person she is) you will most likely be dissapointed 99% of the time.
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The only reason guys cause dressing room drama is money. That's hardly our fault. It's our money - we choose who to spend it on. If that causes jealously, so be it. It's your job. Grow up.
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so unlike her personality? She's a stripper bro. What she tells you is a fucking lie. What the girls tell you is half lies (because you've seen her actually fight). They are jealous of her and you're a handsome BLACK fellow and she's upset because they're trying to steal her man CHOCOLATE away from her. Everyone's a liar, just nod and fuck her and see her the next time.
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Never judge anyone based on secondhand information, unless it's from someone you are very sure is trustworthy. Other dancers have every reason to cause trouble between you and your favs. You also have to be careful you are not judging someone on incomplete info. If you see a punch get thrown, ask yourself how sure you can be it was the first punch.
From what I've heard, a stripper has a very high chance of being assaulted by a customer. So it's only natural that strippers know or learn how to put the hurt on somebody, more so than most women. But like they say, when you got a hammer, everything looks like a nail, so they use those skills too often.
Strip clubs are almost always run by stupid white guys who are quick to believe racial stereotypes. That's usually the biggest problem black strippers have, not the white dancers.
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Excellent meta-thread here! First one guy asks about stripper drama. Then a few other guys chime in. Then a stripper chimes in. And stripper drama ensues. :)
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The only drama I am interested in, is the drama caused by me because strippers are fighting over my business. Strippers think they own you after you've had a couple of dances with them. When I switch around, they get jealous and get into fights among themselves. I am the beneficiary because they try to please me more so I don't dance with the other girl.
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Good point schound. A dancer can get much shit talked about her by other dancers simply because she'll offer a dance to a customer who "belongs" to another dancer. Very much not in our interest as custies to pay attention to said shit.
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Sometimes that jealousy over customers can backfire on the customer if the dancers are petty enough about taking it all personally, which they often do.
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