Libido decline.
nickifree
Texas
My last few trips to SC havens have been very unsatisfactory. Save for two or three spinners in various clubs around town, most of the dancers really don't inspire that "gotta get dance from her" reaction.
I rarely ever tip dancers on stage anymore (other than the few I mentioned above). And some dancers who were in my ATF corral no longer do it for me. It doesn't help that overall talent has plummeted in recent years. But even some dancers I still think are hot don't propel me to spend money on dances (I have very good disposable income, so its not strictly about money).
For me, it seems the allure of SCs has started to wane off.
I rarely ever tip dancers on stage anymore (other than the few I mentioned above). And some dancers who were in my ATF corral no longer do it for me. It doesn't help that overall talent has plummeted in recent years. But even some dancers I still think are hot don't propel me to spend money on dances (I have very good disposable income, so its not strictly about money).
For me, it seems the allure of SCs has started to wane off.
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You could try taking Zinc supplements.
Maybe you're stressed, or not getting enough sleep, or taking some medication, or depressed, or suffering from low testosterone, or a whole bunch of other stuff. Yeah, you could try taking all kinds of supplements that have never been proven to do any good whatsoever, or you could try to figure out what the real cause is and deal with it.
Or maybe you're just growing out of clubs and getting different interests. Which could be a good thing.
But to each his own.
Unless I find a far better strip club experience than what I've recently been getting, I think my SC days will be growing fewer in number. It's mostly due to the irritations I have to endure every time - the loud rap/R&B, uncomfortable chairs, tatted girls, the hustle, surly/rowdy patrons, shot girl pressure, and stressful hit-or-miss VIPs.
I tell ya, if any club were to deal with these issues, they'd get my business in a heartbeat from places like Follies. I go for the few girls who warrant my attention, and I simply put up with the rest because there's nothing better.
I think a little portion of the fact that I'm mongering less, is that I'm simply finding fewer valid opportunities for valid cost. (I can't define what "valid" means in the previous sentence, by the way, but I know it when I see it.)
Why are clubs less wonderful? The girls seem less beautiful. The drinks have less alcohol but cost more. The lapper experience is less alluring. The opportunity for pay-for-play is extremely unreasonably expensive, and also less enjoyable, and more of a clinical get-to-the-finish experience, than ever before. The buildings are dingy and in unsafe neighborhoods and the whole underside-of-the-city thing is just no longer enticing. It's all on a downhill slope. Where are the super-hot impressionable young thangs of 2003 or 1993, the girlies who needed just a little encouragement to get talked into blowjobs in the back rooms, or fucks in the pickup truck, because they were just thrilled with the idea of breaking the rules and having their nearly-under-age titties fondled? Where, similarly, are the experienced old-expert yoga-instructor-body ladies who could suck a golf ball through a garden hose, named Dallas and Houston and Austin and Texas, and their abs-muscles that you could grate cheese on? Where are they gone?
I think a lot of it is that stripping has become so "mainstream" in North American culture that it has to some extent the McDonald's of adult entertainment. It's all dime-a-dozen minimum-common-denominator experiences now. Everybody has a gimmick, thought up by a half-wit with a middle-school education. Every girl who dances already "knows what men want" and just goes for the jugular, in terms of making you finish, or making you think she'll make you finish, with whatever aggressive mercenary attitude that she thinks will drain your wallet the fastest.
Another part of it may indeed be, that sex isn't forbidden any more. In my generation, if a 22-year-old hot female were stripping, it was likely a reasonable guess that she had been regularly sexually active for four to six years, at the most, although she might have had an odd (or negative) experience earlier, and generally it was with a boyfriend or at least a "hook up" dude whom she thought of as "hot" or in some other way desirable. Her high school sexual experiences were within relationships. Now, the 22-year-olds have been at it for a decade, and they've been at it with anyone who asked, as long as he had a car. I guess in some respects it's good that females now will consent to have more sex whenever they think it will be fun. But in other respects it takes away the titillation. They all seem rather vulgar, low-brow, declasse, to me now.
Strip clubs have become the late-night television advertisement for your town's local electronics-giant warehouse store. Very bright lights, a little too loud, get what you pay for, not get anything more, not get anything related or ancillary or attendant, and boy the sales people are inarticulate!