Our Reputation With the Dancers
Omega22
I have posted a thread about what people outside of the strip club scene think about us but what do the entertainers think of us? In other words what does a dancer think about guys that go to strip clubs on a fairly regular basis?
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They sometimes grow to "like" us, but it's an affection based more on our ability to contribute money than on any real emotion. I know my ATF likes me, but I have absolutely no illusion about how far that would get me if the cash dried up.
It ain't that complicated, stop over thinking it.
However, others think that there are some good men in the club. I have known 4 strippers who have dated and married clubbers. I asked why, and they said that they work so much, that they don't have time to find a nice guy on the outside.
How long the Marraige lasts? Well, that may be another topic for discussion.
Alucard and Txtittyfan are gentlemen who are personable, kind, and generous clients. What dancer doesn't actually want guys like that?
In short, dancers love us.
Omega22 - use the "ignore" feature. It's a small gray circle with an "x" in it under the posters name right under their avatar. It's a life saver!
As for the topic I think I should revise what I said in my first comment. Some girls, but not all, see us as pathetic losers. However some of the dancers see us as simply people out to have a good time and they want to make our night at their club one to remember.
I think 6 posts, and less than 24 hours.
In general, I do think that most dancers assume some PL aspect to most customers, but IMO I don't think its that holds 100% of the time. I think there are certain customers who can pull of not falling into the PL category (and no I'm not one of them)
And I've always been consistent about respecting dancer's privacy. Find me a counter example or STFU... moron!
I know the other girls talked shit about me in the dressing room. Some even taunted me with things I have said to my face. Not in an obvious way, but I recognized some phrases I had used. They didn't get my money though, so there was that.
I really didn't expect much from them and they measured up to that in their actions and words.
The ATF though, she broke through the wall. Never heard from her after I moved, no email, no phone call, not even snail mail. All business that one was I guess.
I guess I had some respect with some, because it was known I would not go out clubbing when I had a girlfriend. So, everyone knew when I was single again.
I meet people all the time who don't know my full name especially at strip clubs. But hey man, whatever excuse you need to be able to avoid it.
As to a counter example, 4 years of postings are pretty good example of your (proclaimed) attitude. As to a more specific example I, unlike you, don't have the time to dig through hundreds or thousands of posts so I can try and be an internet tough guy.
"STFU... moron"
LOL. Classic Dougster.
And leave Dougster alone. He, Alucard, and AfricanLovePimp are the three pillars of tuscl. All you other pussy-whipped wimps and barely out-of-puberty puppies (and that includes you, omega22, with all the sophomoric questions), your strive to learn is to be commended.
I wasn't even going to read this lame thread, "Our Reputation with the Dancers" But I saw it had so many comments, I said, "WTF" The similar thread had me laughing so hard due to the comments between you & omega. Omega couldn't win the debate with facts, so just started calling you names. Must be a Nancy Pelosi Liberal. No wonder regular strip club patrons have the stereotype as Pathetic Loser.
I said your entire posting history and attitude are a counter example. Not to mention you already said shit about stiletto working at extra clubs. Way to really respect her privacy. You've got your little excuses, just like every internet tough guy. Keep using them.
Now go back to parading out your alternate screen names.
@Omega: You need to stop wasting time worrying about what others think of you, whether it is strippers, Dougster or anyone else. If a wannabe douchebag like Dougster can get you "shaking with anger" over silly Internet posts, then you will be a lamb to the slaughter for any skilled stripper with a good stringalong game. Toughen the fuck up already.
That's why it can't be anonymous now. Unless you can figure out a protocol, clever guy that you are you let me know.
Or if you maintain that posting your real name on this board is no big deal, then tell you what, you, rick, alucard, mikeya, and jester all post your names online to prove it is no big deal, I will follow your example and go ahead with the non-anonymous meeting. So let's see if you guys are willing to put your money where you mouth is and post your real names, or if you are all talk!
Not that any of this is real anyway. The "dancers" that come on here never seem to be dancing anywhere and you've got who knows how many aliases on this thing, but I'm being a good sport for a moment and am playing along.
Show me where I said it wasn't a big deal? Please, you're big on asking for examples so show me where I said anything about posting a name online.
Your new argument is you can't meet her because you met sometime in the past (here you imply extra's happened, way to keep her privacy) where you also let her learn your full name (seriously, what a PL move) and now you can't meet her somewhere because she'll remember your full name and then be able to post it online??? Wow...
That settles it, clearly worse than the white knights and the delusional set.
PLEASE don't put me in a group with Mr. Dougster & Mr. ALP.
I don't wish to be INFECTED by their SLIME!!!
"You were called out and you are simply too afraid to meet the challenge"
Yes our Mr. Dougster proved he is a coward & that he has NO BALLS at all, just a complete Eunuch!
I'll meet your challenge Mr. Dougster! My REAL 1st name is Jeff. You don't need my last name & I don't wish to know yours. And the photo in my photo collection of the guy with glasses & a blue cap is me. Post your pic TOO Mr. Dougster! PROVE you aren't a coward & have some minuscule BALLS!!!
You wouldn't Fucking DARE thinking of crawling out from behind your pathetic claims of privacy & hiding behind the anonymity of the Internet. You dare not reveal yourself, you're TOO Fucking SCARED!!!
A Dougster classic comment!!!!....LMFAO!!!
Before you all get to excited about revealing identities, let
me say there are probably people on this site YOU DO NOT WANT
TO KNOW.
Think.
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Before you all get to excited about revealing identities, let
me say there are probably people on this site YOU DO NOT WANT
TO KNOW.
Think.
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And the slime with NO BALLS, Mr Dougster is a Prime example!
Look, going to SC is fun and for old, ugly farts, like me, it's the only way I'm going to sample some 20 yr old hot snatch. Still, it's not a replacement for REAL relationships. Nothing beats a real relationship.
One more thing - you claim to be early 20s, just out of college. Good for you, but believe this - Life is like a rollercoaster. It's full of ups and downs. If you don't have any real relationships, who are you going to turn to when life throws you a curveball? You could have a great life and then BAM, you're in the hospital or out of work. Think some stripper is going to visit you in the hospital or talk to you when the money runs out? A real friend will be there for you. You don't have to search for someone to marry to cultivate a relationship. You may not like what Dougster says, but his comments are closer to reality than most. (I don't care for ALP. He's so extreme. I hope he's not the way he writes).
Go to SC and have fun, but get a real life as well.
Don't call me a hoot. I am doing well in life and have a bright future ahead of me. I am not the reason why some strippers call us pathetic losers I don't even spend half my paycheck and I had sex with women in college that don't strip.
I understand life is a rollercoaster and I have much to learn about the real world. Recently out of college I still have a long way to go and I won't deny that. Also if I have problems I know a stripper won't be there but I have plenty of friends that will be.
Also I will man up and say I am sorry for saying you are a pathetic excuse for a human being but understand that you made some remarks to me but I simply dont care what you think about me. Also as for fantasy land I don't live in one. I know full well that the dancers don't care about me and only want my money. However I am only there to have fun and I am having a real life. After all I have a job with a fortune 500 company.
What'd I miss?
If you are speaking of beer, I don't drink alcoholic fluids. LOL
Now what was that again? Something about using a fake name when registering for match.com so you start getting e-mails for Denzel Washington and solicitations from A.A.
I've frequented SC for 30 years. I've known dancers who have flat out told me I'm somewhat pathetic, and I've known dancers who've wanted to date me.
I have the money to spend and most of my ATFs know that. So most of them might just simply believe that for me, spending money in a SC no big thing.