Striper confusion ....
Southfl69
Hi I went to this strip club the other nite by myself and end it up French kissing a gorgeous striper , I left and didn't tough much bout it , came back and saw her again and again we end it up French kissing and we do have a nice thing going in when we kiss ... She tells me bout everything , I ask for her phone number and she didn't gave it to me the first or the second time , i left my business card with her she never call... she told me she  has a boyfriend and that she lives with him ...her friend was there the first time and she made a comment to her that I was cute ... The last two times I'm just there like hanging out with them like a regular and one time she was talking to her friend and her friend looked at me and stop talking and she said he's good I trust him ... Also the last time she said that I was not a costumer just a friend ... She never asks for dances or VIPs nothing but also she doesn't want to date me she gave me her number but she's cold on her responses .... I ask her what was going on and she nothing your cute , a good kisser and I like u ... But that's it she wants to leave it there .... Plus she talks to me bout guys she has as regulars outside the club and she and her friends talk bout sex with guys at the club all the time , I wanna be with her but don't want to fall in to the customer category any advice ??? Thx !!!!Â
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As for the OP: knock it off. If she won't dance for you, won't fool around with you, and won't give you her phone number, she's really confused and conflicted or is just toying with you. Either way, I suggest you escape now while you retain some dignity and the cash in your savings account. Don't go back to that club for a while.
If she is already giving you BS or runarounds then that is a big RED flag - what would it be like if you were actually "dating" her - DRAMA and problems probably. Most of these chicks are not like regular chicks or regular people.
If you want to fuck her fine; but don't get emotionally involoved in my opinion. A lot of these chicks use guys like they use shoes. They know how to work guys for their advantage/own-purposes.
You said - "she talks to me bout guys she has as regulars outside the club ..."
Do you really want to have a "relationship" with a chick like this?
You said - "I wanna be with her ..."
Does she wanna be with you? Becareful this chick is NOT using you or is going to use you because she knows you like her - she is alreay giving you BS and runarounds.
This chick does not sound like a regular chick. If you are a "regular" guy, you may be in over your head and not even know it.
My 2 cents.
If this was baseball, you would be sent down to the minors.
I'm totally lost.
I think you should take her exactly at her word. She thinks you are cute, will makeout in the club, but its never going anywhere from there. Her actions exactly support those words. So accept them as true. You arent going to fuck her, unless you offer her stupid money she cant turn down. Which might be exactly what she is hoping for. I find alot of dancers are actually saavy business women after a while who know how to read men.
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