Should I take this as she disrespected me or not?
Jpac73
I am friends(not in the true sense) with a Favorite of mine on facebook. I don't really chat with her much other than every now and then sending her a pvt message to say I am headed to the club or sometimes to just say how you doing. Well Yesterday I sent her a pvt message just wishing her a Happy Newyear and that I will probably be at the club in a few weeks. She did not respond, I know she saw the message because it was marked as "seen" in my inbox. She had wrote on her wall that she had been apartment hunting for most of the day, but she still managed to get on facebook later that day and write on her wall. So I feel that while she was busy during the day she could have still replied later on when she got back home that night.
So should I take this as being disrespected? She has replied in the past to "how are things going"t type of messages but not this time. Furthermore, I should point out that she doesn't send me messages. I have been the one doing the messaging. So should I not get anymore dances from her?, Should I ask her at the club why she didn't respond? or should I just cease all messaging with her on facebook even in telling her I am making a trip to her club?
So should I take this as being disrespected? She has replied in the past to "how are things going"t type of messages but not this time. Furthermore, I should point out that she doesn't send me messages. I have been the one doing the messaging. So should I not get anymore dances from her?, Should I ask her at the club why she didn't respond? or should I just cease all messaging with her on facebook even in telling her I am making a trip to her club?
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Seriously, I thought only girls whined about shit like this...
"He said he'd call, but he hasn't called, do you think he likes me?!? Omg!!"
There could be a hundred reasons she didn't take a minute to respond...
Seriously, I thought only girls whined about shit like this...
"He said he'd call, but he hasn't called, do you think he likes me?!? Omg!!"
There could be a hundred reasons she didn't take a minute to respond...
Seriously, I thought only girls whined about shit like this...
"He said he'd call, but he hasn't called, do you think he likes me?!? Omg!!"
There could be a hundred reasons she didn't take a minute to respond...
Don't live your life worrying about if people respond on these sites. People get busy, people ignore certain messages, people forget to respond. Again WHO CARES. You don't have to be Psycho about it. Don't bring it up or do anything like that.....that will make her think you are stalking her.
Sorry to be harsh....but our world now is a fucking mess because people are worried about facebook friends and why people are not messaging me....and cyber bullying. It is all BS and we need to get back to looking people in eye and giving them a hand shake.
crsm I wasn't being psycho about anything, sending another message asking why she didn't respond would be psycho and being a PL. However, I agree with you that I shouldn't worry about people(even true friends) responding to a message that was sent to them.
Congrats on being a huge pussy / PL
She doesn't like you outside of the club. Sorry dud, but its true!
Now why don't you step into reality were you fit into her life - your that guy that gives her a dollar to show you her hiney in a dark room. Yea, that is the kind of friend all women aspire to have!
one person with a vagina should never treat another person with a vagina like that.
No you shouldn't feel disrespected. If you didn't ask her a question in your message, then you weren't really asking for a response. If you did ask a question, It's all good. It's not her obligation to respond to anyone's facebook messages, just like it isn't your obligation to give her a heads up every time you go to el clubo.
A dancer will talk/acknowledge/communicate with a customer like a drugie communicates with her dealer; only when she wants/needs something – otherwise it is out of sight out of mind.
If you like her and want her attention (her to talk/respond to you) – pay her and you may get what you want. If you are not giving her $$$; she has no use for you and could care less.
My comments are not meant to dis you – the obvious truth just needs to be said.
Well not really.