Striper confusion ....

21 comments

• Alucard

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  12 years ago

  Yes, get ANOTHER story! LOL
• mikeya02

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  12 years ago

  Girls do like to flirt when they are drunk. Maybe thats it.
• georgmicrodong

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  12 years ago

  If you want to have sex with her, and she doesn't want to have sex with you, what's the dilemma? Move on.
• stenton1

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  12 years ago

  Been there and done that. Move on, otherwise you will be sucked into her vortex of stripper bullshit. They don't want to be considered whores, but they are. French kissing opens the door to your heart possibly being involved. Stop now, and find another while it's early.
• Blue42TX

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  12 years ago

  I would play along with the game but don't fall for it....don't get too involved or you'll end up like the others that's tied with Stripper BS. I treat my SC adventure as another fantasyland and leave it at that. In my real world, I work, have fun with friends and family...and pull weeds in my yard.
• pabloantonio

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  12 years ago

  Another PL joins our ranks. Poor bastard.
• joesparty

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  12 years ago

  Pablo, you and I think alike. Maybe we should start a support group. Or does TUSCL already count as a support group? As for the OP: knock it off. If she won't dance for you, won't fool around with you, and won't give you her phone number, she's really confused and conflicted or is just toying with you. Either way, I suggest you escape now while you retain some dignity and the cash in your savings account. Don't go back to that club for a while.
• sinclair

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  12 years ago

  She may like you but if her boyfriend finds out she may get beaten or kicked out on the street. I had a situation like this with a bartender. She shared an apartment with her boyfriend that she grew tired of, but leaving his ass meant she'd be homeless. She would stay after her shifts and spend hours with me, but was scared what would happen if word got to her boyfriend that she was seen hanging with me outside said bar. You'd be surprised how many women are unhappy in relationships but put up with it for $tability. I have remember reading about 17 and 18 year old girls marrying Confederate veterans in their 80's because the pension they'd inherit meant stability during the Great Depression.
• Clackport

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  12 years ago

  I've been in your situation Southfl69. The one thing I learned is you can't change a stripper. You can either keep having fun with her at the strip club, or you just have to move on from her.
• thesamurai

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  12 years ago

  cool story bro
• newmark

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  12 years ago

  If you want a woman you can't understand and can't fuck, get married.
• bobvz

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  12 years ago

  LMAO newmark
• Papi_Chulo

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  12 years ago

  Unless you live the same kind of lifestyle most strippers do, then you probably won't have much to loose hooking up with a chick like this. If she is already giving you BS or runarounds then that is a big RED flag - what would it be like if you were actually "dating" her - DRAMA and problems probably. Most of these chicks are not like regular chicks or regular people. If you want to fuck her fine; but don't get emotionally involoved in my opinion. A lot of these chicks use guys like they use shoes. They know how to work guys for their advantage/own-purposes. You said - "she talks to me bout guys she has as regulars outside the club ..." Do you really want to have a "relationship" with a chick like this? You said - "I wanna be with her ..." Does she wanna be with you? Becareful this chick is NOT using you or is going to use you because she knows you like her - she is alreay giving you BS and runarounds. This chick does not sound like a regular chick. If you are a "regular" guy, you may be in over your head and not even know it. My 2 cents.
• Stiletto25

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  12 years ago

  There is nothing to figure out. Move on. After all these confusing signals, why do that to yourself. Why bring that into your life. If you want to be her customer, then do that. Only that! Given the details in your post, something is off. If you pursue her on a romantic level you are asking for it.
• gatorfan

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  12 years ago

  I frenched a stripper before and ended up with a case of genital warts on my ass
• staxwell

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  12 years ago

  EEW! You frenched her! You obviously haven't heard Shadowcat's story about the girl kissing a guy after Shadows FINISHED VIP trip with her.
• steve229

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  12 years ago

  If this was baseball, you would be sent down to the minors.
• motorhead

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  12 years ago

  I thought this thread was about the guys paints the white line down the middle of the highway. I'm totally lost.
• Southfl69

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  12 years ago

  If this was baseball I think I'm the rookie of the year !!!!! With 35 home runs !! Bb
• TABB

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  12 years ago

  That kinda of sounded like me close to year ago those were the days and now I'm harden veteran of 100 campaigns. Leave her before this thing becomes out of hand, if you don't feel like leaving her just make it into a customer relationship. Don't talk to much about your history. If she talk about her personal issues politely leave. Just don't be sucker!!!
• AliLandryFan

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  12 years ago

  To the OP: First of all, "regular girls" out in the real world are nonsensical, so imagine the other layers of dysfunction on top of them that are strippers... I think you should take her exactly at her word. She thinks you are cute, will makeout in the club, but its never going anywhere from there. Her actions exactly support those words. So accept them as true. You arent going to fuck her, unless you offer her stupid money she cant turn down. Which might be exactly what she is hoping for. I find alot of dancers are actually saavy business women after a while who know how to read men. G