Strippers and Daughters??
I'm like most men - I like to see a variety of sexy tight female bodies, and that didn't magically change when I got married. Nor did it magically change when I began having children. Now sure, I haven't been to strip clubs as much as some guys over the years due to trying to stay balanced between work and family. The desire has always been there though, and now that my kids are older and my wife is less concerned with keeping tabs on how I spend my free time I've been frequenting them more often. I still have a high level of paranoia about getting caught and take precautions that are probably over the top, which I've seen some posters talk about as being "part of thrill" and now that I've found tactics that feel secure, I think I can get that. For a while I wondered if what I was feeling involved a little bit of guilt, but now I'm fairly confident that it was only a desire for my activities to remain private.
All that said.
I tend to prefer the younger girls in a club for multiple reasons: (obviously) they tend to have the firmest bodies and perkiest tits, they're less likely to have 5+ kids, and in my experience their brains have had less time to be fried on drug habits and there's the rare chance that they might *actually* be working their way towards healthier goals. Last night I met a dancer who claimed (without me mentioning anything about my daughter) that she attends the same university my daughter is currently at. That wouldn't really be surprising, it's somewhat of a college town and I've met numerous strippers in my clubbing experience who claim to go there.
I've heard lots of people try to guilt-trip partakers of the sex industry by saying "That girl is someone's daughter!" and I've never really thought too hard about it. I actually don't plan to think too hard about it now, either. It just threw me a little bit on multiple levels.
It occurred to me that my own daughter could be friends with this girl - how weird would that be? I'll admit that I felt slightly like a hypocrite when I realized I wouldn't be very okay with my daughter working at a club. (Everyone laughs about when a young boyfriend meets the dad for the first time and it's awkward because the boy knows that the dad knows what he's thinking.....just imagine how this would apply in the SC world!)
I've read on this site for a while but this is actually my first "post" because I just had to ask if anyone else has had experiences like this? I could imagine there would be a range of reactions. I like to try and have as broad a perspective as possible. I'm not really looking for any particular advice or reassurance here (though you're welcome to offer it), I just actually found the line of thought a little fascinating and wondered how other men with daughters think of it. I feel like it's hard to see strippers as anybody's daughter/sister/etc but occasionally you'll get a glimpse of something a little more human. At that point I'm left wondering, do their fathers know what they do? Would they care? Does anyone on here have a daughter/SO (that's not just a new fucktoy) that's done this? Would you be ok with your daughters doing it? Strippers, what do you tell your family?
All that said.
I tend to prefer the younger girls in a club for multiple reasons: (obviously) they tend to have the firmest bodies and perkiest tits, they're less likely to have 5+ kids, and in my experience their brains have had less time to be fried on drug habits and there's the rare chance that they might *actually* be working their way towards healthier goals. Last night I met a dancer who claimed (without me mentioning anything about my daughter) that she attends the same university my daughter is currently at. That wouldn't really be surprising, it's somewhat of a college town and I've met numerous strippers in my clubbing experience who claim to go there.
I've heard lots of people try to guilt-trip partakers of the sex industry by saying "That girl is someone's daughter!" and I've never really thought too hard about it. I actually don't plan to think too hard about it now, either. It just threw me a little bit on multiple levels.
It occurred to me that my own daughter could be friends with this girl - how weird would that be? I'll admit that I felt slightly like a hypocrite when I realized I wouldn't be very okay with my daughter working at a club. (Everyone laughs about when a young boyfriend meets the dad for the first time and it's awkward because the boy knows that the dad knows what he's thinking.....just imagine how this would apply in the SC world!)
I've read on this site for a while but this is actually my first "post" because I just had to ask if anyone else has had experiences like this? I could imagine there would be a range of reactions. I like to try and have as broad a perspective as possible. I'm not really looking for any particular advice or reassurance here (though you're welcome to offer it), I just actually found the line of thought a little fascinating and wondered how other men with daughters think of it. I feel like it's hard to see strippers as anybody's daughter/sister/etc but occasionally you'll get a glimpse of something a little more human. At that point I'm left wondering, do their fathers know what they do? Would they care? Does anyone on here have a daughter/SO (that's not just a new fucktoy) that's done this? Would you be ok with your daughters doing it? Strippers, what do you tell your family?
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How do you do that? Don't think about a strippers dad, my brothah. Think "this chick likes dick...she likes it in her mouth, she likes it in her cunt, and she likes it up her tight asshole. I need to help this beautiful 18 year old out, because SHE needs dick so much!"
Don't think about the truth the she really likes money and horny middle aged dudes who give it to her. Her job is to convince you that she wants your dick. That she wants it so BAD it hurts. If she does a good job of convincing you, you are disrespecting her work ethic. Don't dis anybody's work ethic. It is UNAMERICAN!
As a patriotic MFers it is our duty to chase 18-20 year old strippers and put our dicks in them (for a small fee, have to keep the economy going, after all). GOD FUCKING BLESS AMERICA!!!!
Unlike bumfuck Middle Eastern countries, in America you can pay a hot teen girl to take off her clothes and show you her pussy and tits and ass. Then you can pay her to sit in your lap and suck her tits and grab your dick and... I say it again, GOD BLESS AMERICA. And I mean that, unlike the fucking politicians. I mean it even though I'm an atheist!
