Girls/Strippers Who Like Being Choked
SnakePlissken
I was kind of curious whether you all have seemed to notice the same thing I have.
Does it seem to you like a very large percentage of girls who aren't into BDSM in any other way enjoy being choked during sex.
Last night I was having sex with this local girl I've been seeing and afterwards we were taking a bath and talking about what we like and don't like during sex. She mentions that she likes being choked, not hard mind you, but just a little.
A friend of mine who used to be quite a self-admitted manwhore back before he got married also joked once that all girls seems to like to get choked during sex. He also suggested I just do that during sex as an erotic surprise. I think I'll only do that on request.
Also, a few weeks ago I visited a friend of mine who goes to grad school where I did my undergrad and he told me quite a story. He and some friends were coming back from a ski trip and went to the strip club that's closest to Virginia Tech on the way. His friend buys a VIP dance and my friend lends him his belt to wear because "strippers love playing with belts". His friend comes back later and says that the stripper, instead of playing with the belt, asked him to choke her with it, hard.
Any of you guys noticed the same thing and found it surprising? In strippers and civilians.
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/weirdo.
But then I've always been into BDSM. Okay, so this post was no help.
With that said, when porn people talk about a porn actress who likes to be choked, they do so with sadness. It's because they know that actress is messed up and will end up in a bad way. Case in point-Anastasia Blue. Watch her vids, she liked to be choked. She's now dead three years-suicide.
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We had gotten to know each other over multiple visits before this first happened, so a certain level of trust was involved.
They also enjoyed having their hair pulled (again, actually just firmly grasped and held tightly) and getting their ass (lightly) slapped. Also have done some simulated bondage (e.g. she puts her wrists together over her head or behind her back and I hold them firmly in my hand).
All just good, clean fun, lol.
Using a belt takes a certain level of trust. Like getting your luggage shaved with a straight razor. Yikes! =8^)
It's been my experience that nearly all of the girls I've been with enjoy having hands on their neck with a small to moderate amount of pressure. The majority of them have been fully aware that they like it and generally open/vocal about it. A few have seemed genuinely surprised that they like it. I've never had a lengthy discussion about why, but plenty of discussions about the fact that they find it pleasurable.
As far as strippers go, I've found that the majority of dancers who put themselves into a position where I can comfortably place my hands on their neck with a little force do seem to enjoy it as well. I'm not really sure that some of them aren't just glad their boobs are getting a break and that I'm not trying to grab their monkey though. A lot of dancers seem to gravitate back to the position they were in when I put my hands on their neck much more than any of the other "moves" they make during a dance.
As far as being choked enough to provide the sensation f_d describes, very few girls or strippers I've been with have encouraged that behavior. I've never done it on my own, while I share the enjoyment of having my hands around a girls neck that actual choking part is quite the turn off. I can't help thinking I'm gonna kill the girl and wind up on the opposite end of that arrangement in cell in Coleman.
As for me, I don't mind assertive women who aren't afraid to tell me to do something they like, but when it comes to a scene, I'm pretty much all top. Tried the bottom thing once or twice, and it does pretty much nothing for me.
@runrdude: If you are into it, keep her. Girls who are *really* into it, not acting, *and* who can bring themselves to trust a club patron enough to let him play it out with her, are few. Trust is a big factor in full enjoyment of a BDSM interlude.