Boyfriends and husbands in the club
erik270
New York
The thread about strippers asking the customers if they are married got me thinking. What do the customers think of the dancers' boyfriends and husbands hanging out in the club? For that matter, what do the dancers think? Does it hurt your income?
At one club I frequented, one dancer's husband hung out at the club after he got off work. They would joke about whether he should have to tip her at the stage when he does't have to pay for it at home. It was uncomfortable for me for like 5 seconds when I was getting dance from her on one couch while he was on another, but then I realized he was getting a lap dance from one of the other girls so nobody's got room to complain. It did kill the mood when one of them would ask whose turn it was to pick up the kids at school the next day, but I just sorta blocked that out.
At one club I frequented, one dancer's husband hung out at the club after he got off work. They would joke about whether he should have to tip her at the stage when he does't have to pay for it at home. It was uncomfortable for me for like 5 seconds when I was getting dance from her on one couch while he was on another, but then I realized he was getting a lap dance from one of the other girls so nobody's got room to complain. It did kill the mood when one of them would ask whose turn it was to pick up the kids at school the next day, but I just sorta blocked that out.
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I know one dancer who's husband is always in the club when she is working. She lost her drivers license for two consecutive DUIs. It didn't bother me. The more she drank the better her dances got. He didn't care. She was bringing in the money.
Now how it may impact on the Dancer only she would know.
If He can just sit there while I may be getting Fucked or Sucked by his GF or Wife...Well that IMHO makes him a pretty Fucking Bad excuse of a BF or Hubby!!
For those RIL, I can see a problem though. In my opinion, having BFs and husbands in a club can keep things a bit more on the up and up, so to say. Best behavior and all.
Personally, I don't think a relationship can last through a stripping career. It's time to stop flirting and showing off when a relationship is in play.
Over the next couple of times I saw her, we talked about this guy. Then one day, she tells me she is moving in with him. Now he was a responsible guy with a good job and a future, and not some druggie loser. She seemed quite happy for some time.
Then one visit, I was in the club before her. She came in, I thought to work, but told me to hang a minute and she'd be back. She was, but with all her club belongings and still in her civilian clothes. She asked me to take her somewhere to eat and said she needed to talk with me. This I did and she poured out her heart to me about her relationship going sour. A pregnancy was involved.
What this did to be was to be wary of getting to involved with dancers. She is still the only one that I've gotten close with.
I have a current fave that was heading that way, but I've seemed to have learned.
I wonder how many delusional PL's the "no boyfriends" part kept out.
There's one local bartender whose behaviour changes radically when her baby daddy is in the club. When he's there, she's a sourpuss. When he's not, she's a very playful little minx. Fortunately, he's easily recognizable.
That's why IMO any guy doing that is a pretty Bad excuse of a BF or Husband.