Of course, my experiences in Canada have been even better. Last time I was there an early 20s blonde with natural D cups and a nice body told me exactly how much she wanted for specific, ahem, services. No beating around the bush (her bush was shaved off, of course). So GOD BLESS CANADA TOO! Canada rocks!
zipman68 - hey, the fact that it's in my name should show that I've embraced it plenty ;D. I was just mildly setback by the idea of how many of these college strippers might potentially invade my real life through the mutual connection of my daughter. That would be all around mortifying for everyone not to mention potentially life-altering, depending on how my wife reacted.
I know, I know...time to pick another nearby town and cover my tracks better. And for those of you bachelors out there who think us old married guys should just get a divorce and live freely, spare me the opinion as it's not that simple.
I didn't mean to seem so emotional about it, I really did just find it slightly disturbing and provoking large amounts of curiosity. I thought "Somebody out there has gotta have some good stories about this shit that aren't just erotic writings!" and figured I'd see if anyone here had some stories to help me laugh it off. While I'm pretty good at detaching myself from SS, I do care about my own family and simply found it a little unsettling in that context.
I'll bet they wished they had daughters who were strippers just so they could say hello to them later in life.
What are your honest thoughts on men who buy girls the age of their own daughters? To me, as long as we all remember that it's a business exchange/fantasy instead of getting caught up with plans to leave our current lives and run away together, things will go smoothly. But after this weekend I can't help but admit that my daughter would probably be fairly disgusted by the thought of her father partaking of girls her own age. And it made me think that this topic has to have come up in the dressing rooms, considering how common it is for their to be a large age gap.
Don't anyone think I'm a saint here to change from my wicked ways, far from it ;D. But these thoughts came up, so I like to think them through.
I do have nieces and goddaughters and I would splash around a goodly amount of my wealth to keep even one of them from entering the world of stripping.
To justify my hypocrisy, I simply fall back on a facile cop-out. Irretrievably damaged customers (like me) are being serviced by likewise damaged dancers; both parties to the transaction being in the clubs through an exercise of free will.
How is that for a statement by a weasel?
You bring up a good point (and a whole different topic) in mentioning social isolation/awkwardness. I think it's a large factor in what makes clubs so appealing. Many of us are in professions where we have to put on an act, only to come home and have to put on a different kind of show. Whether it's a nagging wife or pretending mommy and daddy still love each other in front of the kids (which only gets harder as they get older) it can amount to constant pressure. Maybe it makes me a sexist pig, but it makes the idea of naked young women who would "looooove" to sit on my lap very appealing. I know I've seen others on the board make comments about extreme shyness when it comes to dealing with women, or even just wanting to be someone else for a few hours.
I try to be open-minded and not rule out one reason for frequenting strip clubs just because it's not my own personal reason. I try to remember the same about dancers, even though the stereotypes can be pretty consistent. (I would guess the stereotypes about us men are probably are equally predictable!)
So justification aside (I don't really feel like I or anyone else necessarily needs a justification), it does leave me wondering why many of us would flip shit if we found out our 'little angels' worked at a titty bar.
Ha, this does remind me of some comedian I heard in passing once, though! Something along the lines of: "fathers - your only job in life is to keep that baby off the pole!"
Other than that, business is business
for lack of a better example but the late but great comedian robert schimmel had a daughter that was in her late teens/early 20's. she used to hang out w/this hot friend. robert schimmel was attracted to her, banged her and eventually married her. if your daughter was cool she would understand that's how some things tend to go.
You just turn 40 Rick? Congrats. That why you feelings bit melancholy lately? Just go buy yourself a few sports cars. That ought to cheer you up.
Still young enough to be hot, but less guilt about just being barely out of high school.
From the comments you posted I am guessing that your marriage has been less than steller for some time. As such, I don't think your wife finding out that you occassionally go to strip clubs would be of much consequence. I suspect that most married men visit strip clubs at some point in their lives and the wives probably know about it or suspect it.
As for your daughter, I guess it would depend on her relationship with her mother. I suspect she is already well aware of your marital situation, so I think the strip club excursion would come as no surprise. Also, since my business involves selling to college age males and females, I am pretty sure that most of that generation has no big hangups with strip clubs or most other different lifestyles (e.g. gay and lesbian lifesyles). I know another TUSCL member whose grown daughter is well aware of his clubbing antics and has no problem with it.
Finally, the chances of your daughter and this stripper ever connecting (even if they do attend the same school) seems pretty remote to me. Even if they do, I doubt the stripper would connect you to your daughter unless you had provided the stripper with some very detailed information about your personal life.
Personally, I have little guilt in doing LD with girls 18 years old. As a middle aged guy, the idea of a beautiful young thing playing with my cock while I suck on her tits and play with her pussy, wow, I get horny just thinking of it.
However, I too get paranoid about getting caught and have have a few calls that were closer than I owuld have preferred, so I totally understand how you feel.
So, I understand you. I think going to a SC that reduces your chances of doing a dance with your daughter's friend is logical. I remember one time going to club about 1/2 hour from my house and meeting a stripper and she told me that she lived one town away from where I lived. Oh my god - I was totally freaked that I was going to bump into her grocery shopping.
Happy clubbing and hope you can find a way to make your lifestyle work while making you feel less paranoid.
Everyone is someone's child. While these girls/women may be working at a strip club out of need they are not enslaved. I avoid AMPs because of trafficing of immigrant asian girls.