Angry and retiring

I'm quitting SCing and "the hobby". I've had too many bad dances at too many difference clubs. About five years ago, I stopped looking for legitimate strip clubs and started seeing escorts. VIP at a the club I was frequenting was like over $200/15 min and maybe she would grind on you to completion, maybe not. An escort session was $120/30 min with much more than a lap dance. I did that infrequently for fear of the pulise. I got sick of that about a year ago. There were too many escort ads with blurry pics or the face cut out. I walked into too many ugly traps. There were lots of no call/no shows. I started looking for extras in strip clubs because I could take my pick of the girl I thought was hot. I would never ask a dancer outright for extras, for fear of insulting a valuable entertainer. I always went to clubs where I had a feeling that only dancers willing to do extras were hired. Lately though, my tried and true VVh0r3 houses were letting me down. The dancers would even move the bikini for a peek! They would tell me some shit like, "I can't because there is a camera." when I know damn well the managers don't give a shit and sell VV33D on top of it! So all my VVh0r3 houses have dried up. I'd even take a good grind from a 7.5, but I can't even find that! I feel like the scene is dead or laying low. I don't feel like waiting around to find out if it is going to revive.

So I'm sure I'm going to get the usual reply advice like:
Patience pays off.
When you look too hard, you won't find it.
Don't go to a SC expecting a VVh0r3 house.
I'm just done. I'm tired of shelling out the cash. I'm tired of the late nights. I'm tired of it being a complicated mission. This NJ hobbyist is retired.