"When will your friend run out of money" they asked me.

Payer11: "'When will your friend run out of money' they asked me."

If his income is as low as yours, probably just a couple of more weeks.

From reading your old posts, I know who exactly the friend is, in which case he did run out of money, however without regrets.

""When will your friend run out of money" they asked me."

Unless you are his banker, how would you know? LOL

He is a close friend. He had around a dozen rent houses going onto his divorce.

I guess a few of those will support a nice time at the club. :))

“… They are out to drain his money until he is done ...”

That much should be obvious – what else would a superhot 20-something want with a 65 year old dude.

I do recall one instance where your above quote became acutely obvious to me personally.

I was at a club on a Saturday night and there was some good talent there. I wanted to have a good time on that particular night and was spending and tipping pretty liberally. Needless to say I was getting some extra attention. After about 2.5/3 hours of this, I was tapped out and made the tactical error of telling a dancer, that had noticed my spending thru the night and was hitting me up for dances, that I was out of money.

I guess the word got around QUICK b/c I went from having 2 or 3 babes constantly around me to not having anything but my limp penis for company- the hos would only not come to me – they would not even come around the area I was sitting – we live (SC) and we learn LOL.

I remember I lied to a couple of dancers one time about being out of money. I must have had a slight smirk or smile on my face. One dancer after a minute said, "he's lying!". I usually don't bother with the line that I am almost out of money. That only invites dancers to ask how much you have left. If you have $17 in one dollar bills left, they might work out a deal. This was in. club where dance prices were set by the dancers and whatever customers agreed to.

If I live as long as my old man (92 years old) I will have to spend about $150K/year on strippers to deplete my retirement savings account.

"Show Me The Money" Truer words were never spoken. Virtually every woman everywhere is looking for a golden ticket (stability both financially and emotionally). It is a biological need for the well being of her offspring. The problem is many boys are not and many women think they can change a boy into a man. Strippers are the extreme example of that and have learned how to get money with out commitment while supporting a host of bad boys.

@Papi and Shark: I only had to use the line, "I'm out of money," once to get rid of a dancer who wouldn't leave me alone. Her response was, "Let me see your wallet." Fortunately, I never encountered that dancer again.

As for dancers cirulating the word around the club that a whale is now a minnow, I can understand dancers helping each other, but it would more seem the norm that due to the competition among dancers that if one dancer knows that, she wouldn't let her co-workers know.

farmerart, can i help?

Tiredtraveller, you sound like a cynical PO'd man towards women. If that's how you feel regularly, then your looking at all the wrong women. I have met plenty of women who were less interested in money and more interested in how they looked and how they acted. In terms of strippers, they don't give two shits how much money you got. They're still getting it from EVERYBODY. They're more interested in just how you look in terms of relationships (not usually in the club) to the extreme cases since they make their own bank. At least from every women (strippers included) I've ever spoken to.

Tiredtraveller is right. It's all fun and games and wide open options when your young. Then as one gets older the options begin closing. A 30 year old doesn't want to live with a room-mate. Friends start pairing off and leaving one behind. A couple of stumbles with money and one wants to find a partner with some financial common sense and a financial future.

Personally, I don't think "growing up" is a bad thing to do.

I think a lot of clubbing by the older crowd (not every one) is to take a break from the stresses of the now and return to a younger care-free time for a few hours.

"I think a lot of clubbing by the older crowd (not every one) is to take a break from the stresses of the now and return to a younger care-free time for a few hours."

I think alot of it is guys not accepting their age.

@deogol: "I think a lot of clubbing by the older crowd (not every one) is to take a break from the stresses of the now and return to a younger care-free time for a few hours."

That may not be very far from the truth, at least in the case of your general run of the mill strip clubber. There may also be an element of not wanting to admit one's in same cases. :)

For some of us, of course, it's the pussy.

Strip clubbing is a form of stress relief from getting older: career end, worry, realization x good years left.

I meet up with gals off my roster. They are proven performers and very available. So with going to club and meeting up with go to girls who I have done life is good.

But if your being mobbed by gals at your table "I think I will enjoy one more drink before I leave I am out of money". That will get rid of them quick!

@carolynne,

You can't have anything from my retirement account BUT I have lots of other cash at my disposal for spending on 'worthy' dancers.

Come on up to the Alberta clubs and let's see what we can arrange.

Alberta? are you crazy?

You don't say no to big bucks carolynne. How about make a web vid, send it to farmer and then see what he says. Cheapest way to audition

Carolynne, if you wait until summer, even Alberta ain't so bad. Don't forget your passport, though, or you won't be able to get out before winter. :)