I'm quitting SCing and "the hobby". I've had too many bad dances at too many difference clubs. About five years ago, I stopped looking for legitimate strip clubs and started seeing escorts. VIP at a the club I was frequenting was like over $200/15 min and maybe she would grind on you to completion, maybe not. An escort session was $120/30 min with much more than a lap dance. I did that infrequently for fear of the pulise. I got sick of that about a year ago. There were too many escort ads with blurry pics or the face cut out. I walked into too many ugly traps. There were lots of no call/no shows. I started looking for extras in strip clubs because I could take my pick of the girl I thought was hot. I would never ask a dancer outright for extras, for fear of insulting a valuable entertainer. I always went to clubs where I had a feeling that only dancers willing to do extras were hired. Lately though, my tried and true VVh0r3 houses were letting me down. The dancers would even move the bikini for a peek! They would tell me some shit like, "I can't because there is a camera." when I know damn well the managers don't give a shit and sell VV33D on top of it! So all my VVh0r3 houses have dried up. I'd even take a good grind from a 7.5, but I can't even find that! I feel like the scene is dead or laying low. I don't feel like waiting around to find out if it is going to revive.
So I'm sure I'm going to get the usual reply advice like: Patience pays off. When you look too hard, you won't find it. Don't go to a SC expecting a VVh0r3 house. I'm just done. I'm tired of shelling out the cash. I'm tired of the late nights. I'm tired of it being a complicated mission. This NJ hobbyist is retired.
You are really fucking whiney, aren't you? Don't blame the hobby or the girls just because you don't know how to source your action properly. And in Jersey of all places - LMAO.
Fine, go cry into your pillow and chomp on your milk and cookies while you watch the Lifetime channel.
How's that for some advice?