OTC Activities
Alucard
Ok guys for your OTC activities, is it a strictly sexual encounter at a given location?
Or is there a social component + the sexual encounter?
If there is a social component, who decides what that social activity will be? You, the Dancer or is it a mutually arrived at decision?
I'd personally would prefer a social component + the sexual encounter, with the social activity a mutually arrived at decision.
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last commentJust the sex for me, unless a drink/meal beforehand is included in the price. I don't see the point in paying extra just to socialise.
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Sex. Though pillow talk before and dinner afterwards are not unheard of.
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For me, it's a social component + the sexual encounter.
The social component is decided upon by the dancer, so that she is happy.
Many times she'll want to go shopping (ugh), which I detest but I suck it up and go along with it.
Because if she's happy, then I'M happy, and everybody wins.
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never done otc. but if i did it would start socialy then end up in bed
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That depends on if I want to see her again. If I am outta town for just one night, then no. Just gimme the sex. If she is a favorite and works at one of my favorire clubs, then yes.
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In my limited OTC experience, it's been just go to her place for sex. But the last time I was there she hinted around that she'd like to get drinks either before or after we get together.
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So far, just sex. But I've been thinking about taking one girl or another to dinner afterwards. One of the problems with dinner, however, is that most of the girls who come to my house dress as if they came out for OTC.
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Drac baby......I need the social with the sex........for example with my ATF its all OTC now.......so we text and talk on the phone through out the day every day.......when we meet up once or a few times a week we always will go out to the lake and walk around and laugh and kid. Around........we will go out to breakfast, lunch or dinner depends on the time of our meetings........then heavy dfk with 4play......sex.......after play with cuddling and sleep........more 4 play and then sex......then we may go out for a movie or get a movie in........its fuckin amazing drake.........ATF are everythang to the over all clubbing experiance
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'Fuck and flee' for me.
Almost all my SC visits are drive-by guerrilla raids. Why would I bother with the social niceties? On the very odd occasions when I bring a dancer to Rancho farmerart the weekend becomes 'strained' in one manner or another.
I must admit, however, that the week I spent in Hawaii with a dancer was a most sublime experience.
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Drac baby......I need the social with the sex........for example with my ATF its all OTC now.......so we text and talk on the phone through out the day every day.......when we meet up once or a few times a week we always will go out to the lake and walk around and laugh and kid. Around........we will go out to breakfast, lunch or dinner depends on the time of our meetings........then heavy dfk with 4play......sex.......after play with cuddling and sleep........more 4 play and then sex......then we may go out for a movie or get a movie in........its fuckin amazing drake.........ATF are everythang to the over all clubbing experiance
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Yes I KNOW Juice my Man! I truly know. :) :)
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"its fuckin amazing drake"
Who's drake Juice? Me? lol
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Mostly just a sexual encounter, with the possibility of having dinner between the club and the sex.
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Usually just the sex, though I suppose that seeing her at the club beforehand may qualify as a sort of social component. I rarely do OTC where a pre-tryst club visit isn't part of the gig. There is something nice about talking and drinking withher for a while and, while she is dancing and garnering the attention of other guys, knowing that I will be the one hitting that after the club closes.
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I like my OTC to be 100% transaction based with as little fee as possible. I want to see my returns maximized and reduce how taxed I am once the transaction is complete. I enjoy using my gains for a variety of purposes following the transaction.
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Drac baby lol ya I had a juicy typ "O"
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I had a dancer recently who I have had regular OTC with for about 4 years ofter to cut me a deal and go to dinner with me beforehand..LOL!
I kind of took she thought it would be a trill for me to sat across the table from her. Not really! Not if it is not real. I mean if it was a real date I might. But we both knew what it was so lets just get down to business! a little casual how you been talk is ok but lets not try and make it something it's not.
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No sex. We're both content spending a couple of hours cropping
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I've become a fan of the social+ method. Dinner first, hotel room, breakfast in the morning after. It turned into that after a few times of OTC. It's always a mutual decision on where to go, keeps everyone happy.
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Anyone meeting a stripper for sex OTC with motivations beyond simply enjoying the sex is a real fuckin' weirdo, IMO.
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Always social first, almost always involving drinking. My favorite is taking the stripper to a different strip club than where she works -- strippers are so fucking fun to take to strip clubs, it's just a whirl of alcohol and feminine lust. Or, as my old ATF used to put it, "let's go to the strip club and get drunk and horny, then head back to the room to fuck it off". She was a genius, that girl, and I've followed her advice ever since. I personally have no interest in a meet-fuck-leave OTC experience, just not my thing (not passing judgement), I only go OTC with girls are really enjoy hanging with.
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