Getting involved with a stripper is a bad idea!!! (just my opinion). If you are a "normal" guy - i.e. you work 9 to 5, obey the law, try to do the right thing - dating a stripper it not compatible. Their schedule is totally diffent than yours - when you work, she sleeps - and vise-versa. Strippers often (not always of course) have different upbringings than a "normal" person - "normal" people usually do not get into the sex busniness. Also, their job is too meet guys and get money from them - so you would be one of many she has met/meets or one of many she is juggling! And for many of them - they get $$$ based on their looks - and if they are going to be with a guy - they expect him to take care of them financially. My two cents!!!
Damn, that might have been me lookin for love in a SC. OK, better now, heart broke, bitch slapped and ready to party! Say Juicebox69, where you partyin? Spent 2k last wk... u in?
One more thing to my previsous post. If you think you got what it takes to date a stripper my friend (I know I don't!), you got to get prepared becasue these chicks live life by a different set of rules!!!
Just do a Google search on "dating a stripper" and you'll get some sobering facts about those who have done it and know how the game is played!!!
For the record, when you say "date" a stripper, you're talking the American norm for dating, not the pay for play some of us euphemistically call "dating," right?
One of my currect favs has had a fiancee for the last 5 years. I asked her if he knew what she was doing ITC and she said No. I have shown her some TUSCL stuff and she would like to join and post but is afraid that he might discoved what she is doing because she is too computer illerate to cover her tracks.
I don't think "stripper" makes someone unmarriable. Before the woman became a stripper, probably unmarriable. During stripper time, probably unmarriable. After stripper time, probably unmarriable.
The point I am making, is it's not that she is a stripper, but that she is unmarriable.
Of course, every rule has an exception. I think the exception occurs often after being a stripper. The fact is, people grow up. A lot of people, strippers included, can look around and say "This fucking shit ain't working like I thought" and realize there is more to life than the hustle and they make changes.
Anyone who has made some money in their time, realizes there are gold diggers out there. At least strippers are obvious about it, and if they are past stripping, one has the warning. Should there be tests? I don't know yet. But I know keeping up with some who have left the business, they are turning out to be normal 30 something women. They want babies. They want stability. They want the nice house.
I think more guys make more something out of stripping than gals do.
That's interesting, my husband and I have a great marriage and the fact that I work in a strip club doesn't bother him at all. No complaints from him other than that I get to bed late on the nights I work.
You said previously; "i dated strippers & had a blast"
I guess dating a stripper is not compeletely different that dating a non-stripper in certain ways - it comes down to whether both of you have things in common and genuenly want to be (date) with each other - i.e. not be with each other for what you can get from each other (i.e. guy just want to bang her - girl wants his stack).
As for myself, once at a strip club (about 12 yrs ago), a stripper had been looking at me from a distance and finally came up to me and said - "you look like a straight edge'. That probably describes me pretty well - I am pretty conservite person whom works hard and takes my job/career very seriously - although I love SC clubbing - I am definitely not a party guy (don't care for regular (i.e. dance) clubs much at all0. I guess because of my personality, that is why I don't think I could successfully date a stripper.
@mrs m00tpoint: Just to be clear, you were addressing that subset (however much of a majority it might be) of people here who sneak around, and not implying that *all* members do in fact club without the knowledge, and perhaps consent, of their SOs, right? :))
GMD - I was not implying anything at all. I believe what I said was clear.
No difference between this stripper and all the men (or women) on here that visit the clubs without the knowledge of their SO......
mrs m00tpoint
The subset is "all men or women on here who visit clubs without the knowledge of their SO'......
Obviously I know that ALL on here are not without knowledge of their partner's activities since I certainly consider mr m00tpoint and myself as a subset of ALL. LOL
And, yeah, aint it grand not to have to sneak around and tell lies - even if by omission?
