"When will your friend run out of money" they asked me.

Player11
Texas
When I got back into strip clubbing in 2004 it was at Ricks Cabaret South (Houston). I shortly got a VIP there and was mainly simply into drinks and dances. A friend, B, had moved out and divorced his wife at 65. He was quite a big spender at the club and this was a few months before he discovered it was simply better to invite them over to his house.

At that time I would mainly come to the club for a coupla drinks and dances with D, a 24 yr old college gal. D did not play (and the club was not an extras club). It was just basic,simple SC fun. My friend B, was crazy about this dancer T a really fine looking blonde (she did not play). He was spending money on her like crazy lappers in VIP, paying her money to sit at his table.

Once while sitting at a table with D and T (two strippers above) they wanted to know "When do you think B will run out of money?" I sort of evaded the question alluding he was quite well off. A couple of months later B discovered a stripper L who played and she started seeing him at his house; T was history. L was subjected to hazing in dressing rum by D and T and would come out in tears.

This shows two things: These women look at the long term in a big spender. They are out to drain his money until he is done. There concern is the income stream. Gals who do not play resent those who do bc when a customer graduates from just dances to sessions otc then that is it for the non playing gals.

When you acquire an atf look she may be probing you to see how deep your pockets are like for signs on how long her income stream will last.

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Dougster
12 years ago
Payer11: "'When will your friend run out of money' they asked me."

If his income is as low as yours, probably just a couple of more weeks.
dalex
12 years ago
From reading your old posts, I know who exactly the friend is, in which case he did run out of money, however without regrets.
Alucard
12 years ago
""When will your friend run out of money" they asked me."

Unless you are his banker, how would you know? LOL
Player11
12 years ago
He is a close friend. He had around a dozen rent houses going onto his divorce.
Alucard
12 years ago
I guess a few of those will support a nice time at the club. :))
Papi_Chulo
12 years ago
“… They are out to drain his money until he is done ...”

That much should be obvious – what else would a superhot 20-something want with a 65 year old dude.

I do recall one instance where your above quote became acutely obvious to me personally.

I was at a club on a Saturday night and there was some good talent there. I wanted to have a good time on that particular night and was spending and tipping pretty liberally. Needless to say I was getting some extra attention. After about 2.5/3 hours of this, I was tapped out and made the tactical error of telling a dancer, that had noticed my spending thru the night and was hitting me up for dances, that I was out of money.

I guess the word got around QUICK b/c I went from having 2 or 3 babes constantly around me to not having anything but my limp penis for company- the hos would only not come to me – they would not even come around the area I was sitting – we live (SC) and we learn LOL.
sharkhunter
12 years ago
I remember I lied to a couple of dancers one time about being out of money. I must have had a slight smirk or smile on my face. One dancer after a minute said, "he's lying!". I usually don't bother with the line that I am almost out of money. That only invites dancers to ask how much you have left. If you have $17 in one dollar bills left, they might work out a deal. This was in. club where dance prices were set by the dancers and whatever customers agreed to.
farmerart
12 years ago
If I live as long as my old man (92 years old) I will have to spend about $150K/year on strippers to deplete my retirement savings account.
Tiredtraveler
12 years ago
"Show Me The Money" Truer words were never spoken. Virtually every woman everywhere is looking for a golden ticket (stability both financially and emotionally). It is a biological need for the well being of her offspring. The problem is many boys are not and many women think they can change a boy into a man. Strippers are the extreme example of that and have learned how to get money with out commitment while supporting a host of bad boys.
Club_Goer_Seattle
12 years ago
@Papi and Shark: I only had to use the line, "I'm out of money," once to get rid of a dancer who wouldn't leave me alone. Her response was, "Let me see your wallet." Fortunately, I never encountered that dancer again.

As for dancers cirulating the word around the club that a whale is now a minnow, I can understand dancers helping each other, but it would more seem the norm that due to the competition among dancers that if one dancer knows that, she wouldn't let her co-workers know.
carolynne
12 years ago
farmerart, can i help?
Estafador
12 years ago
Tiredtraveller, you sound like a cynical PO'd man towards women. If that's how you feel regularly, then your looking at all the wrong women. I have met plenty of women who were less interested in money and more interested in how they looked and how they acted. In terms of strippers, they don't give two shits how much money you got. They're still getting it from EVERYBODY. They're more interested in just how you look in terms of relationships (not usually in the club) to the extreme cases since they make their own bank. At least from every women (strippers included) I've ever spoken to.
deogol
12 years ago
Tiredtraveller is right. It's all fun and games and wide open options when your young. Then as one gets older the options begin closing. A 30 year old doesn't want to live with a room-mate. Friends start pairing off and leaving one behind. A couple of stumbles with money and one wants to find a partner with some financial common sense and a financial future.

Personally, I don't think "growing up" is a bad thing to do.

I think a lot of clubbing by the older crowd (not every one) is to take a break from the stresses of the now and return to a younger care-free time for a few hours.
Dougster
12 years ago
"I think a lot of clubbing by the older crowd (not every one) is to take a break from the stresses of the now and return to a younger care-free time for a few hours."

I think alot of it is guys not accepting their age.
georgmicrodong
12 years ago
@deogol: "I think a lot of clubbing by the older crowd (not every one) is to take a break from the stresses of the now and return to a younger care-free time for a few hours."

That may not be very far from the truth, at least in the case of your general run of the mill strip clubber. There may also be an element of not wanting to *admit* one's in same cases. :)

For some of us, of course, it's the pussy.
Player11
12 years ago
Strip clubbing is a form of stress relief from getting older: career end, worry, realization x good years left.

I meet up with gals off my roster. They are proven performers and very available. So with going to club and meeting up with go to girls who I have done life is good.
Player11
12 years ago
But if your being mobbed by gals at your table "I think I will enjoy one more drink before I leave I am out of money". That will get rid of them quick!
farmerart
12 years ago
@carolynne,

You can't have anything from my retirement account BUT I have lots of other cash at my disposal for spending on 'worthy' dancers.

Come on up to the Alberta clubs and let's see what we can arrange.
carolynne
12 years ago
Alberta? are you crazy?
Estafador
12 years ago
You don't say no to big bucks carolynne. How about make a web vid, send it to farmer and then see what he says. Cheapest way to audition
georgmicrodong
12 years ago
Carolynne, if you wait until summer, even Alberta ain't so bad. Don't forget your passport, though, or you won't be able to get out before winter. :)
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