"You're Wasting Too Much Money in the Club"

Feb 11, 2012, 8:44 AM

"You're wasting too much money in the club." This was said to me, in a disapproving tone, not by a wife or significant other, not by a friend or family member, but by my ATF. She told me I don't have to buy drinks for every dancer who sits down at my table and I don't need to get so many lap dances. She said she was worried about me.

Now I'm sure my ATF likes me and feels some genuine concern, but she probably feels that if I didn't "waste" so much money in the club, I could spend more on her. I have a weekly afternoon session with her at my house, and I treat her generously. She is my favorite--blonde, blue-eyed, busty--and I enjoy my time with her. But I don't want her to start telling me what to do.

Am I the only person ever to have a stripper tell him not to spend money in a strip club?

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SnakePlissken13 years ago

"You're wasting too much money in the club" = "You're wasting too much money on other girls"

Ghosty13 years ago

No, not at all. I got this from a dancer who was friendly to me in the club, knew I spent money but didn't have a lot and we've remained friends now that she's not dancing. She'd get pissed watching some of the girls getting drinks from me and told me she hates to watch some of "those bitches" taking advantage of you [me]. She'd insist on paying for her own drinks when we sat together until I insisted back that for HER it was fine and, for instance, I might tell her, "Look, I'm not getting any dances tonight so if I all I end up doing is buying a couple drinks it'll be a cheap night for me relatively speaking."

Not EVERYTHING in the club is a manipulation game, not any more than real life anyway, it's just that it so often is you're best off assuming so until proven otherwise.

Alucard13 years ago

"You're wasting too much money in the club" = "You're wasting too much money on other girls"

That's certainly a possible thought process which may be in the Dancers mind. My 2010 ATF paid for her own drinks.

"Not EVERYTHING in the club is a manipulation game, not any more than real life anyway, it's just that it so often is you're best off assuming so until proven otherwise"

I agree.

JackKash13 years ago

I have had girls tell me about value. For instance if I was going to spend the money anyway, 200 for a half hour vip was better than 3 for 100 vip.

shadowcat13 years ago

My conscience tells me that all of the time. Unfortunately I don't listen.

farmerart13 years ago

Never heard this kind concern expressed to me from any dancer. On one of my marathon days at No 5 Orange in Vancouver a dancer came up to me and said:

"You've been here a long time and spent lots of money. Wanna spend some on me before we close?".

mjx0113 years ago

I had a stripper (whom I actually knew before seeing her at the club) tell me: "never would have expected to see you here... I'm surprized you're into this"

JuiceBox6913 years ago

I had a wife to try and tell me what to do ! And we all know how that turned out ! Lol !oooooooooooo!

With that said I will now say this

I have had dancers get upset with me when I was trying out a new girl ! They say "you know that bitch don't bath"

I never listen and do as I please !

I take good care of my main ladies so even if theey get up set with me they take that shit some were else cuz they have seen how I will find another if given ss of that kind !

sharkhunter13 years ago

Almost every dancer I believe who was concerned about how much money I had to spend got to me first and made sure she got her cut first.

I haven't heard you're spending too much money. I have heard you're spending too much time with dancer abc. That usually happens when one dancer doesn't like another or one dancer is getting too attached to me.