I've had some Dancers that I tipped on Stage & asked for a Dance NOT cum over & see me. They disappeared to the locker room. Obviously doing something they felt was more important than earning my $$$!!
it also happens if it looks like you will be more trouble than its worth, she will pass on you and possibly black ball you so no other dancer will approach you.
@jacksmith haha "get lost, creep" LOL i doubt they would be that straight up in a strip club.. however LMAO at that scene.. i love woody allen movies!!
Refusal hasn't happened to me yet. But this has happened --> where I've gone up to the stage, tipped and asked for a dance....She says "I'll come find you in ten minutes"....It's code for I've got another dance before you, and you're back in the queue....
Oh yeah, it happens all the time. I remember this Southern cutie, who would turn me down. Then there was this hot, hot, hot Czech babe, who had an awesome set of tits, just like my avatar, "Melon Girl". I must have been too eager or something. LOL
I don't get turned down directly very often, but like others I get "I'll be back in ten minutes." At which point there's maybe a 50-50 chance she actually will be back. I don't wait, I move on to the next one.
This one girl that I usually see I'm usually competing with this regular. SUCKS.
However, there was one time we were sitting and this guy wanders over to try and get her to do dances for him and she straight up said, "No thanks!" rather than the "I'm with a client/Give me 10 minutes" spiel.
So yea, don't take it personally if she feeds you a lie while she attends to regulars. But if she flat out says "NO THANKS!" You should go take a look at yourself in the mirror... because maybe you got a booger hanging out your nostril or something.
Never been refused a dance as such, but I was told by one girl in Rhino that she never does $20 dances in the main room, she only ever did VIP. Obviously $20 dances were beneath her.
Never had it happen to me (though I've been put off before), but girls tell me about it all the time. As mentioned, generally when a guy "creeps them out", asks th something insane (like "can I bite your tit?") or has bad bo.
I know some white dancers that will not dance for black customers. While I have been to a few "black" clubs, I have never been turned down but I assume that there are some black dancers that will not dance for white customers.
I've gotten the "I'll be back in 5 - 10" no shows and the dancer who disappears after leaving the stage. The former I can't really stand anymore. Don't you know they come back around if they see me getting dances with the other girls and then they usually weren't worth the wait.
"but girls tell me about it all the time. As mentioned, generally when a guy "creeps them out",
Good thing no one on this board has to worry about that...
Sorry to hear that Farmerart. I have seen my favorite dance for some interesting characters at managements request. You might want to give that a try sometime.
I think the key is you want a dance from a girl that wants to dance for you, not a girl that doesn't want to dance for you.
I too have missed out on dances with girls that never approach me or don't come back and see me. On a least a couple of occasions I didn't really get a no, I somehow just didn't get a dance.
I have not personally benn turned down, but it does happen. It also depends on the club / management. Some manager try to make the dancers dance for anyone.
For all of the talk I hear about dancers not wanting to dance for women, I've never been refused a dance.
But like others here, I've also been the victim of the "oh I'll be there in a minute" routine. I think that if you spend any kind of time in stripclubs you're bound to have that happen. Many times, in fact.
I have never been refused a dance but I did have one dancer who I had gotten dances from in the past tell me that I needed to pay her in order to tell her a joke. Then she asked me if I was getting dances from her or not. The club was full that nite and she couldn't get dances from anu customers that nite. She tried to walk my way several times that nite. I just walked the other way or grabbed another girl and headed for dances. I never got another dance from her or spoke to her again. I have had other instances where a dancer I know saw another dancer being rude to me and they confronted the rude dancer and set them straight. Some girls are just bitches
Motorhead's got it right. Many, maybe most, dancers have no sense of urgency about not leaving money on the table. When they're flush, they get very finiky about who they'll dance for, or maybe they'll just blab with somebody till their shift is over. Getting money in order to save it for a future need or want doesn't seem to cross their mind.
I've had dancers say they don't d table dances or charge minimum such and such an amount for dances. Some never do approach. I figure they have lots of regulars and guys approaching them so they don't seek out anyone new. Then I've had some who never gor back around to me. Either I was busy or they were most of the time. I have had some dancers on rare occasions say they won't dance for some a..hole. I guess they were upset about something about another customer if they volunteered that information to me. Usually I'm a regular of the dancer so she probably feels comfortable with me. I never repeat that information to the a..hole in the club. That would be asking for trouble. could be you look like an ex she hates, terrible smell, you look like the guy from last time that grabbed her ass and asked how much for a bj or a number of other things out of your control. I once had a dancer I never saw start complaining I disappeared after asking for a dance. I never talked to her. She confused me with somebody else. Dancers forget faces too. If she was hot and prices right, I might get dances from her and let whomever she was looking for wait if they are even still in the club.
At a club in Charlotte, I had one girl who danced with the guys who I went with, but she would only walk in my line of sight and do a little dance. She would smile, but would never sit on my lap or ask if I wanted a dance. And a little later she gave me her number. Gorgeous girl by the way
Clubba, Drac and gmd,
I'm getting in the Stiletto queue behind you guys....lol, before juice gets here....I'm gonna fight for my chance to get turned away....
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