As you may read in a review I just submitted I had a rather uncomfortable experience with a stripper in a SC club last night. I had no sooner walked in bought a drink and sat down when this girl approached me and insisted she buy me a drink. I politely told her I already had one and then she asked me for a private dance. I told her I had just arrived and would be buying dances later . She got right up in my face with a tough girl attitude. I mean she was really threatening and obnoxious. I actually started feeling uncomfortable after a few minutes of that crap. I actually was fearful that she might physically assault me. She has her face 6 inches from mine the whole time and would not respond to my polite requests to back off.
Finally I got the attention if the doorman and asked him to get her to give me some personal space. In 30+years of going to strip clubs I've never has such a bad experience.
Is this some kind of new stripper super hitch persona that is gaining popularity or did I just come in contact with a psycho?
I have had girls try the dominatrix routine and maybe it works with some guys but it just creeps me out. I usually get up and go to the bathroom or tip rail. If she them won't leave me alone I get the bouncers help. I once had a scrawny black girl who would not take no for an answer until I finally said very loudly " I'll give you a $5 to leave me the fuck alone" she got so mad she left and the bouncer came over and ask the problem so I told him, he laughed at how I handled it.
I wouldn't think too much about it. May have been nothing more than a particularly bad bout of PMS, or maybe she'd been drinking, or her cat died, or her boyfriend turned gay, or her best friend died of a drug overdose, or a list of 32,463 other reasons why a woman might freak out. Maybe you go back tomorrow and she's all sweetness and light. Who knows?
But I wouldn't blacklist her based on one incident. Give her a break, maybe life sucks for her right now. Yeah, it's not your problem, and she shouldn't be working if she's gonna pull shit like that, but if it's a 'one and done' incident, let it go.
You sound like you might be a little on the older side. IME there is a certain ani,al of dancer who will try to get away with something like this if they think that the guy will be intimidated. I would have just told her to go the fuck away and would have made sure that she understood that I meant it.
Wow, you guys are weak. Are guys scrawny or something or have a nerdy look about you? Because there should be no reason a girl would think you'd be intimidated by her yelling at you to give her some money despite the big bad bouncer RIGHT there? Personally if that happens, you stand up, get up in her face and tell her to fuck off. Gotta let these bitches know who's boss? Right bing crosby?
I think the first thing I would do would be to move to another table. Move to a different waitresses section, so your previous waitress will want to put some hurt on the bitch. Your case sounds pretty extreme, but there are a fair number of sadistic strippers who only want to make money on the masochist guys. To them, the non-masochist guys are only good for harassing.
When I went back to the club the next night I was told the previous night was her first night at the club and that she got into a physical confrontation with another girl back in the changing room. Apparently the owner had a "chat" with her and told her she'd not tolerate any more behavior of this nature. I think she's definitely appealljng to the masochistic client. Jet black hair. Numerous piercings on face. Just an evil look about her. Don't think I'd select her for a private dance even if she approached me nicely. Not my type.
Some can be really domineering but never heard of this one before. I had one offer me a free dance which I took.
Don't let domineering bitch dances scare you. Try to find out what they want. I let them know who's boss right away that I am an experienced SC player. I am there to do my thing, not theirs.
I have noticed this behavior from bottom-of-the-barrel dancers. They can't make money on looks or service, so they harrass you until you give them money to go the fuck away. They might sit at your table and refuse to leave you alone until you give them money or a drink. One time, I had a dancer sit on my lap and said she would not leave until I tipped her. I warned her to get off me. She didn't so I just stood up and let her topple to the floor off of my lap. Then I proceeded to walk away.
LMFAO. Good sir, you deserve a good slap on the back. Kudos to you sinclair, gotta let these chicks know whos boss. And if that didn't work you can beat her with a sack of sweet valanci oranges. It won't leave a bruise and it'll definetely let her know who's boss. There's NOOOO doubt about it.
Whenever I encounter an obviously dominant dancer like that, especially the dominatrix wannabes, I always take them back to VIP. Why? Because once we are alone, I dominate her. Those tough Dom bitches always go limp when I choke them while nuzzling their ear and fingering them.
I just glad it has not happened to me.
I try to be polite to all the girls that sit down.
I will chit chat but not buy dance or drink.
I try in advance (lately) to get intel on girls in a club before I go there. So I tell them name of dancer I am there to see.
Last time (TUESDAY @ SYNN COI) a new girl would not leave. I think she sat there for 10 minutes chatting. My girl was in dressing room getting ready for stage. The new girl finally left when she spotted a PL just sitting down. Three or four other girls had no problem with me saying who I was there to see. They just asked the standard question "Are you sure you don't want to have some fun with me while you are waiting for her?"
i am going to come over to all y'all's houses and start slapping y'alls around unless y'all start sending me money thru the mail. Got it? I knows where y'alls lives. BE AFRAID!!!
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But I wouldn't blacklist her based on one incident. Give her a break, maybe life sucks for her right now. Yeah, it's not your problem, and she shouldn't be working if she's gonna pull shit like that, but if it's a 'one and done' incident, let it go.
Don't let domineering bitch dances scare you. Try to find out what they want. I let them know who's boss right away that I am an experienced SC player. I am there to do my thing, not theirs.
The day isn't complete until a customer is sobbing and cowering under the pool table. =]
I just glad it has not happened to me.
I try to be polite to all the girls that sit down.
I will chit chat but not buy dance or drink.
I try in advance (lately) to get intel on girls in a club before I go there. So I tell them name of dancer I am there to see.
Last time (TUESDAY @ SYNN COI) a new girl would not leave. I think she sat there for 10 minutes chatting. My girl was in dressing room getting ready for stage. The new girl finally left when she spotted a PL just sitting down. Three or four other girls had no problem with me saying who I was there to see. They just asked the standard question "Are you sure you don't want to have some fun with me while you are waiting for her?"
Been over @ zbone to get intel on dancers.