A call In
I learned something new this weekend and I just want to see how common this is.
Basically I was to see my ATF on Saturday Afternoon, but she emails me to meet her at the club friday night to talk so more comfortable going saturday. Note ATF is a AM Shift girl. So I get thier at 7:00 and bam she wants into 3 for 60 deal lap dance so we can talk. Then the upsell in the first song for VIP normal treadment. I'm like slow down, I'll pay for one song and lets go upstairs. Note this 1/2 hour was very rushed and we were out of thier in a split, she went downstairs changed into street clothes, one kiss and out the door. First time ever for this, she has been ATF for over 2 years.
Next day I'm recovering my eyewear and the manager lets me in free and says he remembers me from the night before as I was one of two call ins for ATF. So basically she called us in, ran us through quick and avoided paying PM Shift dues. Talk about a play! Needless to say she is not ATF anymore. My only mistake was not keeping the $50 dollar tip when things in VIP were rushed mechanical.
I do expect a level of connection / talk when in VIP. Night saved by another dancer so not all was lost.
Anyone else get called in?
Basically I was to see my ATF on Saturday Afternoon, but she emails me to meet her at the club friday night to talk so more comfortable going saturday. Note ATF is a AM Shift girl. So I get thier at 7:00 and bam she wants into 3 for 60 deal lap dance so we can talk. Then the upsell in the first song for VIP normal treadment. I'm like slow down, I'll pay for one song and lets go upstairs. Note this 1/2 hour was very rushed and we were out of thier in a split, she went downstairs changed into street clothes, one kiss and out the door. First time ever for this, she has been ATF for over 2 years.
Next day I'm recovering my eyewear and the manager lets me in free and says he remembers me from the night before as I was one of two call ins for ATF. So basically she called us in, ran us through quick and avoided paying PM Shift dues. Talk about a play! Needless to say she is not ATF anymore. My only mistake was not keeping the $50 dollar tip when things in VIP were rushed mechanical.
I do expect a level of connection / talk when in VIP. Night saved by another dancer so not all was lost.
Anyone else get called in?
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I've been fortunate to be able to avoid the call in for the most part. One girl would text from time to time "I'm at work today, you should come see me". Probably a mass text for all I know. I'm not a spur of the moment guy and even if I wanted to most clubs I go to are a distance. So I'll just reply back not today, some day soon.
Others will text once in awhile "hey, haven't seen you in awhile when you stopping in?". But all these are pretty infrequent. They know I'll come in when I want to and I'll let them know my plans.
I tend to ignore the generic texts, e.g., "hey baby, miss you" just for that reason.
The more clever girls learn to send personalized texts, using my name, and including a reference to an inside joke between us.
Hey, If I'm going to get worked, I like to know she put a little effort into it.
Lessonb learned. We all go through these things at some point. I don't need time with any dancr enough to let her dictate when I time my club visit. I have also been in your club recently and got the high hustle vibe from a lot of the girls I dealt with, so I'm guessing that this type of thing is not uncommon there.
Go West young man, go West. ;)
However, I once had a bad experience. A fav called and asked me to come in. When I got to the club, she was sitting with a big spender. I walked up and said hello so she would know I was there. She said she would come see me soon, but she never left the big spender. Needless to say, she's no longer a fav.
1) you go see her because “you†want to see her; not because she wants to see you (you = your $$$)
2) if she is calling you because it’s slow and she needs $$$, then there is a good chance you will get more time w/ her and better attention.
@steve3003: "I guess I still don’t understand why guys would want to complicate their lives with strippers beyond the confines of the club."
Sometimes, it's worth it. My current favorite, whom I've been seeing for almost two years now, is a case in point. Some of the best sex I've ever had, not demanding, little to no drama, and available and willing pretty much whenever I want. Her new boyfriend has changed that somewhat, though, so I think it has about run it's course. Even so, it has definitely been worth the time and effort.
I use Google Voice. Using that, I can manage who gets through and when. If she starts abusing the privilege, she goes in the group that goes directly to voice mail without ringing my phone. If she blows my phone up with texts, she gets blocked, which not only blocks texts, but if she calls, she gets a "number no longer in service" message.
LOL
I'm amazed you "Lower" yourself that far to let dancers even near your "World", with an attitude of that sort.
Finally, she calls me, and I pick up the phone very pissed, and she rants and raves, then hangs up on me. The economy must really suck, as she's quite striking, but she has an anger management issue I discovered. Two hours later, she texts me asking me to come out to the club.
Needless to say, I blocked her number, and I'll really think twice before giving out my number again. I had never seen that side of her before, but she's a psycho bitch!
Not very smart, when I do go to the club again, I'll just have to ignore her, and move on to mingle with the others. No loss, I'm sure she'll do the same. Hustlers never quit!
A stripper with anger management issues – who would have thought
Know where you're coming from. To each his own.
F**kin strippers.
Funny, as I was looking over this thread, I got a text from "Ashley" ; "Steve, where have you been??" lol