One did last night but I was out of the club thinking about it before my anger flared up a bit. One dancer wanted to argue with me asking why not after I told her no. I don't want any dances. After a couple of minutes of arguing she asked if I was gay. I said No. I thought that was an insult. I should have told her I thought she looked a bit ugly in return but my anger is sometimes delayed if I had a good night. I just did not want another dance. To top if off she asked for a tip for her time she spent arguing with me.
I seem to get angrier thinking about these dancers I encounter after leaving the club. I was trying to not let it bother me but typing this up helps get it out of my system. My night was pretty good other than the ending.
I have done a much meaner sounding rejection to a couple of dancers but sometimes it seems like they go over in a corner and seem to sulk as if I hurt them.
I need the measured level of increasing rejection.
Level one. No, no thanks, maybe later. Works 98 percent of the time.
Level two. She wants to argue afterwards, why not? You give out a lie to get rid of her.
Level three. She still continues to argue, why not? or some other excuse. Lay it on her.
Just in case this helps anyone else. I know some guys will lay it on a dancer from the getgo.
I offered to give this insulting dancer a dollar to get rid of her since she was a friend of another dancer I liked. However when she saw it was only a dollar, she said it was an insult to only tip a dollar. I gave her another to get rid of her. Afterwards, I wish I had not since she did not deserve it at all.
Maybe she'll stay away if I see her again. I told her I tip all the dancers just one dollar. Whenever I see the dancer who dropped her off again, I'll avoid getting dances from her as well for a while now. If she asks why I'll tell her why. I do not like her friend. aahhh, maybe that's inviting more stripper drama, I'll just tell her no without telling why unless she's persistent too.