I've found a new ATF to replace the one I saw all last year. Like the dancer from 2010, this person is into her 30's, mature & life experienced. AS a rule, do you guys prefer a woman with those qualities? Or do you go for the young 20 somethings? I've found that those dancers barely into their 20's are just not experienced enough in life nor are they mature enough. After all they may still be to a degree still in their adolescence. Give me a mature woman in her 30's anytime.
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last commentI'm after sex. While I prefer them younger, whoever gives it to me, and still fits into the rather wide range of my preferences, is who I spend time with. In and of itself, age is secondary to enthusiasm, willingness and skill. There have been enough surprises on both ends of the spectrum that I no longer consider it a particularly defining quality.
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Yeah, I gotta agree with george.
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Just curious what club is your new ATF at?
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Do I prefer girls or women?
Yes
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All dancers are fickle, emotional and unreliable. Not relationship material. If you must have an ATF, go with the more mature, hopefully a little less fickle, dancer who's had a few knocks and knows what she will be losing if she loses you.
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Mid to late 20s. They are young enough to still look great but old enough to be past that young girl crap. I also prefer the ones who have kids because they tend to be much more mature, nevermind more deperate for the cash. ;)
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In my fifty years, I've found that 24 year olds are the perfect age-firmness of youth + experience of adulthood. With that said, a couple of times I've come across 18 year olds who really know their way around a bedroom* or give a great LD. Therefore, I try out young uns at the club in the hopes of finding these gems. Females say that they have to kiss a lot of frogs to find that one prince. In my case, I have to sort through a rough edged rocks to find that one gem.
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My ATF was 20 when we met, but far more mature than any others.
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I thought you just started looking for a new ATF. Man, you work fast, lol.
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steve229 Lightning struck me! LOL It was Fate!
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My favs have been around 30. Still great looking with hot bodies, and they can carry on a conversation. Yes, you do have to talk to them sometimes.
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vincemichaels just grins.
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And it is a good grin too! Yes jack, being able to converse is important. I find intelligence to be a big atrraction. Air Head = BIG turnoff
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Age is not always a factor, LD ability (and more) goes a long way in my book regardless of age.
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Being in my late 30's myself, I prefer women who are in the 30's as they have more in common with me than women in their 20's. On the other hand, my last ATF was only 24 the last time she danced for me, and I knew her when she was 19. But she was an exception. I'd say most of my faves now are in their 30's.
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I find that I have had much better times with dancers around 30. The kids are fun to look at and play with, but for serious action, I stick with the grown-ups. They are less likely to fuck around with fucking around.
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I agree with you runrdude. I've been pretty much sticking with 30+ Dancers. Young 20 somethings may "Know what they are doing", but that has not been my experience.
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