I think I know how most of you would already answer.
I'm thinking about this but I'm thinking if I do such a thing, she'll start calling me her boyfriend. Maybe I should confirm how many kids she already has and any ex's still in the pcture before I even think about going there.
Sharkdude... Don't over think this my brother. Just buy an X-box, put on a backwards baseball cap, and quit your job. Now all you need is a bag o' weed and a pack o' zig-zags and you can begin your new life as a stripper BF.
Just remember, it is TOTALLY cool to screw her friends. She expects you to do that (in between playing video games and smokin' weed, o' course). Don't even try to hide the fact that you're doing her friends...that be disrespectful my bro!
I've put off making any decision about it but she keeps reminding me. I guess if she wasn't a dancer would I still want to go out with her? It might depend.
Another dancer did act pissed off when she initially thought I was screwing another dancer the same time as I did her. Then she got over it and called me some kind of player. I told her I didn't play around. She got a job at another club I haven't been back to in months. I think I make more money than most dancers in my area so I won't quit my job.
Why not? But I'd put my cards on the table, if I thought it was probably just going to be an FWB thing, I'd make sure she was aware that was my thinking.
Unlike most things, pussy is better when it's given away for free, so I'd be spending less on P4P. Which I'd probably end up spending on my FWB as a show of appreciation.
I could do that. Just let her know I'm only trying to have a little bit of fun, nothing permanent. Typical stripper bf material in that respect except I work.
I've said it before but here it is again: 0 desire to date a dancer. The logistics alone are unappealing.
If by date you mean free sex then yes. If by date you mean something other than sex no.
Don't do it. Trust me.
NOT unless she was TOTALLY unattached and without children. LOL
Dating? No. Fuckbuddy? Yes.
If you value your money, health and life, don't do it.
Actually lopaw has it right. That's the best way to proceed. ;)
I got all of the free sex that I could afford during the 27 years that I was married. :)
Juice.does it.y can't you
Nothings free.
nah im good.. been down that road before
Free sex with a dancer? Why not if you can get it. But you will never own that pussy.....
There are going to be a lot of us payers going into her while your not around both itc and otc. Even if you marry her, there are some of us who will still be fucking her. This is what happened with an atf I fucked 4.5 yr itc, otc, and while she was married. The first time I met her otc, she said to me "I don't believe in monogamy and sex is my hobby."
Hell.yea ^^^
"But you will never own that pussy....."
Player11, unless it is part of YOUR body - you don't own it & NEVER will.
tumblingdice got it right. There ain't such thing as free sex. You always pay, one way or another. As the old saying goes, escorts (and strippers), you pay them to leave.
I'm young, and ruthless so I'm dating her for that free sex. She's not a stripper for no reason. Her body and looks suffice for kids and an ex. I'm black so I'm safe.
A dancer I knew was dating a guy she thought was both hot and nice. Then she found out the guy let his sisters and his mama run his life, so she decided to just leave it at fuckbuddy. But HE couldn't handle a just-sex deal.
Maybe the biggest reason most women choose not to dance is because being a dancer makes it extremely difficult to have a uncomplicated, committed relationship with a guy who's a good catch. Because of that, a lot of the women who do choose to dance are down with getting their sexual jollies by hooking up. They are not obsessed with getting their hooks permanently dug into a guy.
ilbby: "Maybe the biggest reason most women choose not to dance is because being a dancer makes it extremely difficult to have a uncomplicated"
Nah, biggest reason is that the job involves rubbing their asses against greasy, old PLs in order to make money.
It depends on how hot the girl is and how good the sex is. Most strippers I've been with were incredible in the bedroom.