Fashion Consultant to Dancers who Can't Dress
HonestT
Has this ever happened to you? You sit down to survey all of the dancers, and eliminate some from your list because they look bad in their stripperwear?
On a recent two day binge, I took 4 girls off they list because they looked horrible in their outfits. But once they got undressed on stage I was attracted to them. In my recent experience, it was for the following reasons.
1) Corset tops on flat chested girls. This just looks bad. If your cleavage is just flat skin, wear something else.
2) Dresses that have droopy cutouts of fabric hanging on the boobs. It makes them look like they have saggy boobs. I can stay home and see that.
3) Dresses that expose the back, but are baggy around the stomach. These dresses make the dancers look pregnant. It seems like everytime I go to a club with lots of girls working, that at least one is a preggo, and still dancing. This is her default outfit.
How do you politely tell a dancer that she looks terrible, yet make it sound like constructive criticism?
On a recent two day binge, I took 4 girls off they list because they looked horrible in their outfits. But once they got undressed on stage I was attracted to them. In my recent experience, it was for the following reasons.
1) Corset tops on flat chested girls. This just looks bad. If your cleavage is just flat skin, wear something else.
2) Dresses that have droopy cutouts of fabric hanging on the boobs. It makes them look like they have saggy boobs. I can stay home and see that.
3) Dresses that expose the back, but are baggy around the stomach. These dresses make the dancers look pregnant. It seems like everytime I go to a club with lots of girls working, that at least one is a preggo, and still dancing. This is her default outfit.
How do you politely tell a dancer that she looks terrible, yet make it sound like constructive criticism?
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... but I seem to be making pretty decent money. So I guess I'll just keep doing what works for me?
There are also girls that attract other men that you may find repulsive. Just move on to somebody that doesn't offend your fashion sensibilities.
If she asks you if you like her outfit, just tell her you prefer her naked!
Some outfits will attract my attention, but I can't honestly say that a girl's outfit has made me cross her off my list. Clothes are so ephemeral; it's *her* that counts.
"How do you politely tell a dancer that she looks terrible, yet make it sound like constructive criticism?"
Off with their heads!
I loved that comment about older dancers wearing schoolgirl outfits.
I brought up this topic because I passed on a dancer who looked pregnant and saggy at the time I saw her walk around, yet she was really pretty. I saw her walk from the stage to the dressing room in only her thong, and she looked great! I wanted to tell her, but I had my hands full at the time.
Maybe if I see her again, I'll come up with a polite way to tell her how to not look pregnant.
Anyway, a bit later she leaves our table to do her 3 song stage set. The typical set is one song just dancing, one topless, and the third nude. After the first song she starts to go topless then motions me to the stage. She can't get the damn corset off, so asks me to help. I did.
After her set she tells me that is the last time for that outfit. Couldn't get out of it easily. I asked her, how she got it on. Another girl helped, she replied. Guess she didn't play that in reverse. I wish she hadn't retired that outfit.
Don't count on it. A few years ago I was specifically asked by a hot dancer - who was wearing an unflattering (way too tight in the wrong places) bra/boy shorts combo - to tell her what was wrong with her outfit. She was insistent and demanded honesty. So I, gently - carefully, suggested that maybe her outfit did not highlight her best qualities. She immediately started crying, then ran to the dressing room and never again came near me!
I thought maybe you were talking about my ATF until the "Latina" part. My ATF is all Asian, without doubt. :)
I must admit, with the dearth of Asians in South Florida, my current fave is Colombian. vm knows her as well.
Don't ever criticize a dancers outfit. Always praise their body and beauty. With any luck, you will see their body soon enough. Paying for one dance never bankrupted anyone.
I hate all of the porn where the girl pulls down her top to reveal her breasts but leaves it covering her midsection. Get naked.
http://spurst.com
I also used to have a favorite who would wear tennis shoes on stage once in a while. She used to wear regular clothes on stage and then strip to just her tennies. For my money, one of the best looks is a girl only wearing tennis shoes.
@gmd - I've tried that, but the girls keep fighting their way out...
A better approach would be to wait until she's in a more flattering outfit, then tip her extra at the stage and let her know how nice she looks. Dancers are more likely to take the hint if it comes with a few dollars.
Most always, positive reinforcement has better results than constructive criticism. Constructive criticism, an oxymoron in my opinion!
$$$$ are ALWAYS positive. :)
@SuperDude : That site has some really hot models! Oh and the clothes are nice too.
@TravelGuy10 : That comment about the too tight, pink fishnets is priceless. The only acceptable bulges on a dancer are her bewbs and ass.
I think what is important is how she looks when she is dancing for me naked or half naked. If those clothes come off and she looks great I won't say anything unless she asks. If she asks it could be a trick question. If she has more than one outfit, I may say one outfit looks ok but I really think she looks much better in the red outfit.
One of my favorites used to wear an outfit I thought made her look trashy with a big fat butt. Maybe some guys like the fatty butt look but I thought it was one of the worst outfits she could wear. She lost a few pounds and changed outfits. Wow, what a difference I thought. I believe any change would have dramatically improved her appearance and it did. I guess some guys may like the street walker look on a stripper but I don't believe it was helping her attract the guys she wanted.