Her personal boudaries extended, then....gone!

11/7/2011 8:45:54 AM

I've been going to clubs for the better part of 15 years. I travel around the US a lot and I usually establish a particularly favorite dancer or two at each particular club I frequent (wouldn't necessarily call them ATFs since that's a high hurdle to reach). I don't typically push the dancer's boundaries and those boundaries are usually easily ascertained.

I've had several occasions (most notably in Baltimore and Phoenix), though, where these dancers all of a sudden loosen up there boundaries and more than the usual activities ensue. Either they tell me that they're quitting the business or I find out on my next visit into town that they're no longer dancing. Do you think these ladies go for the gusto on their way out of the business?

Has anyone else had this happen to the? Long time dancer with limits loosens up and then...bam...gone!

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rickdugan

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13 years ago

I've seen this type of thing too, but it is usually a forced situation rather than a "gusto" moment.

In a lot of places, dancers are being forced to push their boundaries in order to sell dances/VIPs/CRs as they are competing with others who are doing dicier things. Dancers that have worked for a long time with tighter boundaries generally don't seem to last too long once they are forced to do things that they are not comfortable with in order to earn.

joesparty

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13 years ago

I agree with rickdugan. It's almost always about the money. Either they are trying to compete with other girls for limited dollars, of they are desperate for cash--rent's due, kids need new clothes, drug habit, party habit, etc. Some girls are reliably dirtier around the time of the month most of their bills are due. Some girls can't handle this, and that's when they disappear.

Dudester

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13 years ago

I've seen it happen. Little cutie was the only one not handing out extras in a club where everyone was selling extras. Saw her months later at a nude club where she provided access to all points of entry. She then moved on.

shadowcat

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13 years ago

I've seen dancers move on because they did not want to meet the competition but I have not noticed an increase in mileage just before they left. Just as well. Then I wouldn't have had anything to miss.

newmark

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13 years ago

Post a note on here next time you find one.

ilbbaicnl

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13 years ago

A typical reason that dancers will only go so far is because they are in a committed relationship. So if they break up, they don't have that holding them back anymore. Once a dancer starts doing OTC sex, that could easily turn into a situation where dancing would no longer be worth their while.

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