I don't really care for going out to eat and all that stuff unless they are leaving the club with me and we're both hungry. Now if they just want to have fun and she appeals to me, I have in the past been agreeable. Most of the time the dancers have talked me into meeting up later. Lately I've been avoiding meeting up with any of the dancers suggesting anything. I was glad I didn't give my number out to one dancer the other night because she threatened to show up at my house. Talk about crazy.
Papi_Chulo, many of the guys posting on here for years have met up with multiple dancers over the years outside the clubs for one reason or another. I never called it dating whenever I visited someone. I called it hanging out with one dancer that I routinely left the club with in one city many years ago. In fact I think she was paying for her own food when we went out to eat. We were more like friends except for a couple of occasions. Now if the dancers are making money off of your encounters outside the club, then in my opinion you aren't dating them or hanging out with them, you're doing some kind of escort thing with them.
I used to meet some wild dancers but I was once a little bit wild myself. I remember one dancer told me she had gone 150 on a bike. I was thinking it must not have had a chip on it limiting the speed. I've never gone that fast on the road but I once thought it might be fun to become a Nascar driver. One of my High School friends even became an instructor. One simulation ride at Carowinds and I dropped that idea. I was thinking this is like driving in heavy traffic. Forget being a Nascar driver.
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mrs m00tpoint
I am curious though - I clubbed when I was single. When I had a girlfriend, I usually spent time with her. Is this common?
IMO it appears so.
Just do a Google search on "dating a stripper" and you'll get some sobering facts about those who have done it and know how the game is played!!!
The point I am making, is it's not that she is a stripper, but that she is unmarriable.
Of course, every rule has an exception. I think the exception occurs often after being a stripper. The fact is, people grow up. A lot of people, strippers included, can look around and say "This fucking shit ain't working like I thought" and realize there is more to life than the hustle and they make changes.
Anyone who has made some money in their time, realizes there are gold diggers out there. At least strippers are obvious about it, and if they are past stripping, one has the warning. Should there be tests? I don't know yet. But I know keeping up with some who have left the business, they are turning out to be normal 30 something women. They want babies. They want stability. They want the nice house.
I think more guys make more something out of stripping than gals do.
Sounds like a plan to me.
Papi you tell em like it is son !
You said previously; "i dated strippers & had a blast"
I guess dating a stripper is not compeletely different that dating a non-stripper in certain ways - it comes down to whether both of you have things in common and genuenly want to be (date) with each other - i.e. not be with each other for what you can get from each other (i.e. guy just want to bang her - girl wants his stack).
As for myself, once at a strip club (about 12 yrs ago), a stripper had been looking at me from a distance and finally came up to me and said - "you look like a straight edge'. That probably describes me pretty well - I am pretty conservite person whom works hard and takes my job/career very seriously - although I love SC clubbing - I am definitely not a party guy (don't care for regular (i.e. dance) clubs much at all0. I guess because of my personality, that is why I don't think I could successfully date a stripper.
No difference between this stripper and all the men (or women) on here that visit the clubs without the knowledge of their SO......
mrs m00tpoint
The subset is "all men or women on here who visit clubs without the knowledge of their SO'......
Obviously I know that ALL on here are not without knowledge of their partner's activities since I certainly consider mr m00tpoint and myself as a subset of ALL. LOL
And, yeah, aint it grand not to have to sneak around and tell lies - even if by omission?
mrs m00tpoint
Papi_Chulo, many of the guys posting on here for years have met up with multiple dancers over the years outside the clubs for one reason or another. I never called it dating whenever I visited someone. I called it hanging out with one dancer that I routinely left the club with in one city many years ago. In fact I think she was paying for her own food when we went out to eat. We were more like friends except for a couple of occasions. Now if the dancers are making money off of your encounters outside the club, then in my opinion you aren't dating them or hanging out with them, you're doing some kind of escort thing with them.
Ayup, that it is. It's apparent that my activities go way beyond yours at this point, but the principle still applies.