(O.T.) Need GF Advice

Oct 23, 2010, 9:38 PM

Met Kristi while in the military. We were in each other's lives for ten years-off and on boyfriend and girlfriend, but always, always, close friends. What finally ended our relationship:

We were seperated by a thousand miles, but bi weekly phone calls. She asked me to marry her.
I went to California and we started making wedding plans. It suddenly surfaced that she was a raging nymphomaniac (and was in remission when we were in the same place). She wanted to be married and still sleep with other guys.

It was a very ugly breakup and we haven't spoken in fifteen years. Yesterday, she suddenly found me on facebook and she acted like she had found an old friend-like nothing had happened.

We exchanged several messages, but evidently she was facebooking at work. My final message to her was to call, but evidently she got busy at the end of shift and didn't reply. BTW, she was leaving from work to go Florida for a vacation.

What do I do when she calls in a week ? She's stationed 100 miles from me and is due for military retirement in a couple of years.

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georgmicrodong15 years ago

Dude, you already know what to do. Why are you asking a bunch of ho dogs?

farmerart15 years ago

I am thinking that you have not been crying yourself to sleep each night for the last fifteen years over the memory of this lady.

What george said, dudester.

troop15 years ago

well if you are both comfortable with and want a no strings fuck buddy arangement, go for it, and hopefully you know not to get serious or romantic with her again.

Player1115 years ago

Go for it. There are tradeoffs in any realtionship.

sinclair15 years ago

One day, a scorpion stood on the side of a stream and asked a frog to carry it to the other side.

"How do I know you won't sting me?" the frog asked. "Because if I sting you, I'll drown," the scorpion said.

The frog thought about it and realized that the scorpion was right. So he put the scorpion on his back and started ferrying him. But midway across the stream, the scorpion plunged its stinger into the frog's back. As they both began to drown, the frog gasped, "Why?"

The scorpion replied, "Because it is my nature."