any of you ever get asked out by a dancer?
dalex
Happen to me, here's the story.
Setting: Some dive bar w/ dancers somewhere in Ohio.
So I enter this place, been there couple times before, so I grab a seat and sit down. Approached by this girl that I'm absolutely in love with the shape of her body. Okay so, she's not a beauty by any stretch, but we're talking about ass for days and titties for days, who can refuse? Not too old either, she revealed that she's 32, it's believable. Anyway, I seen her before & got dances from her before, but under much more awkward circumstances, this time it's totally different.
She sits down next to me, and just talks, we talk about bullshit and sports and whatever (yes she's a sports fan). She also tells me how she got a real job the week earlier & how she's excited about that. Eventually she asks me to use my phone, I'm like wtf but give in anyway watching everything she does, she goes to my text messages, my heart drops, but then she sends herself a text from my phone.
me: you know I'm going to need a picture to go w/ your contact now?
her: alright *does a stupid pose*
me: okay now I'm going to need one from behind.
her: lol *turns around and bends over the chair*
her: alright let me see. haha I love it.
So eventually I have to ask her for a dance because she wasn't offering. Then she complains that I'm not touching her and insists that I should. I touch her but then pull away quickly. I just wasn't in a touching mood man, I'm sorry.
So she stays there with me after couple dances and just talks. Eventually I'm ready to go & she asks me out. She's like look I'm not doing this just because you have money, but then she mentioned how she likes me and I'm a gentleman and whatever, and that she hasn't been in a relationship for 8 months now, and her last boyfriend used to beat on her. I tell her that I'll text her & we'll arrange to do something.
After that she texted me few times but I'm not interested so whatever.
Anyone ever have this happen? Share your stories please.
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Then punch him in 24 hours
Lol @dalex, me and my cousin waited an hour outside a record store for that CD the day it came out.
@Juice, give him a chance lol
In honesty I like the kid and love giving a good comedy show Dalex just happens to be my boy right now
Oh yeah and they think I have drugs for them lol.
LOL. .......
It has always come down to $$$ either in the short, or long, run; IME.
Strippers are used to getting paid by men (and lopaw) – and if you got $$$ (or more $$$ than she does). it is almost inevitable that she (or her drama) will hit you up for your cash – IME.
What woman takes a guy’s phone and just put their # in there? Does this happen to you in a non-SC setting? Your experience w/ her, and her behavior, is atypical – expect “dating†her would be atypical also. She is 32 - she probably knows how to get her way (and your cash) w/o making it obvious - IMO.
By the way, I still think you have way too much insight for a young guy and a SC newbie – but have no choice but to give you the benefit of the doubt.
@pabloantonio I don't have a big dick & if she felt any thing it'd be rather average sized dick.
I've been asked out to lunch/dinner on a few occasions. Flattering at first until I quickly remember no smoking hot young dancer is going to want to hang out with me OTC unless there is financial incentive involved.
Even if true, I wouldn't want to "date" these babes due to the drama. I have had several OTC dates that were fucking blasts though. Few things are more fun than partying with sexy dolls that are up for drinking and having a good time. The stares I get from other customers are worth the cost alone.
I do believe these girls like to go to nice places with guys with cash that can hold a decent conversation. Seems like they don't get out much.