Infatuated? Sure. Smitten, enamored, beguiled? Check, check and check. Had a stripper crush? Yep. Lusted over a dancer? Definitely.
But, in love with a stripper? I don't think so (at least I hope not) lol.
It sounds like SS and this is what a ROB will use to manipulate you to give her money for services not performed. Generally if your seeing one otc they do not like the L word or even try to use it. Its simply a no no as my fav I have been seeing otc three years says. And as she is married why even bother to worry about that? The reality is they prefer people close to their age for any traditional relationship. Believing otherwise your swallowing the fantasy end of it.
Well, how *do* you feel about her, and what are you going to do about it?
Never had one actually use the "L" word, but short of that, I've gotten similar messages several times. Mostly I just ignore them, and either call them back or not.
Definitely don't "love" the ATF, but she throws the word out there like you quoted (near verbatim, is there a handbook or something?) when she gets real desperate for money.
Obviously she's either:
a) bullshitting, or
b) nuts
But even it it's a, not necessarily a good idea to make it clear how transparent that kind of lame bullshit is. Even strippers who only plan to strip for a short time seem to (generally) want to think of themselves as sharp hustlers, so it only make for bad feelings to push the dancer's face in the fact that she's a shitty hustler. Better to plead poor, say you have to spend time with your kids, just dodge the issue.
It's part of her mass marketing plan when she needs cash. I suppose it's called a "text blast" since you aren't the only one who received it.
Play the SS game right back, and text her, "of course I do, baby". Then it's up to you to decide whether you're in the mood (or wallet thickness) for P4P.
"Hello, my name is Steve229, and I'm a Pathetic Loser."
As a couple of you surmised, my response was "Of course I do, baby! I'll come see you tomorrow." ( I have her schedule memorized). So today I went to see her at the club, making amends by bringing her a gift card from her favorite tanning salon. Good thing too, because when I got there she gave me a big hug, they went to the dressing room to get my "surprise." She came back with one of those oversized greeting card and a nice Nivea for Men gift set. Of course, the only thing left to do at that point was take her back for a VIP "make-up" session. Sheesh!
dang steve. my xATF was droping hints for a gift card to her fav resturant... did not follow through cuz I was tired of her SS and her never living up to her promises
did I ever have a stripper complain that she felt I didn't "love" her anymore? no, but i did have one send me an email, b*tching me out because I sat down and talked to another stripper. told her to get lost.
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But it was qualified with "Why don't u cum to see my anymore. I feel like u don't love me anymore."
Sheesh...........
Never had one actually use the "L" word, but short of that, I've gotten similar messages several times. Mostly I just ignore them, and either call them back or not.
Or you could do the PL route and say "oh yes I do love you! I want to come in and do dances so please let me know when you are working this week"
You can lust after them, but in most cases it'd be very foolish (and a recipe for going broke) to be in love with one of them.
How did you reply?
“I feel like u don't spend money on me anymoreâ€
a) bullshitting, or
b) nuts
But even it it's a, not necessarily a good idea to make it clear how transparent that kind of lame bullshit is. Even strippers who only plan to strip for a short time seem to (generally) want to think of themselves as sharp hustlers, so it only make for bad feelings to push the dancer's face in the fact that she's a shitty hustler. Better to plead poor, say you have to spend time with your kids, just dodge the issue.
Play the SS game right back, and text her, "of course I do, baby". Then it's up to you to decide whether you're in the mood (or wallet thickness) for P4P.
I'll bet she's just impecunious to see you!
As a couple of you surmised, my response was "Of course I do, baby! I'll come see you tomorrow." ( I have her schedule memorized). So today I went to see her at the club, making amends by bringing her a gift card from her favorite tanning salon. Good thing too, because when I got there she gave me a big hug, they went to the dressing room to get my "surprise." She came back with one of those oversized greeting card and a nice Nivea for Men gift set. Of course, the only thing left to do at that point was take her back for a VIP "make-up" session. Sheesh!
Me "Because you don't suck or fuck".
Too much information, Art!
It may be too graphic to describe our use of Vaseline on this public board. Do you want a down-and-dirty PM?