I stopped in at a local club for lunch today and got some dances from two dancers. I didn't take either of them to the VIP where I'm sure extras were available due to time and money constraints. Both provided great dances but there was a clear distinction between the two, the first I would classify as providing a nasty experience and I'm sure if I took her up on the extras it would be a hot, nasty, fast experience. She was about a 6 in the looks department. The other was pretty close to a 10 in looks and her dances with me definitely were of the sensual variety, nibbling on my neck, tongue in my ear and so on. She allowed just as much two way touching as the first but as I said it was more GFE.
My question is this; if you were looking for extras in the VIP which would you prefer the nasty one or the sensual one? I realize sometimes it just depends on mood but honestly every time I've gotten extras it's been of the nasty kind and after today it makes me want the sensual kind.
it really depends on mood. unfortunately in Detroit, negotiation up front is very common and you won't know what kind of 'dance' your getting until your already back there. you'll know what kind of extras you're getting, but whether or not it's sensual or nasty is a different story.
as far as nasty dances go, I've had a couple chicks immediately unbotton my shirt and start licking my nipples even though I told them I was just buying dances. one of them I ended up taking further and the other one I didn't. but both had my attention, I mean 10 seconds into the first song and they're getting that freaky for a guy who said he just wanted a few dances, some girls know how to upsell and others just talk the talk.
Sensual. I am not into BDSM, so I don't want to get my nuts kneed or have my hair pulled until she gets me onto the ground. I appreciate naughtiness. But not nasty, because one girl's idea of nasty may be so edgy that I may be looking at the first exit instead of savoring the experience.
Most dancers are quite adaptable, but the customer just takes what the dancer considers normal when with just a word they could get the mood they like.
Sensual! When I danced if I sensed a man was freaky of course all hell broke loose w/dirty talk central. One night I wore an I LOVE COCK shirt to work, and the shirt was a great conversation starter to dances.
I too prefer sensual but it seems like when ever a dancer askes me what type of dances/ers I like, I say usually say nasty. I guess that I want them to know that I don't have any rules.
Sensuality definitely means something different to everyone but in general, I think you nailed it as GFE--something that feels like she's in to you and wants to please you. Different than nasty, which feels like she wants to get you off. Depends on my mood but I tend to go for the former because sensual usually means variety in the dance, which is my preferred type of dance/experience.
Sensual. Feels romantic, sexier and personal than nasty. And I'm a sucker for that (though I won't fall in the trap of thinking she likes me). I prefer nasty in the bed when we having sex though once in a while, if it were a private viewing and open touching was involved, i'd take nasty
“… Most dancers are quite adaptable, but the customer just takes what the dancer considers normal when with just a word they could get the mood they like …â€
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May try the nasty one every once in a while for a change of pace, but my default preference and my choice almost every time is sensual.
Nasty often feels more mechanical to me – where sensual feels more emotional.
as far as nasty dances go, I've had a couple chicks immediately unbotton my shirt and start licking my nipples even though I told them I was just buying dances. one of them I ended up taking further and the other one I didn't. but both had my attention, I mean 10 seconds into the first song and they're getting that freaky for a guy who said he just wanted a few dances, some girls know how to upsell and others just talk the talk.
Because a hot or a sensual girl can always get nasty. You just have to bring it out of her.
She wants to get nasty it is just a matter or getting her there. Then you have a girl that can be nasty or sensual.
Most dancers are quite adaptable, but the customer just takes what the dancer considers normal when with just a word they could get the mood they like.
That's the kinda nasty I like. How much do you love it?
Good point inno.