A few years ago I met a dancer I really liked and spent a couple hours with her on a slow night talking and making trips to the LD area. I didn't see her again for a couple months, at which time she remembered pretty much everything I'd said to her that night. I was of course very impressed and ended up spending a fair amount of money on her over the next year or two.
Some time later she confessed that when she meets a customer who seems like a potentially lucrative repeat, she heads into the dressing room and spends five minutes jotting down notes in case he comes back. She said her system had greatly boosted her income, and I believe that.
This seems like such a good idea I'm surprised it's not more common. But it's probably a lot of work given the number of customers who pass through a club. The only other dancer I've known to use a system like this, learned it from her. Anyone else run across dancer systems like this?
No. But women in general do have a better memory and are considered better listeners.
There is a joke that says women are “historical†when they get into an argument w/ their SO – i.e. they can recount every little detail of any little thing the SO has ever done.
Related to the subject of recollection. I happen to be more attracted to women’s bodies than their faces (not saying this is right, just my thing). Often I will have dancers that I have either not seen in a while or may have met only once and they’ll say something along the lines of “don’t you remember me?†– often I honestly don’t. But on many occasions, if I end up getting a LD from the dancer, I’ll tend to recognize her when she is naked (i.e. I’ll remember her body).