disconnect from younger dancers?
gillydon
I think the younger dancers (18 to 21 year old) generally have the hottest bodies, but at the same time, they don't have college educations, and are a lot more into drugs, smoking, partying all night, tattoos, etc, than I am, which causes some disconnect in terms of common interests and values.
How do you guys approach this? Do you just go for the hottest dancer and be happy with stripper shit without needing any other connection? Do you go for slightly older dancers who aren't as hot but that you can relate more to? Or something else entirely?
How do you guys approach this? Do you just go for the hottest dancer and be happy with stripper shit without needing any other connection? Do you go for slightly older dancers who aren't as hot but that you can relate more to? Or something else entirely?
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Sounds perfect!
gillydon: "which causes some disconnect in terms of common interests and values."
Why are you trying to talk to them? If you want to meet normal women a strip club is not the place to look for it. You should just be going there in search of whores to pay to fuck.
Aside from being potential "whores to pay to fuck," I think one of the best things dancers offer is that for some amount of time you can get the complete attention of a really hot girl, and she can make you feel wanted and special.
Now, if I'm all done, or otherwise not in the market that night, and someone wants to talk about wormhole physics and warp drive math, bring it on.
Call me a shallow bastard. You'll be right.
For meeting normal women I would try a college bar or a (certain) nightclubs, although you need to choose carefully. Girls there are much more normal than strippers, just as hot, and much more fun to talk to on average.
If I am in strip club I'm looking for whores to fuck. If I meet a normal girl by accident it can be a nice diversion for a few minutes, but it's not my primary objective. Yeah, that might make me a bad guy since that is my objective but at least I'm not kidding myself about it. Also I don't really a fuck at the end of the day, especially when it's these self proclaimed, but deluded, "nice guys" telling me there is something wrong with my objectives.
I guess this topic is targeted at those who do think 18-21 have the best bodies, e.g.,
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread…
Getting attention from whores you pay to fuck makes you feel wanted and special? Weird.
You sir are my Plato, Socrates, and Jim Morrison rolled into one.
Let the Dougster mantra be heard and spread to all strip club patrons.
Agree to a point. If they look *too* young, I'm not gonna be attracted. But for this creepy old pervert, young is attractive. Obviously, other factors, personality, sensuality, etc, all factor in, but the youth and hotness will draw my eyes every time.
"I still think they are a little immature."
Creepily, that *is* the attraction for some.
And given your pictures, which, I'll point out, *still* do not include any kitty shots, I suspect you'd stand out in most clubs, irrespective of your age. :)
But it is funny that this topic came up because just today I spent some great quality time with a 20 yo dancer and we chatted up a storm about all kinds of ridiculous BS. After we were done and I had had my dances, she sat down at the table next to me with what had to be a 60 yo man. I couldn't help but overhear the awkward, strained "conversation" that they attempted to have. It was truly painful to listen to, and I felt a bit sorry for the both of them. Talk about having absolutely nothing in common to talk about.
Never mind. Just keep sucking!
And who the hell is Dean Martin? I know a Deana Martin, but no Dean. Is he one of those "Rat" guys?
Give me a hot 20 yo stripper sitting next to me, talking my ear off about getting her nails done any day!
@Stiletto:please put me on your special list.I promise to hold your pics with one hand. :)
Personally, I like to look at 18-21yo girls naked on stage, but prefer lap dances and discussion from the 22-25 group.
I have also learned that the most responsive erogenous zone on a women is her brain. And since I want the full ride, that is a good thing to know
Women, yes, but in this thread we are supposed to be discussing strippers.
2nd, I've tried several times to 'connect' with dancers at my regular club. It's always turned out to be wasted effort in the end. When I'm out of town, I take a more business only approach. It does lack it some respects (such as feeling wanted and special), but I'll take milage with a hottie over any other option which does not involve milage.
Frankly, right now I feel that any connection is a bonus, not the objective. Which is ironic because I'd probablly enjoy the connection more, but that just doesn't seem to work in clubs.
As for young ones who just like to party and do drugs, I didn't at that age, but what the heck, I can see their POV. You only live once!
Yes, it's all about the fantasy, it's all about the experience, but without some kind of connection it just doesn't work for me at all. I've sent many a pretty girl on her way once she sat down and proved that she just didn't have a clue.
I must say there always is a twinge of regret as I watch that sexy walk saunter away, but I know it was the right move in the long run.
I will say that the sexiest dancer I know is in her forties.
Based on posts here, I may be somewhat rare in "having it all", or at least as much of "all" as I need, so I guess I can understand why some others may place a higher priority on those than I do, but I agree, again, with Dougster that those who do are probably looking in the wrong place.
But then, I'm an adulterous old lech who regularly has sex with girls half, or less, my age, so what do I know?
+1 Dougster, george, wallanon
You will find strippers of all ages to be affirmative on many of those attributes, not just 18-21. If you are going to strip clubs to find a dancer with "common interests and values", you are going to strip clubs for the wrong reason. Yeah, you can "relate to" them if you suck dicks for coke and grind your ass on random cocks. If you seek a college-educated, no tattoos, no drugs, nonsmoking, and no partying type of girl, I'd recommend you join a church group. You may even find a girl that "can give you her complete attention and can make you feel wanted and special" for free. It sounds like you don't interact with females in your life outside of strip clubs.